Do you think he likes me? Please be honest!?

Question

There is this guy. He keeps staring at me and when I look his way he pretends he is busy doing something. He always write notes to me, that says.. " Hi how was your weekend?" or "How have you been?". He always comes up to me and say hello. Sometimes when he see me, and I look at him he pretend that he didn't see me. Do you think he likes me? And what should I do?
Thanks for reading! xox

Answer 1

Probably the best way to know if a guy likes you is to simply ask him, but we all know that can be a challenge. So, here are a few clues to working out if he likes you as much as you like him.

1. Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that he will lean towards you.
2. Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.
3. Talk a lot. Does he seem happy to see you?
4. Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, he may be shy.
5. Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.
6. Keep an eye out. His pupils will dialate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.
7. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.
8. Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).
9. Smile. A big smile in return is a good sign.
10. See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.
11. Notice the way he treats you, does he playfully tease you, or call you names, just to try and get your attention? It's natural for a guy to tease when he likes a girl, but remember, someone can still tease someone, even if they aren't attracted to them. But remember, some guys simply will not tease you.
12. Have a friend of yours who is basically "unknown" to the guy ask him what he thinks about other girls, soon come to you (as one of his questions) and tell her to pay attention to obstacles and what he says about you.
13. Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile? Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you. Also if you call his name... note if his head snaps around right away or does it turn gradually?
14. If the guy wants to talk to you all the time there is a good chance that he will like you!
15. If he starts acting nicer when you're around him then he probably has a thing for you.
16. He'll say yes to all the things you ask him to do.
17. He'll treat you differently than other girls. See how he acts with other girls compared to how he treats you.
18. He looks at you alot everytime you smile or laugh.
19. Sometimes when guys ask you questions and other people distract the conversation or cut him off, he'll just forget about it. If you notice that he keeps asking or changing the subject back to the question until you answer, then he may like you. Watch out, though, because if the topic is something serious like a death or whatnot, he may just want to know for no aparrent reason.
20. Sometimes boys will yell and run away whenever you see them this is probably a sign that he likes you but it often means hes a bit childish too.
21. A boy may act immature around you, like poking you or teasing when he is younger or immature as a way to show he likes you. But there is a difference between flirting and being just plain mean.
22. If the boy seems to always want to hang out, he may like you.
23. Normally, most guys try to keep you in view for as long as possible. He may tend to look around a lot, and stop when he finds you. Or if you happen to be looking at him when he does this, he'll look over you and pretend to be searching for something else.
24. All of the above can help you figure out if he likes you. But, what if you just met him and don't know him enough to get him to start openly flirting with you? Here's how to figure it out, but its not easy to see.

He may subtly look at you but almost always make it look like he is looking at the girl next to him. But, if you look at the black part of his eye and it points at you not at the girl, he's looking at you.

25. If he ever goes out of his way to talk to you, like if he goes to the other side of the school to talk to you because he knows you have a class there.

If he just comes up to ask you a question and he is obviously looking at you, there is one technique that always works but you have about 5 seconds to do it. When he asks you the question look into the black part of his eyes(takes about 3 seconds) then stare into them(the last 2 seconds) then answer him and remember if a guy likes you he will stumble his words


* If he looks directly at you when he asks you a question, this normally means that he likes you, and is trying to tell you something with his eyes. He may also talk softer to you than to others, to give a feeling of sensitivity.
* But watch out with what you say back to him at times. If he says something perverted ; and you answer back with a yes ; but you're kidding, he may not know that, so make sure you're clear when you say important things like that! You don't want him to think your head over heels in love with him.
* if he looks at you when you say something even not to him, he may like you.
* Try to think beyond what your logic tells you. If you think he is looking at you or if you think he's being too nice he may like you. Remember boys don't flirt for no reason unless he is an outgoing guy.


* Beware of friendly, outgoing, flirty guys. You might think he likes you but he might be like that with everyone and not realize how it is making you feel about him and his intentions. Some guys are just kind in that way. And if he flirts too much, back away! He's a clinger.
* If he seems comfortable talking to you about other girls, he probably does not like you in "that way". :( Either that, or he is trying to make you jealous, which might mean that he likes you but doesn't reflect too well on his character.
* Sometimes, a guy will confuse you. He'll flirt with you all year, constantly, every day, smiling, flashing you the peace sign, talking to you, everything, and when you ask him out he'll say no, but when school starts again he'll flirt three times as much, and if you ask him out, he may say no again. Boys are impossible to figure out until it's too late.
* Okay, some guys you want to like you, but don't go crazy over some guy you don't even know. If you want to know if a guy likes you, you have to be his friend. If you want the school jock to magically realize your his cinderella, it isn't gonna happen. OK?
* If a guy genuinely likes you he will show, don't go overboard trying to get him to like you. You look and seem desperate.
* Beware. Sometimes you might just see what you want to see. You might think he likes you, but maybe he doesn't. Even if he pokes you, teases you, stares at you, there's a chance it's all just you. Don't go paranoid and bug all your friends or be too overconfident and poke (Really hard) him back. Things like that can be annoying.

Answer 2

He likes you and he needs a good response from you showing you are welcoming his attention.

You could send him back a note (hope this isn't happening in school, 'cause that could get you in trouble.) Or you could return his look and just walk up to him and start a conversation.

Trust me, when a guy likes a girl and she shows any amount of interest in return it is a major high. I think he may be a little shy and may worry that you don't like him as much as he likes you.

Answer 3

Whether or not he likes you is not at issue here. You need to ask yourself, Do you like him? It sounds like you do.

Give yourself a little credit for being who you are. What's not to like? Now! what are you going to do about it.

Tell him that you have noticed. Invite him to join you on a outing. At first you may want to make it a community event but graduate as you feel comfortable. Build his self confidence. Let him know how you feel and what your intentions are. And if all else fails Use Words.

Answer 4

JUST
ASK
HIM
STRAIGHT
FOWARD!
eeevvveerrryyyoonnneee has this same problem.
usually the other person's just too shy to say anything. If YOU don't like em then just let em try to flirt and when they do ask, put them down nicely. (unless the guy is a total weird asshole douche. then Use the force. the cold hearted ***** force) so yea

Answer 5

It is obvious that he likes you.

Other guys are really, really shy that cannot express their feeling when they are infront of their love.

They simply do it in other way, like sending you a note. At least he got that effort to do it.

If you like him too. Try to smile at him and say 'hi', so at least ... he reached the first step.

Answer 6

yes he likes you. Next time you catch him looking at you just smile. He'll come around and ask you out eventually. Just wait.

Answer 7

most of us i guess plays a fool out of ourselves when in front on someone we like, right? he obviously likes you, so just wait for him to have the courage to approach you or better yet help him by giving hints that you also like him, nothing's wrong with that! good luck! ^-^

Answer 8

No. He hates you. He's going to chop you into tiny pieces and bury you under the wood shop.

Yes, he likes you! Go for it. :)

Answer 9

yea he likes you
but ask him to be sure
if he denies make sure he's not lying
good luck

Answer 10

yup sounds like he's got a crush on you.

Answer 11

yes he likes you. if you like him you should go out with him if he asks.