He likes to debate a bout EVERYTHING ITS PISSING ME OFF
HELP!!!!
2007-10-24 02:05:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So what? Either enjoy a good debate or if the guy isn't very smart, as many debaters are not, just ignore him and let him talk and talk. The other day, my partner went on for a few hours none stop. I couldn't even get a word in, so I just went online and smiled and nodded half listening, mostly not. He didn't even care, just went on and on...
2007-10-24 02:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-25 10:47:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he always been this way or is it a new development?
My husband goes through cycles about every 4 months of being in a bad mood, critical of everything I do, and arguing with me about everything.
I finally figured out that everytime he has extra stress or problems at work he comes home and takes it out on me. Luckily for me it only lasts about a week to ten days and then he gets over it.
Try to find an underlying reason for his behaviour. Once you know what has caused it you will be better able to ignore the hostility and try to help him work it out.
Good Luck
2007-10-24 02:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So really wind him up....that will be fun. Take a BS stand on some issue that you know will twist him up, something arcane that there is no possibility of either of you winning. If he is a smart guy, he will eventually get the point. I have an ex like that....to shut him up I deliberately get him going and start laughing at him. A little bit mean but he does quit debating with me.
2007-10-24 02:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Was he like this before you married him? Men are "fixers" and they need to tell us how to fix things? Just smile and nod, and do it your way. My marriage would have been over a long time ago if I hadn't read lots of relationship books, I loved "Men are from Mars Women are from Venus" Go to the library and read up on men it will help and keep you sane. Good Luck.
2007-10-24 02:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Married Lady 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
omg! my husband gets into those moods too. he has even gone as far as taking I.Q tests just to prove that his arguments are usually right. and he does have a high i.q.
sooo what to do. you put your thumb in your mouth and nod your head up and down...so agree with him. I was playing about the thumb in your mouth, but serious about agreeing. it might be hard. it sounds like yall both have hard heads and your always bumping heads with each other. that never works.. just make stuff up and agree that he is right. then call up your friends or sister and they will tell you he was wrong and you were right. always works for me!
2007-10-24 02:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by neverlie 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
it takes 2 or more to debate
2007-10-24 02:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by flatfootfred 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you could either try the direct route and say hunny your irrating me cut it out or you can look at hime and say hunny you are so right, and walk away. Believe me my husband takes the cake when it comes to irrating some times. He is always right in Mark land so if he gets annoying I just walk away from him. I know i'm right I dont need to justify myself
2007-10-24 02:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by sarah W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask him what is really bothering him. He has some issues over something. If he just continues, tell you have had enough of his bickering and aren't going to listen to anymore of it. Just walk out of the room when he starts it. And yes, I liked the just stare answer.
2007-10-24 02:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just pat him on the head and say, there, there...it will all be OK. Or, you could come up with something to debate about that he knows nothing about.
2007-10-24 02:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by CC 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋