hes obviously dating you for sex.
just ask him if he would stay with you if you didnt want to for a while
if he says no then leave him
he only wants you for sex
2007-10-24 11:57:25
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, how old are you? If you are younger than 18 remember you have your whole life to be intimate with someone. Don't feel pressure just because he is asking. Sometimes we let our desires get in the way of thinking clearly. Don't do something because you feel pressure do it because you want to, that goes for everything in life. Two months is not a long time when you really think about it. Do you know if this guy has been with other women? If so, you should really think about asking him to get checked for STDs and HIV before you even consider having sex with him! Not only that, but sex is not a way to keep this guy interested in you! Dazzle him with your wonderful personality, flirt with him, kiss him, make him wait!
2007-10-24 20:02:02
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answered by NICOLE B 1
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i think you should go with how you feel. you might think that when a guy is asking and you dont say no that hes gona get mad but in fact a lot of guys actaully end up having a lot more respect for you in the end. having respect for yourself i very attractive and it shows them that when they do get it its specail because you obvoiusly dont give it up to just eveyrone. i think you should take your time and see if hes someone you want to give yourself too. if you feel like your ready for a sexual relationship with him then go for it but remember that having sex early in the relationship can be a bad idea. sometimes people get attactched and everything gets more confusing. i dont know your situation so i might be exaqherating but thats my advice. sorry about the spelling. good luck girl = ]
2007-10-24 19:03:27
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answered by itswhatumakeit 6
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Wow, two whole months. Think about it, yall could have kids, and get married, move into the ghetto, have ten, maybe tweleve kids, get jobs at Goodwill sorting clothes. I'd say do it, have a few kids, heck, two out of three of my x-wives have 3 kids each, by different fathers.
2007-10-24 19:00:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Well it doesn't sound like it's been 2 months of being in a relationship, more like you're friends, right? Don't do it, it'll ruin the friendship.
2007-10-24 18:58:55
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answered by cindos_69 5
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Why not? You planning to be a virgin bride? It's the 21st century. Try having (safe) sex and find out all the things you like and don't like before you move in with a guy who won't be able to please you.
2007-10-24 19:04:17
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answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7
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dont do it seriously i made the mistake of doing it around that time and it wasnt even because he was asking about it i just really wanted to and i thought he cared alot about me two weeks later guess what? we broke up.
i suggest u should wait
2007-10-24 19:04:26
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answered by sherrie 2
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girl only do it if you really love eachother and you feel in your heart that you are ready if not its only gonna hurt you inside and out. you want it too be something special between the both of you. so sit down with him and talk too him about what you want and see if you are ready. because if you cant even talk about it thats the one clue you are so not ready. best of luck
2007-10-24 18:59:53
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on how many times you have been out and whether or not you are ready. If you are not then don't have sex.
2007-10-24 18:57:09
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answered by Monkey007 5
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Well, you've waited longer than a lot of people. It's all about you, darling. Don't do it because he wants to. Do it because you want to. And if you don't want to, that's ok too! My hubby had to wait a LONG time. He decided that I was worth it. :)
2007-10-24 18:57:29
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answered by copswife134 3
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