Family & Relationships - 24 October 2007

I live with my boyfriend. We have been together almost two years now. Together we have four kids. It has been an ongoing issue that he doesnt help hardly at all with house work or the kids. He will do whatever housework I tell him to, but he is not a child, and I shouldnt have to tell him to do anything. What should I do?

2007-10-24 02:53:25 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet_Bama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

MY girlfriend is not Lady Like :-( !!! (any help?)?
When ever she sits down she opens up her legs wide like me. It is embarassing sometimes when we sit with family and they have to turn their heads if she is wearing a skirt. I have told her many times, buts its like a bad habbit and it seems that she has no control over it.

If we go out somewhere, I see guys trying to ge a sneek peak, I stare back at them but how many can I stare down?

How the hell can I get her To be a Lady?
(or atleast sit like one)

2007-10-24 02:53:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can you list or append someone else list of expectations of a traditional husband (one who has a traditional housewife)?

2007-10-24 02:53:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 02:52:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can you list or append someone else list of expectations of a traditional housewife ?

2007-10-24 02:52:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about a week ago. Ever since I haven't shown it when I am around him, but without him I feel like he;s going to break up with me and I am terrified, even though we had the most awesome weekend of my life, and he came over last night and hes so great, he wrote me a love letter saying how much i have changed his life and changed him in so many ways for the best. But I even talked to my mother about it, and she said after you lose it the number one fear is him leaving you. Now there is no chance of that in present time, but I am so scared and I want the feeling to go away. Please help!!!!

2007-10-24 02:50:28 · 14 answers · asked by Reese W889 1 in Singles & Dating

I was almost 5 mos preg. when I met my husband. My Ex was still trying to grow up and did not want the baby I was carrying at that time. He has since decided he wants to see her. She is now 7 yrs old. I have over the years kept contact with them.(his mom and dad). I would not even consider letting them see her or meet her , but there is partiallity shown between her and her 5 year old sister. She has asked questions about why her sister gets things and she doesn't? I have her in counseling because she is acting out and her psychiatrist says DO NOT tell her. I am so afraid she will find out from someone else. What do I do?

2007-10-24 02:46:06 · 32 answers · asked by Stacey H 1 in Family

ok, my bf has this stupid problem about my being rich. im not being a snob, but i really am richer than he is. he hates using my car (he prefers that we commute), he hates going to my family's parties (he always has an excuse not to go), and he always ALWAYS insist that he buy ridiculously expensive gifts for my family during their birthdays but gets offended when i give gifts to his mother or sister. he struggles two jobs because he's the breadwinner of his family. i never offer him money. i never introduce him to my friends because he said that they are spoiled even though he hasnt seen them yet. when we go out in dates he brings me to places i have never been before in my whole life. i never complain but he would say "i bet u wish we are someplace nice, huh?" in a bitter way.

i love him but im tired of his bellyaching. i dnt care if he's poor. in fact, im adjusting so much just to suit him. all i wanted is to be happy with him. please advise me. he has become a bitter man.

2007-10-24 02:45:34 · 6 answers · asked by Ariane 1 in Singles & Dating

So I am getting married in February, and I have a question. We are having a small wedding (75ish people) and we both have very large families, because of this, we obviously couldnt invite alot of people we wanted to. One of the ways we cut people ways we decided to invite no children unless they were in the wedding party or immediate family, and we only invited aunts and uncles but no cousins. In the end we ended up inviting very few (like 4?) because they had been involved in the planning or were very special growing up, etc. Now we have heard different people are very upset and offended because their kids arent invited, or because we didnt invite so and so, etc. I have apologized but they are still hurt. Am I handleing this wrong? We just have alot going on right now and can't afford so many people. I think its about us and not them, but I still feel guilty and they are still offended. Thanks!

2007-10-24 02:42:19 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok first ill ask her "if you could be anything in the world what wold you be?" and she would answer...then if she asks what would you be and i would say "If i could be anything in the world i would be one of you tears...so i could be born in your eye, live on your cheek and die on your lips"....and at that same time when im doing that when i say i would be born in your eye id get my knuckle and put it at the end of her eye and when i say live on your cheek i slowly move it down to her cheek and when i say die on your lips i cup her chin and my hand and brush my thumb against her lips and then kiss her....would this be perfect to melt her heart?

2007-10-24 02:37:32 · 13 answers · asked by Axle 2 in Singles & Dating

How many guys out there got there wives as good as my husband got me?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iqpSlW3oZE8

2007-10-24 02:37:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ppl used to ask me why i smile alot.

2007-10-24 02:35:36 · 8 answers · asked by dimples (loves llcoolj) 4 in Singles & Dating

The wwhole 50/50 partnership thing is awful for families.

2007-10-24 02:33:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We don't want to hear about your ex-boyfriends, we don't want to heal your pain, and we don't want to comparing us to you ex. Just bring yourself, and leave your emotional baggage at home.

2007-10-24 02:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 02:29:14 · 5 answers · asked by dawn w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

...you realize that you don't see the relationship in the same way as your partner...especially when you love him...do you just fit in...no questions asked...?


We are both commited to a relationship but he seems more organized and I'm more spontaneous....

2007-10-24 02:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-24 02:28:27 · 4 answers · asked by mad&sad 2 in Singles & Dating

a. European Women
b. American Women
c. Asian Women

2007-10-24 02:26:43 · 30 answers · asked by g p 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking like huge can't get out of bed guys, but some guys with a little bulk to them. Do you find them sexy? Would you go out with one? If you are into big guys, why?

2007-10-24 02:24:56 · 11 answers · asked by Roland of Gilead 3 in Singles & Dating

There has been an ongoing argument between my brother and his wife and my mother. Something happened about 2 months ago that had made them stop talking. So anyway, ever since then i have tried to write to my brother through his myspace b/c i didnt want to call b/c i didnt want to talk to her and she always picks up the phone. So i wrote to him a letter about how he is being so childish and how he can't do this to his own mother. SHE responded back to me!!! I feel like she is cutting off all communication to my brother. My mom took him to the side last weekend, b/c she still goes over there to see her new grandchild, and she wanted to talk to him privately when he had the chance. He called up last night saying how they want to talk with her and how if she calls back she can speak with his wife and tehy can set something up.

2007-10-24 02:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by AngryFalafel 4 in Family

One of my mom's friends told me they seen my step dad snorting something one night and now i am scared. i know my dad is smoking marijuana. its just that my real dad left me when i was younger for drugs and now i am worried. my stepdad and i's relationship has went to garbage and his attitude is getting violent. and i am the one who is the source of all his rage. he has even hit me a few times and its been happening more frequently

so please help me. what are the signs of him doing crack/cocaine.

my own mom doesnt want to believe me

2007-10-24 02:14:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My grandfather recently passed away, leaving a house full of old family papers. These range from deeds to the family farm from the 1800s to boxes of bank statements, cancelled checks, newspapers.... Everything is scattered around the house in cupboards, trunks and drawers. Any advice for tackling the task of sorting these papers and deciding what is worth keeping (for the sake of family history) and what should be shredded or otherwise done away with? Any ideas about how long it might take? I hope to spend three or four 12-hour non-stop days to get everything sorted... Is this realistic or completely unfeasible? Thanks for any advice from your experience.

2007-10-24 02:11:17 · 4 answers · asked by Mob_in_France 1 in Family

If you meet a person you want to know very much in a public occasinal situation and he/she also shows interest to know you, and there is not any chance/excuse for you to talk, let alone exchanging contact, and once you miss the chance you two almost will never have chance to meet again, is there a way you two can get to know each other ?

2007-10-24 02:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by uscncagroup 1 in Singles & Dating

this boy from i know randomly started talking to me on msn yesterday, nd im confused about it ..

alright i had this picture of me on my msn pik ..

http://i203.photobucket.com/albums/aa42/amandasommer908/me-1.jpg

heres the convo

HIM: bad girl :| (y)
ME: waa
HIM: picture! (I)
ME: wa about it lol
then 5mins later he went offline..

:| = DISSAPOINTENT face
(y) = thumbs up
(I) = lightbulb

huh i cant figure it out, why did he just randomly say that?

2007-10-24 02:06:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He likes to debate a bout EVERYTHING ITS PISSING ME OFF

HELP!!!!

2007-10-24 02:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-24 02:03:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex left when our daughter was 10 mos.old. 3 months later he got a girl pregnant, probably was seeing her while we were married. My daughter who is 10 has 1/2 brother who is 8. My ex lives with this lady & his son & is active in my daughter's life. My daughter knows how babies are made and knows this is her half brother. Somehow she's not getting it or I feel more likely blocking or not wanting to face it. when it comes up I have told her that she and her brother have the same father.She gets defensive and says"he can't be they're not married, or he can't look like dad, he looks like his morm, or she'll ask "how did dad even meet her and Riley" Which I can honestly say "I don't know". I've talked to my ex and he just nervously laughs. Thanks for any advice.

2007-10-24 02:03:05 · 25 answers · asked by inkster7 3 in Family

2007-10-24 02:02:21 · 5 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

From my previous question a couple of days ago you can see that i have just had my heart broken. I am still in love with him and would like to rekindle our relationship. He says he loves me and would do anything to get back with me, i know trust can't come straight away and want to take it slow but how do i know if he really loves me or not.

Do i simply just believe him when he says he loves me, although we broke up becuase he lied to me.

I thought he loved me before, with the way he would look at me, the way he would treat me like his princess (or so i thought...) and do anything for me, the way we got on with each other so amazingly, the way i would wake up and find him staring at me as i slept, i could go on....

So i thought he loved me before (but found out he had been texting and emailing girls dirty things and saying he wants to kiss them etc - he admitted it all and is genuinely sorry) so how do i know if he really loves me now???

2007-10-24 02:01:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does anyone have any good night messages really heart touching ones ? or even morning text messages. will give 10points to the best one

thanks

2007-10-24 02:01:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships