A woman cheated on her boyfriend. I knew about it and who she cheated with. She is now married to her boyfriend. The guy she cheated with was the DJ at her wedding reception. Is this bad luck for their wedding? Do you think it was wrong to hire the same person you cheated on your husband with as your DJ at your reception? Wouldn't you be uncomfortable?
2007-10-24 08:07:46 · 18 answers · asked by MixMatch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thank you for your responses. I wanted to add that I don't think her husband knows she cheated, let alone that the DJ was the one she cheated with.
2007-10-24 08:36:17 · update #1
By the way, for the comments that I need to mind my own business...I just wanted to know if people thought it was wrong. I don't care about what she does, that's her marriage. Just keep your smart comments to yourself. Please.
2007-10-24 08:38:21 · update #2
When I ask 'Wouldn't you be uncomfortable?' I mean if you were her not me. If you were in a situation where someone you messed around with, whether you cheated with them or not, was at your wedding or reception, would you feel comfortable?
2007-10-24 08:43:04 · update #3
I don't think it was right for her to get the DJ for her wedding to be there if she had an affair with him..It would be bad luck if the word got out and around. Hopefully she did not tell to many people. I know you are a good friend to keep to yourself but it is not something i would be comfortable with myself. I would be sure she did not spread it around too much because it is going to come back and kick her in the XXXXX which she deserves.. ITS LIKE RUBBING IT IN THE GROOMS FACE.. IF HE WERE TO FIND OUT...ESPECIALLY FOR HIS SPECIAL DAY.THE BRIDE DOES NOT HAVE MUCH OF A CONSCIENCE
2007-10-24 08:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Everything about it is wrong.
She cheated on him, and showed him no respect by flaunting that guy in his face when he doesn't have a clue, and what's more on a day which is supposed to be theirs!
Now, unless this guy is a member of your family, or your very best friend, you need to mind your own business and let her dig her own hole.
What's more, you don't know what they share as husband and wife.
Just let go, and at least you can wonder if you see a woman singing at your marriage. LOL!
2007-10-24 15:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
I would be really uncomfortable because there might be a chance that the dj would ruin the wedding and she should tell her boyfriend bc thats not right he should know thats almost like tricking him to marry her
2007-10-24 15:14:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
That is really between her and her (now) husband. It's none of your business what goes on between them. Maybe they worked it out, maybe she deceived her husband, but rule #1 is to never, ever, ever get involved in other people's relationships.
I don't believe in cheating, but I do think there's a massive difference between cheating on a boyfriend who you have NOT promised to remain faithful to for the rest of your life, and cheating on your husband who you HAVE promised lifelong faithfulness.
2007-10-24 15:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
MOst definitely that was wrong of her to invite that DJ to her wedding, to me it sounds like she would cheat again. That is so disrespectful and they both have nerves!!
2007-10-24 15:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tears are *Diamonds* 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
umm she'll probably cheat again, actually if she hired the dj, then that was cheating again. thats a horrible way to start a marriage. Pray for them and maybe God will help, but that sounds really really bad.
2007-10-24 15:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by bakerchris 2 · 6⤊ 2⤋
If she was sacrificing live kittens at her reception, THAT would make me uncomfortable; but what people do in their personal lives is none of my business. They're all adults, and can sort out their own dramas.
2007-10-24 15:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
that's just tacky and disrespectful. i can only assume the boyfriend/husband didn't know, because i can't imagine him wanting to give money to the person who slept with his girlfriend/wife!
2007-10-24 16:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by hh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong, and I hope the husband never finds out.
2007-10-24 15:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned? If they were both able to pretend nothing happened, what's the problem? I'm not saying what they did was right or wrong, but whatever. And if she wasn't married or engaged at the time, who cares?
2007-10-24 15:15:17 · answer #10 · answered by ron-D 7 · 4⤊ 2⤋