this is the deal-e-o, many people find that sex is the eye of their universe, but others see it as just a plus in their marriage. what do you see it as?
i personally dont think i have sex to live, but i do live to have sex (or make love as i call it). i love to make my hubby roll his eyes back in pleasure. its the most beautiful sight. he he he, and i dont agree in having sex with everyone just for the hell'o it, but i do feel that if you have feelings for this person why not?
whats your point?
hope you understood my q?" he he he .................its time to "say good by-e to my hubby" (wink*)
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2007-10-24 08:09:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex is boring after awhile. with and without
2007-10-24 08:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lesley. You will find that many people are afraid of their sexual selves and are not able to express themselves sexually because or societal repression and supression. Many people repress themselves.
You are perfectly right in that sex is the center of the universe. It is the one thing that perpetuates the species. A person can live without actively participating in sex, but what a boring and sad life. Being a sexual creature and not enjoying it is like purposely not enjoying beautiful sights, sounds, smells , tastes or the feel of silk on your skin. Hmmm silk, well that makes me think of sex.
Also the best thing is to have someone with whom you can communicate sexually and please each other.
I hope your question and my answer don't get deleted as has been the case with other questions of this nature.
Saludos y mejores deseos desde México.
2007-10-24 15:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that so manny people try to dummy down sex and act like it means absolutley nothing to them, like friends with benefits and one night stands and etc. (not that I am judging because I've been there done that) But I just think that sex with the person you love is FANTASTIC!!! It brings you closer than anything! When you try to water it down by taking the emotion out of it -its just not the same, its may be good but you don't get that uummph! that you feel when your in a good relationship so sex is a major factor for me and my hubbie! We make it do what it do! and were good at!!
2007-10-24 15:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs.G-unit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex isn't the center of the universe, well for me it isn't! I have been married almost 6 years, and quite frankly, I am bored to tears, maybe it's because I am getting older, or maybe it's because it's the same thing every time and I am just not interested! Considering the fact that this is my 3rd marriage, I consider myself to have enough experience to know if something is right for me or not. Yes, the sex is amazing, , but you have to love and respect the person you are having it with to make it totally mind blowing! It doesn't have to be mind blowing every single time, but it is nice when it is! It always makes me wanting more! No, I don't need sex to live, but I need it to center me and keep me calm, what better way to relax than with someone you love and respect, and yes, respect is a huge part of it!
2007-10-24 15:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by chefddr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is fun for a reason...any consenting, responsible, available adults should be able to have sex with whomever they desire.
I don't live for sex, but I sure enjoy the heck out of it when I'm with a partner I dig and we're a good match.
I wouldn't be (romantically) involved with anyone with whom I didn't have a good sexual relationship as well.
2007-10-24 15:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think sex is a big part of any relationship, I dont think I could live without it, and its better when you love or care about someone, it makes it meaningful.
2007-10-24 15:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetpea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need to start video taping on the regular because they always tell me it looks like I'm trying to make a movie the way I long stroke. I take pride in making my women skeet back to back.
2007-10-24 15:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it was just a plus until I had to go without, and now I think it's an absolute necessity.
2007-10-24 15:14:32 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEX is the best gift that god gave to us!! I love everything about it!! I love to make my ladies toes curl til they cramp!! And she enjoys the control issue of it!!
2007-10-24 15:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think sex is the icing on the marriage cake. And I love my icing. :)
2007-10-24 15:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋