-I like this girl and was going to ask her out
-everyone is telling me not to ask her because she is a $LUT
-its true, she has been with a lot of guys and done it with em
-but i still like her a lot and want to be with her
-i have no idea if she likes me or not
-should i ask her out or not? why or why not
2007-10-24 10:25:36 · 16 answers · asked by The Great One 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
~i wuld hafta say stop listening to everyone else and do what u wana do and what makes u feel happy!!
2007-10-31 22:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by wynnbinn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God I hate that word. ... why is it when you guys are with different women you all do the high fives and give each other pats on the back but when a girl does the exact same thing you call her that name. You know sometimes unfortunately us women equate sex with love and maybe she just wants to be loved and feel special...You seem like a pretty decent guy because you seem to be willing to overlook her past and still like her.... take the chance and you might be surprised. When someone treats us right and with respect we can be very loyal and I am sure if you were that way with her she would be the same way. But whatever you decide please just dont put labels on people it is mean and degrading and no one knows what that other person is going through....
Good luck
2007-10-24 11:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, for your sake. Love is blind, but that doesn't mean that you need to be as well. You may like her, and she might like you, but there are plenty of good reasons not to date her - one, if you care about social status, people are going to decide you're an idiot or else you want her to do her. Two, she's going to want to go fast and most likely you'll get on the list of guys she's done, or else she'll drop you because you don't do enough. Three, if she uses you and drops you, it's not worth the heartbreak.
That said, you'll probably ask her out anyway, and two months later you'll be back on YA bemoaning your luck and how all females are horrible.
2007-10-24 10:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
for starters you dont know for sure if she is a $lut or not.....that boy talk....remember boys will be boys she actually may ave not given anyone anything and they wuld still talk.....obviously u dont know what to do because of the fact that you will be going out with the "town bike" but who gives a fcuk bout what they think if they did have sex with her then why are they not calling themselves sluts i cant understand that at all.....if a girl sleeps around she a slut but if a boy sleeps around hes the man!!!!!......it rediculous if this girl has any sense then she will go out with u no bother u seem genuine follow ur hart and fcuk the lads u may think that u need them but when they find a girl that they really like u will be the lst person they think of i hope all goes well for u!!!
2007-10-25 03:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bird 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like her you should ask her out. If she has slept around she will be happy there is someone out there that knows her past but likes her anyways. Be prepared to get a lot of heat for it though. If you do end up hooking up, use a condom!!!!!
2007-10-24 11:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by Lely 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go for her. If she really is what you've heard, she'll more than likely use you, and get rid of you and go to someone else. That may sound brutal. But you could also try to get to know her more, and maybe find out what she's really like from hand on experiences rather than listening to others.
2007-10-24 10:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK here's the deal.....ask her out! she probably isn't a slut. it could be the case where females are jealous of her looks and males are pissed of that she wont put out on the first date, so they hide their hurt feeling by calling her a slut. just because she dated a lot of guys doesn't mean she's a slut either. maybe she doesn't want to be tied down to one guy maybe she feels that she's too young to be serious with someone
2007-10-24 10:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should ask her out... Everyone is not you and she isn't everyone else... Diferent strokes for different folks! Try it and see what you come up with! And if she has a nasty attitude, then tell her " That's why they call you a SLUT" and laugh in her face.. lol Just playing... But do you!
2007-10-24 10:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok why do you realllllyyyy want to go out with her?.....If you really like her and not b/c of the name she has made for herself, then ask her, but be careful if you do, b/c she'll prob say yes, prob. cheat on ya and/or cause you to have a bad name as well. "Birds of a feather -flock together".
2007-10-24 10:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your just gona get hurt bro. $luts always hurt the guys that like them cuz they cant stay with just one guy. so i mean if you want to give it a shot them be my guest
2007-10-24 10:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what i would do is this-go get her-but always keep in the back of your mind the rumours about her-then if she dumps you look at it this way you had your fun-time to move on-in other words if she dumps you then it won't hurt so much cos you half expected it-now go get some fun-but ffs don't fall in love-now THAT could get messy!!!!.
2007-10-24 10:32:26 · answer #11 · answered by tony c 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋