i'm 21 hes 27. we meet on myspace. we only talk on yahoo messenger while he is at work. and all we have are hook ups. when i see him in person its only for a hook up so i don't want to ask him to come over and him think that he is going to get some and end up i just wanted to break up with him. I trust him when i talk to him and i care about him so much but i don't know why but i alway doubt him when i'm not talking to him. maybe deep down i know that he is just playing me but i just don't want to be alone anymore. but hes works all the time, he doesn't have a cell phone or a house phone. I do have trust issues with everyone i don't even trust my family. so i don't really know what to do. Back to my question How bad would it be to break up with him on yahoo messenger? what do you think i should do? any thing would help a lot!! I'm so confuesed.Thank you for any help you give.
2007-10-24 16:35:15 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Straight out and to the point. Tell him exactly how you feel.
2007-10-24 16:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do the right thing and break up with him in person. Do you have any respect for this guy? If it were the other way around, how upset would you be if he broke up with you over yahoo messenger? You've got to put yourself in his shoes for a second and think about what you're going to do here. Just let him know that you want to talk. Maybe say something like "Lets meet up for coffee, I'd like to talk about stuff." and tell him there.
2007-10-24 16:41:44 · answer #2 · answered by EKMP 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok sweety GO FOR IT ! from what im getting he only wants you for a booty calL once in a while anyway. and NO phone? come on this is the real world you can't hardly get a job if you don't have a phone, and if he lied to you about that then hes probably got a girl or wife around his age and wanted to tap some younger booty there are liars and cheaters everywhere so I would just get it over with. I dont mean to sound mean but I hate it when a guy takes advantage of a girl or even vice-versa you are doing the right thing
2007-10-24 16:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by child4jc74 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend broke up with me twice over the internet. He's the exact same age as you. Thing is, I'm a few years younger, and I would NEVER think to break up with some one over the internet. You're an adult. You need to be civil and at least just end it over the phone. Doing it over the internet...wow...we can all use the internet as a safety net and as an excuse for everything. If you broke up with him over Yahoo Messenger your relationship will still end, but your weakness will still show. Don't think I'm being cruel - maybe a little bitter. But I expect more from you so-called adults and your break-up skills.
2007-10-24 16:39:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right when you said he doesn't have a cell phone or a house phone, that tells me that this guy is lying to you. Everyone needs to have a some kind of phone, especially if they have to work! You can break up with him over the net if you guys aren't a serious couple. Otherwise, do it in person because it's pathetic.
2007-10-24 16:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just simply tell the man that you would prefer to just be friends there is nothing wrong with that and if you have trust issues as many of us do be careful about getting into the same situation.Its not how you break up with him it is that you do it with consideration If you can talk to him ok then why not just be friends however you need to keep to your dicsion and not lead him on in anyway.Be fair on your self but also be fair on him.
2007-10-24 16:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well just try to talk to him a bit more when you have the chance and if he really cares and understands he should be honest and tell you whats going on, and ask him to get a cell but dont call him constantly beacuse thats a real pain, If a girl was breakin up with me id hate it to b on chat ,just show up to his house when he is not working/busy and if you really wana break up with him and your mind is set so then do it
2007-10-24 16:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends, if you say that he's always working than maybe yahoo messenger may be the only way you can break with him. But that's still kind of harsh, try to break up with up with him in person, if you can't...then I guess its OK to break up with him on yahoo.
2007-10-24 16:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not gonna be that bad as if some one break face to face. U r right of not having faith on the one whom u know through messenger. But if u wanna give one chance go ahead n meet him n then decide. Gud luck.
2007-10-24 16:40:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in retrospect breaking up with someone online is rude but in your case you said he has no cell phone and no house phone and like you said if he comes over to your house he will expect the deed i think breaking up over the internet in this case is very much needed trust me i am a 22 yr old who also found love over the internet but turns out it was just lust but we are still the best of friends to this day just tell this dude you dont see yourself going any further as lovers but as friends we can go for a lifetime
donald m.
2007-10-24 16:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Donald M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's a terrible way to break up with someone. You owe it to him and yourself to do it in person so you both can say what needs to be said. Don't take the cowards way out. Be kind. Maybe you should quit having sex with him and see if your relationship exists out of the bedroom. Then you can decide if you still want to break up with him. You just don't sound too sure that you want to end it.
2007-10-24 16:41:44 · answer #11 · answered by kimberbahr2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋