Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

There is someone in my life who I met on millionairefriends.com. We have been in touch now for nine months. We traded pictures and snail-mail addresses when we first met and have recently started talking on the phone with each other. I feel like we know each other well and have both really grown to care for each other. Our only problem is that we live really far apart. (He is in North Carolina, and I am in Alberta, Canada.)

We are planning on meeting each other at the end of the year when I go down to that part of the continent to visit my sister. Of course we are both nervous about it all. Do you think that this relationship can really work?

2007-10-24 04:07:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend she doesn't speak english(she is new to this country she's been here for about 6 mths)and i am not really having a hard time to explain things to her using using my hand and other body language but(She's 18)she gets all moody and stuff,she is sort of desperate for a guy.i don't know what to do for her all the guys i know just wants it then they brag about it so i don't even think about choosing any of them,she really wants a guy she can talk to that understand her and i have no idea where to find one.

2007-10-24 04:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by SASH 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when i go visited my family and i ask him if he want to come with me after his work or if he not work he alway said " i am tired i don't want to go ".....only once a while he come with me to visit my family, i wonder what wrong with him? he alway say i am tired if i ask him if he want to come with me to visit to someone?.....what going on with him? i have asked him about why he alway tired he say he don't feel like it to go?...please help?

2007-10-24 04:03:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

am an 18 year old girl..& it's my 1st year in the UN ..bt while i was in the prep year i met a teacher & i don't no why i gave her tht idea that am a despret girl & i think she thought tht my life is mesirble so what should i do to make her blow off this idea??...thanks 4 anyone who cares about the Qiestion.

2007-10-24 04:03:11 · 2 answers · asked by jenifer 1 in Friends

My fiance's ex was in town for a weekend wedding.She stayed in a hotel, but made several visits to our home to pick up & drop off their kids.She is not welcome in our home, but pushed her way in twice & made attempts to "hook-up" with my fiance. We have custody of the kids, they see her only on weekends and they begged to stay with her in the hotel. She wouldn't let them. But she begged my fiance to come. She showed up at our house while I was at work and begged him to get back together and then to come spend the night with her.She later sent a text that said her offer still stands and gave him her room number.Of course, he said no.How do you explain such behavior & is there anything to be done about it? She rarely sees the kids and had an opportunity to have them with her, but didn't want them.

2007-10-24 04:01:44 · 26 answers · asked by Tyra99 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have read alot of questions posted by men who are struggling in their marriege. Men who are not getting sex from their wives, men who are being disrespected, lied to and treated bad. I have seen men say that they think their wife is having an affair and have pretty good reasons for thinking that. Yet, all the answers I see people giving are "Dont accuse her" dont make her feel uncomfortable, dont check her phones and emails, be nice to her, you think she's cheating, then YOU(the man) should change your life style and try to win her heart back. ARE YOU KIDDING ME, what about the men's feelings. They blame the men for their mistakes, If your wife is not giving you sex, DEMAND it, you deserve it, ladies listen, I feel like you have fought all your life to be accepted as equal to men and i'm very happy about that, but now that you are, STEP UP TO THE PLATE, and dont expect us to do everything, including apologizing to you, when you cheat on us. What do you men Think?????

2007-10-24 04:01:14 · 5 answers · asked by LetsGetReal 2 in Singles & Dating

me wanting to sleep in my bra if i am alot more comfortable like that, becaus emy mom forces my to take it off befroe i go to bed or she'll take it off me when i told her i don't like walking around the house like that, i mean i understand taking it off when i decide to go to bed, but i am not her or my sisters, they don't mind, but i do, and i feel like she is invading my body when she does that and she says stuff like oh well it her body until i turn 18 becaus eshe had me so i am apart of her.....what should i do i mean i try talking to her but she won't listen she thinks i have no clue what i am talking about because i am not 18 yet, which i don't see why beause i will be 18 in about 5-6 months anywayz.

2007-10-24 03:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13 yrs. old in 8 grade and in my class, the teacher decides where each student will sit. I have been seated next to a boy who I feel like is bullying me. He always disturbs me in the middle of the class session and sometimes hits me, acts like he's slapping me, acts as he's superior to me, and commands me to help him when he needs it. He also tells me that he'll slap me or whack me hard if I don't do something(maybe for fun). I don't know if it's just that he's trying to have some fun and thinks of me as a good guy and a friend or he's just harassing and bullying me. Please help me out as I feel like it's just mental torture.

2007-10-24 03:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by TrueWOW 3 in Friends

I have a younger 14 yr old sister. Growing up she has always been very annoying. She would pester my friends when they came over, she takes my things without asking, she loses and damages my things, she has absolutely no respect, she plays really loud music when i'm trying to sleep, and the list goes on and on and on... So because of all this I admit I have been very rude to her most of my life. I have treated her like the annoying little sibling she acts like. I have ignored her at times thinking that would be the best option. But now I feel like she has turned on me because of this. I really do love and care about her but I feel like she actually hates me. She glares at me, ignores me when I ask her to do things, tells me mean, hurtful things, and even gets pleasure out of making me cry. I have even tried to make things better with her. I've tried to take her out, I've written her thoughtful notes but nothing seems to work. Do you think this is payback or do you think it's a phase?

2007-10-24 03:58:09 · 34 answers · asked by sarah b 2 in Family

Keep in mind that these people are strangers! A person is asking a random group an opinion on a relationship topic. What do you think are some of the most juciest relationship topics to discuss? If a stranger wanted a quick opinion from you based on relationships, which topic would you be able to talk about with ease and comfort?

2007-10-24 03:57:46 · 3 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 03:56:27 · 35 answers · asked by musclemansix 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am moving out of my current living situation on Monday and let me tell you the day is not coming fast enough!!!!!!!!!!
Even a complete stranger about kicked my ex-husbands @ss last night because of the way he was cussing at me in a restaurant.
Then this morning how do I get woken up? You guessed it in the same manner and I tell you what that restraining order I have on him just may come in handy here soon!
Ok vent over you in a bad mood today too?

2007-10-24 03:56:00 · 9 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 03:55:45 · 22 answers · asked by newtral90 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man signed A birth certificate for a child that is not his biological child, is he responsible to pay child support?

This is in the case of a relationship that" was" to be....

2007-10-24 03:54:35 · 6 answers · asked by ummmm 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy through an online personals site and he seems great, except that he misspells my name in every email, every time. I write back with the correct spelling, but he still doesn't get it.

It's annoying me to the point that I don't want to date him. Is that wrong?

2007-10-24 03:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by monicanena 5 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i are both 19, been to gether for 3yrs living together for 1. we are still in school, both work and can provide for ourselve with almost no help(financially) from our parents. We are very much in love, we are highschool sweethearts, but one thing is living together and another is marriage. I know i have full support from my family and $$ is not an issue for my wedding my parents have about $200,000 saved up for it. But my boyfriends family and I dont mesh to well...what should i do...I really want to get married already but dont want to live the rest of my life around people i dont like and who dont like me...HELP!!!

2007-10-24 03:53:57 · 32 answers · asked by sweetteamawmaw 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom and I had an unpleasant discussion about this. I owe a lot of money on credit cards and get collection calls, and she says I deserve it and whatever mean things they say I should just... take. I think people shouldn't feel "guilty" and deserving harassment from collectors if their lives change enough that they can't arrange for even debt counseling. I think knowing you're in debt and will pay for it in years to come is punishment enough, and guilt is more well put when someone directly suffers because of an action. How do you define guilt?

2007-10-24 03:52:33 · 32 answers · asked by kigel1617 2 in Family

I need help, especially from any woman who has ever been in an abusive relationship or marriage.

This man is completely in love with me and wrote me something I am a little concerned over. If you have the time, I will send you the email and you can tell me what you think. I don't know if this man is just too good tobe true and is really in love with me or if he is desperate for love and has a hidden side. Please help!

2007-10-24 03:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by P.Y.T.23 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok more about this guy I like, I decided to wait till he called/texted me because he was not calling/texting me back when I would. so I was going to wait a week and if he did not call/text I was going to give up. It had been five days and then yesterday I heard from him I told him I needed to talk to him about us and I asked if he would call me. he said he was busy at the time and did not have time to talk at that moment and would call me later, well still have not heard from him what should I do I really like this guy and don't want to give up just yet but I am confused about all this. I know there are other guys out there but I am in my 30's and not that easy to find a good guy anymore. so please tell me what I should do. I know he likes me I just don't know what he is thinking.

2007-10-24 03:47:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known her for about 8 years now, she got maried with someone else and had two lovely kids, she's divorced now since december 06, and has been with me since then.

Now she is pregnant with my baby and I want to get married.

The problem is that I got a deal with my father, I work for him, the deal is that I will get a decent pay check when I graduate from Uni, that will be on march 08 (4 months from now).

So I told her to wait untill the end of februaury and to get married in march, that I will have enough money to sustain our family etc.

The baby will be born on may 17th aprox.

My problem is that now she wants to go to Miami FL with her parents until the baby has born, her arguments are What the people will say or talk about her,there won't be any good comments.
I feel like she is leaving me alone, I don't want her to go, I want to be all the time around.

Now she is telling me that she's not shure to marrie me or not. Bloody Hell. Does she loves me ??????

2007-10-24 03:47:01 · 17 answers · asked by Alfredo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Fathers have no rights when it comes to family law. I thinks its wrong for a woman to have an abortion without first having consent from the father since the two of them created the life. And what if the father wanted the child instead of the mother should she give birth and give custody to the father in unwed situations? Should mothers have to show reciept of child support expendatures, instead of getting a free check every month? Roe vs. Wade should be overturned or an ammendment to it. If you disagree I would be intrigued as to why.

This applies to fathers as well so as not to stereotype any gender.

2007-10-24 03:46:51 · 25 answers · asked by Explorer 2 in Family

i hate my sister we dont get along what would the best prank to play on her

2007-10-24 03:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-24 03:46:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When do you think that you are destained to somebody?

2007-10-24 03:45:50 · 15 answers · asked by yod 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so about a year ago, my mother did something deplorable. Let me give you a little background. My mother was sexually abused as a child, so she grew up hating men. At a very young age, she would tell my sisters and me that men were dirty and only wanted one thing. She told us not to trust men beacause they had urges.So when I had a daughter she told me not to let him change her or bathe her because men have urges and it did not matter that it was his daughter. So for those of you that have had a baby girl, you know what happens when they poop, it gets everywhere and you gott get in there to get it out. So she saw him doing that and freaked out! He was only cleaning her, she had a really messy daiper. She called CPS on him, the charges were dropped. She got in trouble for making false charges. Now, after a year, she wants to be at the birthday party my in laws are throwing for her. They would not shun her, but should I allow her to be there?

2007-10-24 03:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

His girlfriend is leaving Friday and he already asked me out am I the only one that thinks thats odd

2007-10-24 03:45:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our second marriage(each)!
My two older daughters (aged 31 & 26) are in the wedding party as bridesmaid & matron of honor.
Would it be appropriate for my 10 yr old son to "give me away"?
We want to include him, but as something other than usher, ring-bearer or pageboy.
My 4 and half yr old grandson is pageboy and 5 yr old granddaughter is flower girl, would it be better to have my son walk between them, down the aisle?

2007-10-24 03:43:01 · 30 answers · asked by AussieLady 58 3 in Weddings

she's not living at home, she's almost 19. i've been nice and done some things for her, graduation gift, tutoring to help with school, pizza, and yet, she never has sent a thank you card, even though i know she sent one to everyone else.

i've told my husband, that i won't be doing anything else for her until she appreciates what i do. i'm just wondering has anyone else gone through this? whenever she needs/wants something she's all sweet, then "boom". no gratefulness.

FYI.... i didn't "steal" him away from her mother. they were already seperated for a couple of years. her mother had an affair on him.

2007-10-24 03:40:15 · 11 answers · asked by (!)listen 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 03:38:51 · 12 answers · asked by Argo 3 in Singles & Dating

i just fround out my husband reads erotic stories and i was thinking why would he want to when he's got me

(yes i know that i dont put out much but when i do its real good )

so why does he need these stories ?

2007-10-24 03:37:37 · 26 answers · asked by kirsty_jones_2000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships