Like, if you had a bf; would you mind that he looks at women on the TV(if they where naked)? Or if you where a guy and you had a gf, would it be approprate for her to look at other guys (on TV) and vise versa except about in real life?
Like, what are the boundries (especially for a womans perspective) in a relationship?
Could I get some really good feedback ;_; Any opinion is appreciated ^_^ /bow
2007-10-24 20:41:30 · 9 answers · asked by Aubrey C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looking is fine. I don't care which girls my bf looks at, either real or on tv. There are girls out there hotter than me, that's just the way it is. But he seems very attracted to me, and I'm the one he's banging. It would be weird if we didn't naturally see the beauty in other bodies.
I wouldn't care if he saw something hot and thought it was hot. To be honest I would do that with guys too.
Any emotional relationship, touching or extended fantasties would be going too far though IMHO. Cos that's cheating and then there's no point in continuing the relationship.
2007-10-24 20:49:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me there is no rules about my man or myself looking at the opposite sex. I mean its common sense to know you don't drool over any one right there in your guy's or even woman's prescence. Called having some respect for your partner as they are right there with you. But as for looking at naked women or men on tv or on the computer, or even clothed people on the street, its fine by me. I mean people are going to be around everywhere, with clothes on or not. So why make it such a big deal as to say don't look at them? And if it were me dating you, I would just say something sexy to you and get you hot for me and then the other chick doesn't even matter anymore. So again not a issue.
2007-10-24 20:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In a secure relationship, it wouldn't be an issue. But that requires trust and faith in each other. A significant other would need to be without insecurities to accept that. Example: I couldn't care less what my spouse looked at before he had an extra marital affair, now any overt interest in the opposite sex makes me uncomfortable.
2007-10-24 20:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by Noelle M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Discrete looking is perfectly okay, but you shouldn't make a show of it and you should reserve your comments.
I might suggest a woman is attractive in discussion with my wife, but I don't suggest I'm attracted to her, and if my wife says she isn't that great I don't argue the point.
I don't comment on a woman's breasts or other physical attributes when I'm with my wife. I might comment on a hair style or a dress but I'm not going to make a big deal of it and I am not going to draw comparisons.
I'm old enough to pretty much be out of circulation, and so is my wife.
She might comment on an attractive man, and I don't take offense at it. Long as she doesn't seriously suggest she ought to kill me for the insurance money so she can run off with him.
2007-10-24 20:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nope I dont care. I am secure enough in myself to honestly not care. I took my boyfriend to a strip-club with a bunch of friends one time... didnt matter since I trust him. But honestly it depends on the girl and the level of comfortability of the relationship. Most girls get jealous easily, I don't. Check with the girl as to the boundaries, if she gives you a glare when you look at a cute girl walking by... thats her boundary! Just follow her lead. And remember, if you are checking out hott girls, dont be upset if she watches a gorgeous guy walk by.
2007-10-24 20:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Falconer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A die hard Boston Red Socks fan will still look over at a ball game regardless of the teams playing. He is still faithful to his home team.
2007-10-24 20:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by amedia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may differ according to the couple. If you are watching a movie with nudity it's hard not to look at them. If you don't want each other to be able to see it then don't get movies with nudity in them.
It depends on your level of trust. It does not bother me for my wife to see men because I trust her.
2007-10-24 20:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As long as that's all he does.
2015-02-05 18:21:10 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A glance is one thing, but staring, gawking, winking, flirting are unacceptable. Porn is unacceptable.
2007-10-24 21:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋