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my boyfriend keeps getting pictures and texts on his mobile off one of those chat and date numbers.Im wondering if he would of had to text it at first for him them to have his number? he's said he's not but i dont know what to think! just wondered if he's lying!!!x

2007-10-24 13:54:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

it says on it (service message)

2007-10-24 14:01:04 · update #1

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Yes, that's something he would have had to sing up for. That's pretty lame, only a total looser would be that desperate.
Plus, don't let him tell you one of his friends must have had it sent to his phone as a prank or something because I bet they send a message confirming your order or something like that.
Really sounds like he's lying!!!!

2007-10-24 14:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 6 · 0 0

Perhaps this experience will teach her to leave things alone that don't belong to her! ;) Seriously though, you made a mistake, but one good thing came of it. Your daughter realizes that you are a woman with a sex life. That's not altogether a bad thing! She will give you more privacy and maybe come to you when she has problems or questions. Moms are human, they are women, and they are fallible. Now she knows. If you feel the need to talk to her and clear the air, just explain to her that what she saw was private and you work very hard to be discreet about your private life. That makes you a single woman, not a ****. You can't help what people send to your phone. She may someday find herself in a similar situation. Tell her how to protect herself from this kind of invasion of privacy, such as putting a password on phones, emails, etc. and being very discerning about the people you spend time with and give your email address and phone numbers to. Tell her you're sorry she found this and you will be more discreet in the future. Don't be angry with her for sharing the information. She was scared and confused, and needed somebody to talk to. After you have your chat, act normally and be the mom she's used to. No need to discuss further unless she brings it up. Good luck!!

2016-04-10 03:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

He has got to be registered for a site to send him correspondance--if he didn't want it--he would not get it--he is lying and probably he is not understanding the disrespect he is showing you---so don't spend anymore time with this guy--he sounds like a creep and probably not for you. Real men do NOT do this stuff.

2007-10-24 14:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0 0

He did it, he is lying, he likes porn. Okay you know all of that, now are you willing to still have a relationship with someone that likes to spend money on porn, rather than spend money on you, not to mention how sick some of that stuff is.

2007-10-24 14:06:50 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0 0

he may be lying but like the old saying goes "boys will be boys" if he is i don't think it's that serious.it's not like he's cheating on you don't worry . if texting some one is all he's doing consider yourself lucky

2007-10-24 14:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

sometimes they Will add your name without you signing up. All he have to do is text them and tell to quit texting and if he can't do that then I would think something was up.

2007-10-24 14:09:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

at some point you HAVE to text the numbers to the place to get them to send you the crap.. its in the contract because they charge you for it

2007-10-24 13:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Clairenicole 1 · 0 0

sounds like he is lying

2007-10-24 13:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by xmimixkiwix 2 · 0 0

I would think he would have to connect with them first, so you are probably justified to question this.

2007-10-24 13:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by winona e 5 · 0 0

it sounds like it

2007-10-24 13:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by fun_gurl 2 · 0 0

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