How do I tell my bud he's acting childish?

Question

My buddy dated a girl for two weeks and then she cheated on him. Now he still follows her around like a puppy. it's so embarrassing. How do I tell him to get over it without hurting his feelings? Everytime we hang out, all he talks about is her. Ughhh...

Answer 1

He must really care for her. You need to be supportive, because he is probably hurting inside. Just tell him that she wasn't good enough for him, and that one day he will find a girl that is deserving of all he has to give. Tell him that he needs to focus on something or someone else, and that talking about her is not going to make her a better person.

Answer 2

u got to tell him that shes not going to be the only girl, tell him that since hes been most of his life without her he'll be able to get over her since hes only known her for so long. dont worry this will pass hes just a little excited from all the new stuff hes been doing im sure. hope this helped <3

Answer 3

He knows she cheated on him and he is still like that? What a moron. Go to a bar (I hope your over 21) buy him a couple drinks and have a chat with him. Don't use words like she's a slut ect because he will get defensive. But remind him that it was two weeks before she cheated and it won't change. Does she still want him? People are crazy

Answer 4

First find out what his feeling for this girl, second if you guys are real close friend and he respect you and trust you to help him and point out any thing that will hurt him then just sit him down and tell him what you see.

Answer 5

i did that with a girl and my bro was like stop being so stupid! lol I didn't get hurt, knew he was right... he showed me that she wasn't a good person, just really really hott.

tell if he isn't getting anything from her (a real relationship or sex) then forget about her. He will only get hurt more, if he keeps on doing that.

goodluck man
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