Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

Me and my ex hate each other, to say the least. Well I know he tries to find out about my life my going through her. I know they were friends before me and him even dated and i told her i dont expect her to hate him but conversation about me is off limits. However he is always going to her to ask about me while she says to stop. I dont want him nor does he deserve me and plus he has someone new. I dont speak to his friends about him so I expect the same respect.

2007-10-24 05:17:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told her I would use tweasers to get it out, but that tick is dug in deeper than an Alabama Hound Tick.

What is the best way to remove it?

2007-10-24 05:16:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

any tips or ideas please help

2007-10-24 05:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by lilflik91 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are currently separated, but have decided to go with each other to Fright Fest at six flags which means we will be staying in a hotel room for 1 or 2 nights. I'm hoping to remind my husband why he fell in love with me in the first place and sort of make this into a second honeymoon. What are some suggestions to make our trip fun, sexy, romantic, and one he'll want to repeat many times? I'm open to ALL suggestions.

2007-10-24 05:14:47 · 12 answers · asked by kandiedkisses18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a great singer by the way, and she loves me. will she possibly kill me?

2007-10-24 05:08:19 · 19 answers · asked by pimp 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok I have 3 diff pics....ones of a guy(my brother), and the other are of 2 diff girls!..Which girl do U think is cuter and which one do U think would look better with him?

my brother(http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y265/bradsbaby4ever/daemianstruck125.jpg)

Girl #1(http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y265/bradsbaby4ever/michelle.jpg)

Girl#2....SHES IN THE BLACK SHIRT(http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y265/bradsbaby4ever/familyreunion151.jpg)

2007-10-24 05:07:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Currently me and my wife are in a financial bind nothing bad that we risk losing anything at this point. But things are kind of tight. Anyway she is planning to take a week off from her job that does not pay her for vacation time. I have asked her if she could cut her vacation short by 2 days so we dont end up losing alot of money. This will leave her with 5days to relax and do what she needs to. Well she is very upset that I have asked her to do this and is telling my that I am being insensitive. Can some please tell me who I am wrong in asking her to do this.

2007-10-24 05:05:27 · 34 answers · asked by ogoisanogo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Say a few words about this question. Ta...

2007-10-24 05:04:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been seeing this guy for about 5months now,he's a great funny guy but if we are eating out,he always touches food on my plate,i find this very rude,he thinks he's being romantic,i am also paranoid about germs etc,he also puts his hands all over the food and then puts in back,i find this repulsive,he knows i dont like it but i think its a habit he cant break,would this make you feel sick also?

2007-10-24 05:03:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not understand, sometime she's chatting on phone and online with millions of people but she doesn't have time for her mum? She's always with her friends, ever since her turned 14 its like she's got her own social life where I'm not involved. Many times she looks confused and depressed but she never wants to talk when I was happy to... What should I do?

2007-10-24 05:02:53 · 29 answers · asked by Miller 1 in Family

I just won a lot of money in the lotto here in my state. I've never won anything in my life before, I guess I was saving all my luck 'til now. I've always worked hard for my money and I've never been married. I don't have many friends.
The woman I've always loved and have always been friends with now wants to marry me. I feel like the luckiest man alive. Its like winning the lotto twice.
My mom doesn't want me to. I love my momma and now I don't know what to do......

2007-10-24 05:01:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Last night, I was looking for my heating pad. I found it near my sons bank. I had been saving money for him before he was born. The last time I counted the money the bank had about 400.00 in it. I noticed the bank was EMPTY. So I called my husband in the room and asked him about it. He looked at me dumb founded and didnt say anything. I followed him to the living room and asked again . He said that he spent the money . I was sooooo pissed off. I was yelling, and I cursed him. In a way I feel bad, but at the same time WHY would he do something like that ? So... as he was getting ready for work this morning he tried to kiss me but I put my hand in his face. Basically we arent speaking, and I dont plan to talk to him anytime soon. I am over reacting / or being too harsh. He shouldnt have touched my sons bank. I am so mad.
Advice Appreciated.

2007-10-24 05:00:33 · 32 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 05:00:27 · 9 answers · asked by SmartSexyWifey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Last night I dreamt my friend who died just over a year ago was still alive and the dream was a happy one and when I woke up I felt no sadness. I thought it was a weird dream but also very comforting

2007-10-24 05:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by cavatina_2005 2 in Friends

I do not understand, sometime she's chatting on phone and online with millions of people but she doesn't have time for her mum? She's always with her friends, ever since her turned 14 its like she's got her own social life where I'm not involved. Many times she looks confused and depressed but she never wants to talk when I was happy to... What should I do?

2007-10-24 04:59:51 · 2 answers · asked by Miller 1 in Family

Do guys like dominatrix... i want to take charge but i dont wanna turn him off..

2007-10-24 04:58:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a big trouble. i rarely talk with my freinds and let them do all the talking. If asked something, I reply in a line or two. Its like I feel my talk would be boring to them. I want to change. I want to be a major part of discussions. How can I get myself to talk more?

2007-10-24 04:58:51 · 5 answers · asked by MAX 1 in Singles & Dating

I've only been married for a short time and I make more than my husband. He has more bills/debt than I do. He told me that he would work overtime to pay off his student loan and his outstanding debt. When we moved we had to buy brand new furniture. I ended up paying $600 (on a cc that I just paid off) for a portion of his share and also $150 of his share of the rent and he said he would pay me back the next week. Once we combined our income, he told me to take the money out of the acct and pay off what he owed. I realized that if I did that, I would be paying all the bills b/c he didn't have enough to pay me back and pay bills. He is not working all the overtime shifts (2nd job) that he planned to when we moved in. I told him that he needs to work at least one or 2 extra shifts b/c he does not have enough income to pay his bills. I know when your married you should share everything but I do not make enough to support both of us and I don't want him depending on my money. Selfish?

2007-10-24 04:55:41 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every since my mom found out that i tryed smokes pot and that i had sex she has been on me like a hawk! i use to have a AMAZING relationship with my mom almost like we were bestfriends and now its just like she is always so suspeous and she always wants to talk to my friends parents when ima sleep at there house and she just been weird!
My mom has also been dating this guy "M" and he has been tryna act like my dad sumtimes well at least i think so and i mean me and him have talked alone before and he knows sumthings and that my mom would flip over and he has promised to keep them to himself and he is nice but then he just gets under my skin and i want my mom to be able to trust me without ALWAYS needing to talk to the paretns for example. and then she gets mad when i sleep at my friend "K" house even tho she has talked to her mom like 5 times b4!
i need help!
i want my mom to be able to trust me and us have a good relationship again!

2007-10-24 04:54:48 · 25 answers · asked by Paige M 2 in Family

how do i stop this happening...when they log on to there own user accounts thats when it happens....does not generally happen on my own user account

2007-10-24 04:53:34 · 5 answers · asked by garry w 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Michelle went to the beach this summer and had sex with this random guy... then she gets home and has sex with some other dude. A week ago she came to me crying b/c she thought she was pregnant. Now... yesterday she went to the doctor and found out she wasn't and today has plans to go see my other friends brother at his house. How should i tell her... and should i even tell her?!?!?!?!

2007-10-24 04:53:26 · 30 answers · asked by brittanie 1 in Friends

with different women. What other logical reason would there be to have more than one wife? Having more than one wife is just a way to undulge in sexual relationship with different women without getting in trouble for it! How can women accept that?!

I find it disgusting and degrading.

2007-10-24 04:52:25 · 23 answers · asked by Mahmoud K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 04:52:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a wedding photographer and am about to run a full page add for a year in a wedding magazine. I'm am only targeting brides and the thought we want to convey is in our tag line: First comes love....Then comes Holloway's.

We want the bride to think of us as soon as she gets that ring. Which of these ads conveys that thought to you. If so why and if neither add appeals to you then what do you feel is left out or should be put in? If you were thumbing through a bridal magazine would either of these adds stop you long enough to see who the photographer is?
Here's the link:
http://www.hollowaysgallery.com/INITIAL%20ADS.jpg

I would like any serious feed back.

2007-10-24 04:44:36 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Weddings

I am so sick of seeing people answer questions with "be glad your husband helps" and so on. Why is it if the hubby and wife both work and bring in equal pay (and I mean equal) and they have kids and she cooks, cleans, takes care of kids, keeps up with everything and he does "laundry" and the budget do people think she should be grateful? Why do we expect so little of men and when they do things around the house it's that they are helping "us" out. My husband works on the railroad is gone days at a time, but then is home for like 5 days too. On his time off he plays golf and takes naps and watches tv and so on, if he does laundry and keeps the budget up people act like he is the king. I think he should do everything I do and I should get a break too, is that wrong? Don't get me wrong I DO appreciate what he does do, but why is it so much less than me and why do I have to feel thankful. He doesn't come home and thank me everyday......agree or disagree? Just curious....thanks

2007-10-24 04:44:32 · 27 answers · asked by LilSunbeam 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know ANYTHING about the cost of weddings. Suppose two people are considering the budget of a wedding. Both are middle class, him living on his own pulling in about 50K/year, her currently living with mom, trying to get a decent job after getting her Master's. Mom wants to help, but Dad just died.

Important: Great dress, tons of flowers, nice reception hall with decent food and a competent DJ

Negligable: Ice swan, table decorations, cake, transportation

Oh, and 12K has already been offered by the grandmother. What kind of budget would be typical for this kind of idea?

2007-10-24 04:43:38 · 15 answers · asked by Lynn G 3 in Weddings

whenever we go out. She says it turns her on, but she once took pictures of me in them and showed them to my father. He doesn't talk to me anymore. She's threatening to show them to my friends, too. When I asked her not to, she showed my mom. Now I don't talk to either parent. What should I do?

2007-10-24 04:42:40 · 35 answers · asked by guyitsover14 2 in Singles & Dating

I was going to just take my wife to dinner, but I didn't even get her a card. Now she's mad at me. How do I make it up to her?

2007-10-24 04:41:41 · 18 answers · asked by Sara Smiles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

From: Venice21

Subject: Re: liar

Message: You don't know jack **** about me.

Look at you, wow you're not intelligent are you? Not to bright are we? My intelligence surpasses you by far. I can out talk you, I can outwit you half of the vernacular that comes out of my mouth you would barely be able understand.

Not that it matters I'm a size 4 with real **** and a real personality. Guys like me because I'm not a ***** like you. My boyfriend not that it's any of your business broke up with me because we don't have anything in common anymore. Things do happen in relationships when you realize that that person isn't the right one. Instead of being a immature little welch probably like you, I have nothing but good things to say about my ex. It was an experience.

I don't are what you say about me cause you're a piece of **** loser. It makes you feel better to pick on people because you have no life and no one likes you. Honestly. Get a life. People like you make me laugh. You think you're tough **** cause oh you called someone out on the internet. You're a loser. Face it.

Nice manners by the way.

2007-10-24 04:41:32 · 12 answers · asked by Answer Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

People who haved cheated, thought about cheating and those who have been cheated. Why cheat? I don't personally believe it's sexual I think its more than that. So do tell Why cheat?

2007-10-24 04:39:40 · 18 answers · asked by dana 2 in Marriage & Divorce