2007-10-24 04:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by grace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
♥ You can tell her til your blue in the face, but she may not listen, she may get defensive, and she may get mad at you. My suggestion is to let her learn on her own that he's a jerk [[or whatever the reason may be]] then just be there for her when her heart gets broken. Its hard to stand by and watch that happen, but sometimes there is no other alternative... my cousin is 16 years old, almost 16 weeks pregnant and her bf took off to Florida. He's having fun chatting to other girls, partying, "looking" for a job since he quit his other job, etc.... and I've tried telling her but she wont listen...
♥ Let your friend learn and be there when she falls! :-) She'll love you for that!
2007-10-24 04:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by NCIS ♥ Addict 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what someone else needs.
If your friend has a lousey boyfriend, she's probably fully aware of the situation, considering she is IN it.
Give it time, and she will break it off.... if she asks advice then give some. Don't give unsolicited advice, or tell others what to do. I'm sure you have your own problems to deal with.
2007-10-24 11:43:25 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sit down with her, and tell her ur worried about her situation with her boyfriend, but you need have legit reasons for her needing to brake up with him, tell her only a true friend would her this, and that you want to see her in a healthy relationship, if she doesnt listen, at least she knows where you stand, and that you care about her and are concerned. good luck
2007-10-24 11:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by sierrasings 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't. She 's aware of what she got herself into. ZBut if she asked, then tell her straight on her face what she ought to hear.. Unsolicited advice can be overbearing to some. a person in love tends to be blind and deaf. Pray for her. Be there when she needs a shoulder to cry on.
2007-10-24 11:52:14 · answer #4 · answered by mushkybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my question is this why do you want your best friend to b reak up with her boyfriend? is there any reason.
well to answer your question: u just can't go tell them that. there gotta be a reason why you want her to break up with her boyfriend. you don't want your friend to be mad at you right.
2007-10-24 13:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you just don't think it'll bring her any good. Present her some arguments. GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-24 11:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Nobody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't because they will probably get defensive and mad at you. it will probably happen in time.
2007-10-24 11:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by bootyginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋