I am a 20 year old straight guy and worrying about my performance in the bedroom.
I do really enjoy sex but I never seem to last that long? I try and extend the length of time having sex by a lot of foreplay but I get so turned on when it comes to intercourse I end up coming within minutes of starting! The only time I seem to be able to last a bit longer is when I'm drunk!
Also my mates always tell me how they come three sometimes four times in a night and go for a few hours but I just don't understand it? They are a lot older than me and I guess more experienced but surely there are ways of controlling this and being able to come more than once in a night?
2007-10-24 11:28:01 · 11 answers · asked by southernlad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok Dude slow it down a little and if you feel it coming to a boil then start giving her oral or finger so you don't come so soon.if you do end up coming after that play with her and get hard again as soon as possible to go again.
2007-10-24 11:33:51 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend has the same "problem" (he is 18 and has only slept with me) what he does is Masturbate for about 20 Min's before like in the shower that really makes a defence. Or once you have had sex and have come then have a brake for about half hour and the restart foreplay with your girlfriend for "round two" Plus don't listen to what your mates say they might be lien to you and everyone is different! :)
2007-10-24 11:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do muscle exercises.Pull your muscle up under your b#lls next
to your anus from your inside.It will feel like clenching and continue for a while.You will think your still doing it but will find
your tired and are not.Do it when your standing or sitting.No one
will notice.When you have sex your will be able to control your
sperm.By stopping it, allowing a little, or all.Without missing a
stroke.Just by clenching when you need to.
2007-10-24 11:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you get older you will be able to hold it longer. also after you ***, rest for a few minutes while either you or the girl plays with you until you get hard again. then you will last longer the second time around. or masturbate a few hours before you have sex. that will do it too.
2007-10-24 11:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really help with the lack of amount, except I guess by saying have a healthy diet and cut back on the booze.
As for control, gently squeezing the tip before you finish can slow it down.
2007-10-24 11:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an under-developed pubococcygeus muscle. This is normal.There are workouts for endurance you can do while getting some size on as well.Try The Arabic Jelq method or kegels ,or both..
2007-10-24 11:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Civic_Drifter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just focus on other **** like what u gone eat in the mornin, that spot thats on the wall, who will win the world series, how many people gone piss you off at work anything but the fact that u gettin *****
2007-10-24 11:32:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If 2 people are in love, and their sex life is "off the boil," they should be doin something about it! There are plenty of ways to "relight the flame," the couple just has to be committed enough to want to fix it. (And keep it sexy!)
2016-05-25 14:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chad has the same problem and he's 26 maybe the pu$#y is just really good!
2007-10-24 11:35:57 · answer #9 · answered by NIK J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 16 and i can get 2 or 3 out. maybe you are crap in bed
2007-10-24 11:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋