I just won a lot of money in the lotto here in my state. I've never won anything in my life before, I guess I was saving all my luck 'til now. I've always worked hard for my money and I've never been married. I don't have many friends.
The woman I've always loved and have always been friends with now wants to marry me. I feel like the luckiest man alive. Its like winning the lotto twice.
My mom doesn't want me to. I love my momma and now I don't know what to do......
2007-10-24 05:01:45 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um ya hello shes using u...if u can live w/ that then marry the gold digger!! Otherwise find urself a nice girl who will love u for u not ur money!!!
remember "stupid is as stupid does"
2007-10-24 05:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Don make the same mistakes lots of people do these day that eventually end in divorce by marring some one you love who dose not love you.
Obviously if she treated you like crap before and never wanted anything more then a friendship and now she wants to marry you. Wake up dude she just wants you for your money. Don’t fall for it.
2007-10-24 05:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she just now has shown interest in you, she's plainly wanting to marry you for the money. I know that you love her, and it would be hard to resist but don't jump into a marriage with this woman. Tell her that the two of you could date for a while--make sure she has love for you too. If you marry her and all she wants is the money, your marriage would be doomed from the beginning.
2007-10-24 05:17:22 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first sentence should send up a red flag. She's treated you like Forrest Gump up until now when you have money and all of a sudden she wants to marry you? What does that tell you? Is she marrying you or the money? What happens when the money is gone? Your "momma" is right in this instance.......
2007-10-24 05:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by 000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like shes marrying you for your money, if she didn't treat you with respect before she won't now either.
A few years and a couple kids down the road which may or may not be yours she will divorce you sue for child support and use the kids as leverage for the rest of your life draining all that's left of your self respect.
2007-10-24 05:17:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl never paid loving attention to you until you won the lottery. That is rather telling. she's digging for gold!
Dating her is one thing -- marrying her? NO!!! And don't shower her with lots of gifts or give her money.
Most of the time, parents need to keep their noses out of their children's love life and business, but in your mother's case, she probably sees a gold digger. And so do I.
2007-10-24 05:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the chick that wants to marry you you just signed all the money over to your mother so now your mom owns the lotto winnings then ask her what date she wants to get married and make sure she knows you are officially broke again.
once she knows your broke if she still wants to get married then do as you wish but make sure you give that money to your mom.
chances are though once she hears your broke again the wedding will be off to which you can reply that was a test and your know officialy dumped.
go spend your money on your mom and wait for the right girl to come by.
this one is obviously money hungry and your mom knows it
2007-10-24 05:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by monizk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO shes a gold digger if she treated you like that she dont love you. you know what you should do is have a prenuptual agreement drawn up and see if she still wants 2 marry you and if she does still dont marry her coz she will probably do a fatal attraction on you and kill you to take your money, what you should do is hide your money and find a girl who loves you for you and then marry her then tell her about the money
2007-10-24 05:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by nyghtmare3000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fisrt of all. You're one lucky guy for winning in lotto. Ok. I think you should ask God first what to do. Ask Him to give you a peace of mind, to help to think what to decide. You may also ask for a sign if she is really meant for you. I know it's hard for you to decide because they're the two-most important people in your life. But just Pray.
2007-10-24 05:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Steffi Tan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of two things (since you obviously want to be with her):
(1) Get together with her and cohabitate... if she's not after your money, this shouldn't be an issue... but if morally this is not acceptable, option 2:
(2) Get a prenup stating she gets NOTHING. If she signs it, she is not in it for the money. Oh and don't fall for the 'if you loved me you wouldnt want me to sign or if you trusted me'. That is BS.
Good luck to you!
2007-10-24 05:11:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋