About a month ago I had a huge crush on this girl that I met at a party ( I will call her girl 1 to make things simple). Things were going really well, we were talking on the phone every other night, we had a real nice date, but after awhile it seemed like she started to give me the cold shoulder. I’m pretty sure I was just trying too hard because I liked her a lot. Well I moved on because I thought she wasn’t that interested. I met a new girl (girl-2) to help me get over girl-1. Me and Girl-2 hit it off really well and we are pretty much dating now, the only problem is that she isn’t my “type”( Horrible sense of style, kind of plain looks, and she kind of gave it up easily, but these are all superficial things) Well now Girl-1 is calling me again, asking were I've been and why I haven’t called her. Girl-1 IS my “type” (cute, blonde, really sweet and innocent, I know I’m lame) What should I do, should I stick with Girl-2 because we have all these common interests, and a we can hang out and chill together, even though I hate her sense of style. Or should I put the brakes on girl-2 because I’m scared I’m sleeping with some one that should be a friend, and see if Girl-1 is really interested, I really don’t get the feeling that Girl-1 is a $lut (since ive dated a lot of sluts) and is just starving for attention. Im really sure that I just scared her temporarily because I really tried to pursue her to quickly. I don’t want to be a jerk and string girl-2 along if I'm always thinking about girl-1
2007-10-24 08:34:55 · 10 answers · asked by willmiller82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right - you are lame, and incredibly superficial. If you have any character, you will be honest with Girl #2, before she gets any more involved with you. (Being honest includes telling her you're not good enough for her, because all you truly care about, in your little plastic heart,is her lack of looks, style and the fact that she shagged you too early.) In my opinion, the best thing that could happen is for Girl #1 to reel you in and then dump you. But in any event, go with Girl #1. If she's as shallow as you are, you two should have a very happy life being seen at the Mall together.
2007-10-24 08:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by lighght30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Utimately it's your happiness, and if girl number 2 is not making you happy, because you're somewhat settling, then you need to end that relationship. Girl number 2 likes you, but the further you take, the harder it's going to be to break-it-off. So while it's still fresh, you need to just part ways.
Girl 1 is the girl you like...I would go back and try and pursue that relationship...she relized that you stopped trying, so she's not going to play hard to get anymore. Follow your heart and be happy.
Tell girl number 2 that you see her more like a friend. Tell her you enjoyed the time that you spent with her. Hopefully she'll understand.
Good luck!
2007-10-24 08:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one who you will be happy with and it kinda sounds like #1 is the kind of $lut that will cheat on u with a different guy!!
2007-10-24 08:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You %. the female which you have the main in elementary with. And, continually gradual dance with somebody to work out how genuine the chemistry is. you are able to play some song on your dwelling house or her dwelling house; ensue the quantity on your motor vehicle radio and hop out of the vehicle and gradual dance along with her interior the moonlight. that permit you be attentive to 2 issues that are considerable: How spontaneous she would be and if the chemistry is somewhat ultimate between you. That became how I knew as quickly as I had met the affection of my existence...the minute I gradual danced with him. by no skill had I experienced something like it beforehand, nor on the grounds that. And once you're dancing along with her, you will sense your coronary heart telling you the respond you presently seek for. My terrific to you, and that i admire you for no longer being a cad and participant. Whichever female gets you would be an exceptionally fortunate one certainly!
2016-12-30 04:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy, you don't have to "pick". How old are you? no need to rush into anything. play the field. and let them know you are dating more than just them. Take your time and you'll figure out which one you really want.
2007-10-24 08:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are overthinking the question...
simplify it: Who do you want to be with
Who do you PICTURE yourself being happy with
If the "pros and cons" list isn't making up your mind, then you have to trust your gut.
2007-10-24 08:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by Golis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look at the good and bad things they have, and see the one that is better...
2007-10-24 08:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by shay_132 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make them fight for you. Or just pick the one that puts out more.
Have fun.
2007-10-24 08:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny Z 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
***** them both and then just start fresh with number 1 if you really like her that much
2007-10-24 08:40:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
not the $lut
2007-10-24 08:37:57 · answer #10 · answered by Pumpkin Pie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋