my husband doesnt see that his mom
is trying to make us get a divorce
he doesnt even want to talk about it
how can i get him to see the proublum?
2007-10-24 20:39:30 · 12 answers · asked by cher 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ur in for a life of disappointment..
if he will not listen now.. just think what it will be like in the next couple of years??? sounds like he is a mama's boy..
he should never put her over u..
and he should be compassionate enough too listen to Ur concerns..
U need so set him down and set him straight or .. have second thoughts abut what u are involved with?????
hope u do not have any kids at this time..
Moms are very protective of their sons.. and the best thing u can do is move away.. and start over fresh.. w/o her in Ur life..
2007-10-24 22:40:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1st no one can make anyone get a divorce. I don't know what his mother has done or is doing to you however, the more you fight and have conversation after conversation with your husband about his mother she wins.
Work on your marriage and leave your mother in law out of it.
Let her talk about you and do what ever. Ignore her. The same way he doesn't want to hear you complain about his mother he also has not interest in hearing his mom bitc* about you.
Go on a date with your husband and enjoy.
2007-10-25 02:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you try to get him to turn against his mother because of your feelings that will turn him against you after all that is HIS mother, what I would do is be the best wife you can be and show him you want to try to get along with her, in the long run she will just look bad.. But if you fight it, it is a loose loose situation. I am sure she will get used to you after a while, mine did.... She tried to break us up and was rude to me but she is cool now.
2007-10-24 20:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by cindy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt if you know my mother in law, so I would say that you do not hate her.
2016-05-25 18:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by charmaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to point out the same reasons you think she is trying to cause this. if it convinced you, it should convince him. also I know from experience. all Mom's try to do things like that. so try and point out a few things. he will not admit this because he also loves his Mom, and in a way he is caught in the middle. and doesn't know which way to turn with out hurting the other. so he does not want to face this. if you are living in her house. get out fast, get a place for only you and your husband. or you will lose out.
2007-10-24 20:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like mama is always right in his opinion. If you live close move. Family and money problems break up sooo many marriages
2007-10-24 20:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by La Dee Da 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all stop blaming your mother-in-law.
Take responsibility for your own actions! It is your marriage.
2007-10-25 03:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by proud grandma 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
weather she is or not.maybe he doesn't see it as a problem.
try to ignore her maybe shes trying to stir up trouble for some reason and your falling for it
2007-10-24 20:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by bluesky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. But I would sit her down and tell her to mind her business when it comes to you and your hubby. Good luck =]
2007-10-24 21:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ღ♥Alisa♥ღ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never argue over mommy she'll win every time
2007-10-24 22:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋