Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

my mom's a total hippie. flowers, bell bottoms, the big van. everything. peace sign. U KNOW! its soo embarassing! WAT DO I DO!?

2007-10-24 08:39:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok its like my husband all of a sudden is accuseing me of cheeting and he get jealious over dum stuff like i cant even throw teh trash shold i just ket him go and do my own thing or should i stay..this is my biggest ?....we have small children and times get hard but really sum tumes i fell like i dont know who he is he doesent try to get things going and he reaely takes me out with him is it cuz im not attracting any more come on ppls please help me im loseing my mind...

2007-10-24 08:38:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Who thinks its would be fun to dress up your husband or boyfriend as a girl all day. all the way. And what you would make him dress in! My hubby is going to be game and let me doll him up!

2007-10-24 08:37:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my hubby in high school, we were married a few months after graduation. It has always been rocky with us, he has moved out its over, by the way not the first time he has left. I need to get on with my life but dont know how. I am 33 years old and single for the first time in my life. I'm feeling lost. How long before I should consider dating? or at all . I want to move on I am done with this man.
I dont work,I am on disability, and have a small group of shared friends. Any advise would be helpful. Thank you.

2007-10-24 08:37:02 · 14 answers · asked by Goawayandstaythere 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Where do you prefer your husband "finishes"? Is there somewhere you DON"T want him to?

2007-10-24 08:36:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sex) with a 21 year old

2007-10-24 08:35:58 · 5 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

This is something I struggle with, as I am, admittedly, not a very good friend. I think I probably am too draining in the long run. What are some ways that you have learned over the years to be a good friend? Have you changed the ways you relate to your friends? If you had one piece of advice to give on how to be a good friend, what would it be?

2007-10-24 08:35:51 · 16 answers · asked by Jack B, goodbye, Yahoo! 6 in Friends

About a month ago I had a huge crush on this girl that I met at a party ( I will call her girl 1 to make things simple). Things were going really well, we were talking on the phone every other night, we had a real nice date, but after awhile it seemed like she started to give me the cold shoulder. I’m pretty sure I was just trying too hard because I liked her a lot. Well I moved on because I thought she wasn’t that interested. I met a new girl (girl-2) to help me get over girl-1. Me and Girl-2 hit it off really well and we are pretty much dating now, the only problem is that she isn’t my “type”( Horrible sense of style, kind of plain looks, and she kind of gave it up easily, but these are all superficial things) Well now Girl-1 is calling me again, asking were I've been and why I haven’t called her. Girl-1 IS my “type” (cute, blonde, really sweet and innocent, I know I’m lame) What should I do, should I stick with Girl-2 because we have all these common interests, and a we can hang out and chill together, even though I hate her sense of style. Or should I put the brakes on girl-2 because I’m scared I’m sleeping with some one that should be a friend, and see if Girl-1 is really interested, I really don’t get the feeling that Girl-1 is a $lut (since ive dated a lot of sluts) and is just starving for attention. Im really sure that I just scared her temporarily because I really tried to pursue her to quickly. I don’t want to be a jerk and string girl-2 along if I'm always thinking about girl-1

2007-10-24 08:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by willmiller82 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my ex broke up 1 yr ago we were really close best friends we had our arguments like everyone but i loved him more than anything i still love him very much so we still talk and even hang out every now and then hell come over and chill with my brothers .....since weve been broke up he has mentioned hoping to be with me in the future but rite now he says hes not ready to settle and wants to be single and party before he gets too old...he even says he loves me every now and then but im tired of waiting i want him back anyone got any ideas....they got to be good lol....and dont say i need to move on cuz i dont want 2 ive heard that enough! plese be nice and help....thanks....
by the way im 22 and hes 19

2007-10-24 08:34:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

about 2 years ago I stopped working out because I "blew out" my knee. I obviuosly lost a lot of muscle, but now that Im back working out again, a girl Im seeing says she doesnt like it cuz Im not as soft to cuddle with.

LOL! What do you really want? Do you even know?
You will say someone like Brad Pitt or Mark wahlberg is crazy hot, but then say you dont like it?? I dont ever hear anyone wowing over will ferrel (although funny)Youre all Crazy! J/K

2007-10-24 08:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have only been married for four months and all of the sudden our sex life has seemed to have stopped completely. He spends almost everyday masturbating to porn. I have asked him if there is anything bothering him or anything and have tried all different ways to initiate but he always has an excuse. Any ideas as to what the heck might be the problem. He has gained alot of weight over the last year and is very self concious, but I myself have lost weight and must say I look damn good. So I'm totally lost. Oh & side note - what is it with men & porn ? Any help is always appreciated cuz I am at ropes end trying to figure this out. Thanks !

(Please no mean comments) !

2007-10-24 08:26:32 · 26 answers · asked by HeazAngel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:21:47 · 56 answers · asked by LoLo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you men think about stretch marks?? Honest answers please does it make the women less attractive?

2007-10-24 08:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a loving relationship with the same man for the past 9 years. He recently lost his job and can not or will not perform in bed. But he spends his day's watching internet porn but will not touch me. WHY??? Can someone please explain this to me.

2007-10-24 08:14:49 · 22 answers · asked by chicoandbaby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my hubby been having issues abt him lying.AND i just had a baby 3 weeks ago. i left one day earlier than him to go to my parents house and he came after. so after 14 days we came home. i went online and he had deleted the history and changed the settings to 12 days.i know sumthing is up. so when he comes in the room i ask him u have one hour to come clean about the websites u visited or what u did online. i said i know where u been but want to hear from u. so he starts crying and begging me that he didn;t go anywhere. he was crying really bad. it was exactly like what he did when i caught hi couple of months earlier with his myspace account listing himself single. but this time he was like show me what u are taking about. i didn't go nowhere. the only thing i had was his temporary internet files. so i deleted his history before him to make him seem like i know alot. i am so lost, i am at fault too. i let his couple of loving words get to me. and i melt. i don't have no solid ...

2007-10-24 08:14:20 · 34 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in TN, I have 2 children with my soon-to-be ex-husband. I have seen a divorce attorney and all the papers have been signed, including the child support worksheet which showed what he was obligated to pay each month. I cannot go to court until I pay my lawyer the remaining $250 that I owe him, and as I haven't gotten any child support to date, I can't pay the attorney (I'm WAY behind on all my other bills)... My question is this: Even though I have a divorce lawyer who is also supposed to get me child support, can I go through human services or the DA's office and get child support that way instead of waiting?

2007-10-24 08:13:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

really care about it now nor do I but I think it will do you good to get off your chest.

2007-10-24 08:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by brady m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this is the deal-e-o, many people find that sex is the eye of their universe, but others see it as just a plus in their marriage. what do you see it as?

i personally dont think i have sex to live, but i do live to have sex (or make love as i call it). i love to make my hubby roll his eyes back in pleasure. its the most beautiful sight. he he he, and i dont agree in having sex with everyone just for the hell'o it, but i do feel that if you have feelings for this person why not?

whats your point?
hope you understood my q?" he he he .................its time to "say good by-e to my hubby" (wink*)

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2007-10-24 08:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A woman cheated on her boyfriend. I knew about it and who she cheated with. She is now married to her boyfriend. The guy she cheated with was the DJ at her wedding reception. Is this bad luck for their wedding? Do you think it was wrong to hire the same person you cheated on your husband with as your DJ at your reception? Wouldn't you be uncomfortable?

2007-10-24 08:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by MixMatch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone want to date someone out of their race, but is affaid of what your kids,family,friends..etc..might say about you doing so?

2007-10-24 08:05:36 · 16 answers · asked by gators gutt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 08:03:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom has 5 kids total, my brother and I are grown up and moved out years ago but the other 3 are aged 9-15. My mom is married to a in my opinion horrible husband/father. She has wanted to leave him for years but never graduated high school and can't get a job that isn't at a retail store. She once tried to go back to school but he made her feel guilty about not staying home with the kids. He ignores my younger siblings when he gets home from work and always puts my mom down and makes her feel worthless. She is back in my hometown and my brother and I moved to another state. I want to help her but I don't know how. She has no other family to support her and she says she can't move out here because its too expensive (my brother and I told her we would help if she moved here because we can't move back home). What can I do to help her? I am best friends with her and talk to her all day everyday but its beginning to seem like its not enough. Please help!

2007-10-24 08:00:13 · 6 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family

Based on what I have seen here, I think it is! Sad......

If you have to ask what I'm talking about, forget it!

2007-10-24 07:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by Smooth Lyrics II 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do u know u love someone?

2007-10-24 07:56:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my lady have been together for about 1 1/2 years. we got back together about 4 months ago. my problem is that she goes out to lunch with "her best friend" on a weekly basis. Keep in mind that this guy is basically married has a kid and his wife is pregnant. I trust my girl, but some how something doesn' t seem right. I found out that when my girl and him go out to lunch or a drink that he doesn't tell his wife. He is a married man and the way I see it instead of wanting to hang out with my girl for lunch or a drink he should be at home with wifey. I told my girl that this was buggin me that they hung out on a weekly basis and she got pissed off. she said that I was so insecure and that there was nothing there and that she is not doing anything wrong. she told me that the reason why he doesn't tell his wife is because he has cheated in the past. I told her well if he is your best friend wouldn' t he want to meet me, but the guy doesn't like me wonder y? what do i do about this

2007-10-24 07:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Bank$ 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my maid of honor (and best friend) like she was one of my sisters, and I would never do anything to hurt her feelings. She's always had trouble with doing her hair and makeup (she's 29). This sounds horrible of me, but she has 80's hair. And I don't mean the now-it-looks-good-again hair, but literally, she styled her hair in 1988 and left it that way. And her makeup is always the wrong shade for her face, not just a little off, but very off with that obvious makeup line on her jaw. For our wedding, I'd like to pay for a day of pampering for her and I, as a special treat for her being such a great M of H. I'd also like to schedule an appointment for her at the salon I'm going to for her hair and makeup. When I've mentioned this idea to my friend, she just tells me it's a waste of money on her, and she can just do her own. I was hoping to help her look as stunning outside as she is inside for the sake of our wedding pictures. How can I pull this off and spare her feelings? Help!

2007-10-24 07:51:26 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i broke up with my ex of 3 years a month ago...it ended really bad he said a lot of horrible things and it was just bad...i wrote a email to him i wasnt going to send it i just wanted to get my feelings down...and out of my head...i basicaly said i miss you but im at peace with my choice and i think we are both better off...that he hurt me alot but i learned from him that i will always think about him and miss him...then i sent it...he cant write me back i blocked his email and i change my number i just had to get out my feelings...he cant contact me but still was that completley stupied...my friends would be pissed if i told them i.... just had so much to say....did i do the right thing

2007-10-24 07:48:38 · 45 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2 in Marriage & Divorce

For those of you who don't know what the dutch oven is, someone passes gas in bed, then shoves their s/o's head under the covers and holds them there. My husband does it to me almost every night, and I am so sick of it! It's disgusting! I can't get him to quit though! He even does it while I'm sleeping. What can I do to break this nasty tradition?

2007-10-24 07:48:07 · 28 answers · asked by dreamer - VT-AM 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 07:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by me1234529 1 in Marriage & Divorce