I need help, especially from any woman who has ever been in an abusive relationship or marriage.
This man is completely in love with me and wrote me something I am a little concerned over. If you have the time, I will send you the email and you can tell me what you think. I don't know if this man is just too good tobe true and is really in love with me or if he is desperate for love and has a hidden side. Please help!
2007-10-24 03:49:59 · 14 answers · asked by P.Y.T.23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK He IS married but I have NOT slept with him.
2007-10-24 04:36:59 · update #1
If that is you in the picture your a pretty woman. If the bum is married. LEAVE HIM ALONE. You will regret the lust, not love you have for this forbidden fruit you are chasing.
2007-10-24 03:56:16 · answer #1 · answered by Opps 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Am Messing Around With A 54 Year Old Married Man And I Am 20 Years Old. I Been Messing Around With Him Since Last September 2005. He Has A Son Who Is 20 And He Is My Friend And A Daughter Who Is 17 And His Daughter Caught Us Having Sex Once Before But She Did Not Say Nothing To Nobody Because She Has Autistic And She Has A Mind Of A 6 Year Old. This Married Man Wants To Leave His Wife And Marry Me... But I Do Not Know If He Will Leave His Wife Of 21 Years! The Sex Is Good And He Always Said I Love You To Me All The Time And I Do Not Know What To Do. But I Love Him! We Never Use Protection But He Pulls Out And Ejaculate On My Stomach! We Have Had Sex In Werid Places!
2016-05-25 11:22:54 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since CC has seen the letter and let us know that your man is married, at least I can tell you this much. If he is in love with you and he is married than there already is a problem. And he is abusing his marriage and his WIFE to be with you. There are plenty of single people in your city to hook up with, please leave the married ones alone. I know, I have been on both sides. It is not worth it, deceit and lies never amount to anything good. Doing something wrong, no matter how good it feels at the time, will not make it right. Do the best thing you can for you, STOP IT NOW.
2007-10-24 03:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by That 70's girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men just need someone to understand and love them that is all I am in a mentally abusive relationship but I have come to term and are going to counseling with my husband I knew hoe he was in the beginning but love a thankfulness blinded me and I could not let me go. Know I can help you if you want there are alot of men that are to good to be true I know my husband was one of them sweet kind understanding but inside he had a monster rude. And hurting.
2007-10-24 03:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lost 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have any doubts whatsoever then trust it. Your gut instinct is usually 100% right! I don't know what he told you but like I said if your worried then I would proceed with caution. If the man is obsessive over you that could lead to a controlling and later on violent behavior.
2007-10-24 04:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Txgirl23 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember this: if something seems too good to be true, it probably is.
Just from what you briefly wrote, it sounds as if this man might be possessive and jealous...maybe to the point of telling you who you can or can't be friends with...what you can or can't wear...if you can have a job or not...if you can see your family or not...talk on the phone without him listening in...I'm sure you get the point by now.
Do I really need to go on?
EMT
2007-10-24 04:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by emt_me911 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a question yesterday about this man, who by the way is married. Just stay away from him. If you know he's married and feel he might be abussive, why in the hell are you still in contact with him? Tell him you are not interested and to leave you alone.
2007-10-24 03:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by CC 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you continue with this guy and you are well on your way to becoming his next victim. If you are looking for a monogamous relationship, never date a married man.
But continue on, at least it gets him out of the dating pool for us other women.
2007-10-24 03:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it sounds too good to be true, then it probably is. If he is married the abuse has already begun he is stringing you along, move on!
2007-10-24 03:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by nsecurenold 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a woman, but I can give you a man's point of view if you'll email me.
2007-10-24 03:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋