It’s my mistake that I consider her an innocent and noble girl.
I love her very much and of course too possessive for her.
After some time she tell me her past two love affairs and swears that nothing remains illegal in her life. After 3 year when I planned to marry her, she again clears herself by telling a horrible sex rap on her. Without knowing her involvement I just trust and forgive her past sins or mistakes bcz she also loves me very much.
But it’s too much.....
Being with me she again flirt a guy and accepted her guilty before me. It becomes a great shock for me when I prepared everything to marry her. I take it sensitively and explore her more and succeed to get 2 more love affairs.
She begging me for her life but I am too much careful and sorrowful now. It seems that she will die without me.
Just 2 months remains in our dream life.
But now I am scattered with tension. plz help me...
2007-10-24 22:01:39 · 7 answers · asked by aapkafaheem 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes, hon.. U have suffered enough on this one..
move on.. too much sadness .. too must betrayal.. too much tooo forgive..
it will be hard to let go.. !!!!
so do not talk to her or see her.. u will be sucked back in..
take care of Ur self and love Ur self first, ~~~~~
before putting some one ahead of Ur own needs..
good luck and take care..
2007-10-24 22:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes and would like to forget them but what she should have done was to tell you everything about her past when you two met that way know surprises. If she is flirting with guys now if i understood you right when will it end.I think she is a bad one and you will be better off without her. Don't listen to your heart listen to your brain it knows what's right. You can't be that desperate to marry this girl, but if you really love her and you think you can trust her now then go for it it's your life not mine or anyone else's.
2007-10-25 05:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel that if she is done1& she did it again and also flirts in your presence it's not worth it and not ment to be. You are very lucky cos she showed you her true colours b4 you married her. If you do give her a second chance you could be setting yourself a bear-trap. You don't want to get married and a few months down the line have regrets,do you????????? Be ready to be hurt if you do.I wouldn't encourage you to go ahead with the marrige.
GOOD LUCK
2007-10-25 05:35:16 · answer #3 · answered by ms avarage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her forgive her and move on. My wife was with plenty of men before me but that is in the past. It makes her good and experienced for me.
2007-10-25 05:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love her enough then you will forgive her for whatever has happened and will live the life you have always wanted.. don't give up on your relationship....you will terribly reget it..... good luck with whatever you may choose to do! ! !
2007-10-27 11:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only say if you really love her, you give her a chance again , synchronously, give yourself a chance.
2007-10-25 05:18:52 · answer #6 · answered by Alice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not much of a dream if it's scattered huh
2007-10-25 05:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋