me and my ex broke up 1 yr ago we were really close best friends we had our arguments like everyone but i loved him more than anything i still love him very much so we still talk and even hang out every now and then hell come over and chill with my brothers .....since weve been broke up he has mentioned hoping to be with me in the future but rite now he says hes not ready to settle and wants to be single and party before he gets too old...he even says he loves me every now and then but im tired of waiting i want him back anyone got any ideas....they got to be good lol....and dont say i need to move on cuz i dont want 2 ive heard that enough! plese be nice and help....thanks....
by the way im 22 and hes 19
2007-10-24 08:34:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
22? And you still don't get it? You still can't grasp how "moving on" is actually part of you maturing into a full woman? I bet you get the impression that because your able to have sex, get a job, and be educated makes you a woman. No afraid not, PRINCIPALS make you a woman, and hunnie dealing with this boy doesn't prove anything other then that your lonely and in love. Sorry its nothing special. MILLIONS apon MILLIONS fallin love and out of it on a daily bases, mostly becuae the relationship are not very deep. Like yours! See you have conditional love for him, its not even true love. You should be happy to have him in your life but instead you pine over him because you "want" him. Its not fair for you or him, thats conditional love, were your only happy loving him, when he's commented to you. So ether love him unconditionally or move on.....
2007-10-25 04:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋