about 2 years ago I stopped working out because I "blew out" my knee. I obviuosly lost a lot of muscle, but now that Im back working out again, a girl Im seeing says she doesnt like it cuz Im not as soft to cuddle with.
LOL! What do you really want? Do you even know?
You will say someone like Brad Pitt or Mark wahlberg is crazy hot, but then say you dont like it?? I dont ever hear anyone wowing over will ferrel (although funny)Youre all Crazy! J/K
2007-10-24 08:31:41 · 18 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, I'll give it a try...Many women like to LOOK at a buff guy (YES, Brad!!!) but, we WANT a real man. Someone who is a little IMperfect...a little soft, maybe a little rough around the edges. Of course, Brad and Beck and all the others have their place in our lives (hello!! It's called fantasy for a reason!) just as Pam and Carmen have their place in yours. But, ultimately, REAL is what we want. Including all your so-called flaws...
2007-10-24 08:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Bree1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man with a good heart is what I like. A fun personality. Believe it or not, looks are not that important to me. What is important is how you treat a woman. There are some nice looking guys out there (and they know it), but all they want is to see how many pants they can get into.
My man has to be sweet, loving, funny, charming and a great kisser. You know looks fade, but everything else stays in place, that's my motto.
Good Luck Sweetie...there is someone out there for ya. Just don't settle.
2007-10-24 08:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only my opinion, so I am not speaking for anyone else.
sure, guys like Brad Pitt are nice to look at, but it's not realistic and not what I would really want in a man. a little muscle is nice, but excessive muscle is not attractive to me at all.
as far as for cuddling and such, I personally would like a little bit of muscle... I guess I enjoy that sense of security... as long as you don't squish me it's all good!
2007-10-24 11:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 04:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK girls may think celebs are hot... but most girls would never go out with them.. What girls really want in a guy is a man that they can cuddle with, talk to, love, hang out with and feel like they have known them for years. All a girl wants is to be treated right and know she is loved... flowers are nice but a foot or back message means sooo much more.. (it means you want to be close to her and arnt afrid to be with her)... Just follow what your girlfriend tells you to do and you'll be fine lol... jk but still its kinda good advice ;)
2007-10-24 08:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by LostGal19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Muscle is good just not overdone. It's comforting. It also could be a way of telling you she likes you how you were and maybe she thinks you're doing it for her, so if she said that then you would stop if it was for her. Or maybe you're overdoing it? Sorry if that made no sense.
2007-10-24 08:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by ShaylaReznor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i wouldnt mind having brad or mark standing there and just looking pretty. but i never wanted a buff guy, it makes me feel ugly and fat. i'd prefer someone softer to cuddle with too. i had my choice of a blacksmith with a killer body, or a guy who was 300+ lbs. i'm marrying the latter of the two!
2007-10-24 08:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Change is hard for some women. If you get all fit and she is not then she doesn't know how that will affect your relationship. Also, show her that strong and tough can be soft and cuddly too.
2007-10-24 08:36:05 · answer #8 · answered by Meg W 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on personal preferences...I think I'd have to agree with her...I like him soft to cuddle
2007-10-24 08:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls are different and have different tastes - irregardless she should love you for you and be happy you are healthy. i personally like a tall - big guy. not fat,but with a lil tummy - and big arms. i would never be attracted to a little skinny guy. maybe - she is jealous you are "getting buff" and it is making her insecure.
2007-10-24 08:36:06 · answer #10 · answered by ♥livingdeadgirl♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋