Me and my ex hate each other, to say the least. Well I know he tries to find out about my life my going through her. I know they were friends before me and him even dated and i told her i dont expect her to hate him but conversation about me is off limits. However he is always going to her to ask about me while she says to stop. I dont want him nor does he deserve me and plus he has someone new. I dont speak to his friends about him so I expect the same respect.
2007-10-24 05:17:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Restraining Order
2007-10-24 05:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I'm not certain as to everyone's ripe old age here and stuff darlin....but possibly maybe you should have a nice reasonable sit down with your ex and his new girlfriend and proceed to attempt to set matters straight with him and her for a change possibly. I've found that sometimes actually talking to an ex and their new beau confidently will sometimes set the record straight for everyone including you too honey! Hating anyone isn't really the right answer here either sweetie....not even an ex hun deserves that kinda crap seriously! You used to love him once for some reason or another darlin....so why all of sudden does all the bitterness come out of ya now honestly?.......feeling sorta kinda obsessed and completely mentally drained by all of your own self inflicted anxiety here about this old flame or something maybe? Hmmm...!!! If he wants to inquire about stuff in regards to you sorta honey?.....as long as he's not personally abusing YOU!...well then?.....he's breaking no law that I'm aware of in doing so darlin....other then the controlling mental laws that you have set standard and created for yourself here sweetie...not him reasonably....are we cool on this stuff sister?
2007-10-24 12:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control his actions. Why does it matter? Eventually, he'll hear from a mutual friend that you're blissfully happy - and that'll hurt, even if he hates you. Nobody wants to hear that any ex is happier without them. Just ask your friend to not talk about you, and if he asks, tell her to continue not saying anything; that's all you can do, short of contacting your ex and telling him you don't appreciate him asking about you. But really, I don't see any harm unless he uses that information to stalk you.
2007-10-24 12:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋