Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

I found out my girlfriend was cheating on me. I dumped her, but its me who is suffering. I am having such a hard time with this that I actually needed to talk with a doctor. He put me on Paxil. I feel like I'm losing my mind. Is this normal?

2007-10-24 04:38:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A good friend who is 26 is getting married. I plan on giving cash. What is a reasonable amount to give?

2007-10-24 04:38:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Already got a magician
any gud ideas?

2007-10-24 04:37:22 · 22 answers · asked by xangelheidix 2 in Weddings

I am 21 and still wet the bed periodically. My girl friend of course knows about my problem and has been discrete. I generally wear a disposable diaper when I stay over anywhere. I was at her parent's house and it leaked badly. Her mother was polite, but needless to say, her entire family now knows and her younger brothers have humiliated me at a party at her house by announcing to anyone they saw that Lindsey's boy friend pissed up one of our beds.

2007-10-24 04:36:58 · 9 answers · asked by i_float_alot 1 in Family

I don't know...

2007-10-24 04:35:52 · 19 answers · asked by OBESE HAS CHANGED HIS NAME 2 in Family

Myself=Difficult. But I don't have a word to describe her. There are alot of words I could use (All good ones, I don't want you to think I am thinking negative here). Good or bad, what is the ONE word you would use for yourself? And what your partner?

2007-10-24 04:34:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 04:32:59 · 22 answers · asked by SmartSexyWifey 1 in Family

Is it wrong to not have the "traditional" wedding? I want to keep most parts of the wedding traditional, but some I don’t want at all.
I don't want the Maid of Honor or Best man to say a speech during the reception.
I don't want to do the whole pulling the garter off my thigh.
Is it wrong to not do these things?
I'm very shy, and I think it will be hard enough on my to get the courage to walk down the isle in front of people. I want the whole wedding to be just relaxed, and take away any extra attention!
What do you think?

Thanks in advance for your answers!

2007-10-24 04:30:35 · 29 answers · asked by britt 4 in Weddings

If not possible to trust anyone 100% what is appropriate? My bf of 3 years makes me feel that he does not trust me at all I know I made a mistake in the past and he forgave me for it but I am scared to answer his questions because I feel like it will turn into an arguement. I want things to work but I don't know how much more I can take. What are the chances he may seek revenge on me for what I did 3 years ago? Is he in it to make something of it or is he waiting to hurt me?

2007-10-24 04:30:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not like the way that my husband speaks to our son, he seems to be hard on him to do certain things and he tends to make mountains out of moe hills. i understand that we grew up in the generation that children were seen and not heard but it is different now and i believe that our son should be able to voice his likes and dislikes and should not eat something that he does not like (except veggies that is a must for his health) but even that is within reason. I feel that the way he talks to him makes him retreat from him and not really want to be around him. He is always on guard when he is around and i remember being like that as a child and it suck. I have never been nor will i ever be a young boy do you need to be so hard and strick over boys. I am blessed that he has a father that cares, truly cares and takes care of our son but i just dont want their relationship to suffer in the meantime.

2007-10-24 04:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by ktnarga 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 04:25:43 · 24 answers · asked by orphan boy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex and i dated for 3 yrs....and he broke up with me for another girl they now live together but they dont get along all that great hes 19 and shes 18 and im 18....i still love him more than ever and ill do anything to get him back someone have any advice or ways i can get him back??

2007-10-24 04:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I see this term a lot online- What is a MILF

2007-10-24 04:24:21 · 13 answers · asked by Crooked Johnson 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 04:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by grace 2 in Friends

2007-10-24 04:23:14 · 15 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married soon and I have 2 fathers. 1 father is a very big part of my life (raised me as his own) and 1 father that I have never really been close to. He moved out of state when I was 11. I only see him every couple years. I want to include my out - of - state father however, my dad that raised me is walking me down the aisle and I want to have my 'father - daughter - dance' with him. My out-of-state father knows I'm getting married and hasn't made many comments and hasn't even offered to help in any way. any suggestions?

2007-10-24 04:21:31 · 20 answers · asked by Kate 1 in Weddings

I'm 15, get along with my parents. I'm a good student and have never got in any trouble. I have many activities, play sports, volunteer for social activities, take courses. Last weekend my dad and my lil bro was on a trip. Friday I had so many things in my head that I messed up, I came home a bit late for lunch, lost my cell phone, did some crazy stuff. Saturday morning mom told me I wasa cting without thinking and would be grounded. It was a shock, it's more than 4 years I haven't been grounded. Ok, Friday I messed up, made mistakes but not moral mistakes. She treated me with much love, we talked, I noticed she wanted to stay w/ me. By 4 pm she gave me a big hug, said she had been selfish, there was no reason to ground me and apologized. She was kinda confused, saying things that didn't make much sense. She went to her room and I know she cried a lot. I'm worried, what is going on w/ her? Her actions weren't normal. I'm not angry just kinda worried.

2007-10-24 04:17:17 · 9 answers · asked by Laura 1 in Family

If your husband wanted you to tease and deny him and pleasure for long periods of time would you?

2007-10-24 04:17:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 5 years old. He saw his dad maybe 12-15 times total. The last time was about 10 months ago. He is aware of who he is, but did not have a bond with him on a day-to-day basis. However, he has created a "bond" with his dad in his head...idolizing him and speaking proudly of his dad (he refers to him by his first name followed by dad...e.g. "my Brian dad") We have not talked about his dad in about 1-2 months, and he has not asked about him recently. My question is, should my son attend the service? He will be cremated.

2007-10-24 04:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by mpk33 3 in Family

My wife had a radical hysterectomy about two years ago and our sex life has disappeared. I wonder if any other couple (or single female under the same circumstances) have found a particular sex toy that helped jump-start their sex life.

2007-10-24 04:16:59 · 5 answers · asked by rd6108 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it so hard for you to help out with the kids and housework? What can a woman do to change this never ending issue?

2007-10-24 04:16:54 · 30 answers · asked by Sweet_Bama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, my SIL (we will call Jane) got knocked-up & my brother married her. Jane had nothing to her name before getting prego. He has made a life for them & have since moved closer to HIS mom (we share the same Dad, but not the same Mom). Over the period of 5 years, Jane has molded into the spitting image of my brother’s mother (his mom & now Jane think they are high-class, hob-knobbing, snobby, stuck up, bitches etc…). His mother has always been that way, but since Jane didn’t have any friends (ever) she only has her mother-in-law as a companion. I have even nick-named her “Mini-Me” b/c she acts JUST LIKE her MIL!!! They even have MATCHING CARS!! The thing is, Jane forgot where she came from (her mom is a druggy & her dad is in prison). Anyhoo – She talks crap about me to my brother’s mom ALL THE TIME. My other brother’s wife (whom is nothing like her & I get along w/ just great – We’ll call her Tiffany) has overheard Jane & the mother-in-law talking about me.

2007-10-24 04:14:07 · 12 answers · asked by *Fickle Pickle* 4 in Family

Ok, will seem like I am just complaining. But, really stuck. I have been dating this guy for over 8 yrs. We built a house together, (because of my credit and ex husband it is in his name) after 4 yrs he put the house up for sale and keeps telling me that his job is changing but dont know when, and we will no longer be able to afford the house. I can not find anything that supports him. He will not be able to afford this house on his own.
Finds things wrong little things, nit picky things. Specially with my kids. He keeps trying to constrain me on the things that I do in the house. The house no longer looks like a home it looks like a shell. I dont know what to think. I am not moving out of this house it is my home also.
He also likes to play online. I know that this is so scattered in telling. But, really confused. Dont understand him. will dialog with anyone who can help!!!!

2007-10-24 04:12:49 · 7 answers · asked by knowwhatyoumean 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 12 years. We have two beautiful children together. We haven't got married yet because every penny we make goes towards bills or our children. How can we have a nice but cheap wedding. Also do you get more back on your taxes when you are married?

2007-10-24 04:12:42 · 19 answers · asked by someone in Nebraska 2 in Weddings

Fun things that is!!

2007-10-24 04:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

iam okay, i don't have any erection problem, but whenever i want to have sex with this lady, it fails. So iam curious may she has done some magic to protect herself

2007-10-24 04:11:01 · 14 answers · asked by mathew b 1 in Singles & Dating

let me just say it all
we went to the movies and he kissed me on the lips the next day he called we talked for a bout 5 mins or less then he asked for my brother later on that day i was talking to a friend and she called him over and he said hi i didnt say nething back i felt so bad after that we havent talked me not sayin nething back does that make him think i didnt like him or what

2007-10-24 04:09:50 · 6 answers · asked by lilflik91 1 in Singles & Dating

A family friend will sing one song during our wedding ceremony -- should we get a boutonniere for him? He'll be wearing his own outfit (not a tux).

2007-10-24 04:09:38 · 7 answers · asked by Patty 5 in Weddings

95% of women get french manicures for their wedding. yes this looks classy and nice, and i have had mine done like this just because....

however, i am getting married in january and don't want to 1. spend the money on a french manicure (although i know you can buy kits, or wear glue-ons) and 2. want to do something a little different.

the most simple and elegant way i think to do this, is to go against the norm and just nicely paint my fingernails and toenails. but what color?? any suggestions?

(ps. my dress is ivory and champagne, the flowers are a mixture of deep purples, reds, oranges, and a touch of cream.. and my hair is auburn)

2007-10-24 04:09:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have an ex-boyfriend, named J, who I have not had a relationship with in almost 3 years. We have been best friends since we broke up. We talk on a regular basis and see each other all the time. But he has a friend named M that I've been attracted to ever since we met and he's been attracted to me. Lately we've been spending some time together. We've kissed and hugged but we haven't had sex...yet. We want to but we're afraid of what might happen. If we have sex there is a possibility that we will continue and it might get deeper than just sex, considering the fact that we've been wanting to do this for 4 yrs now. Our problem is we don't want to ruin the friendship with J. They have been friends for over 10 yrs and this kind of situation has never occurred so M is scared of J's reaction. Am I wrong for wanting to mess around with M, even though its been 3 yrs since J and I have been together?

2007-10-24 04:08:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends