my ex and i dated for 3 yrs....and he broke up with me for another girl they now live together but they dont get along all that great hes 19 and shes 18 and im 18....i still love him more than ever and ill do anything to get him back someone have any advice or ways i can get him back??
2007-10-24 04:24:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im not askin what yall think i dont care i just want to know how to get him back!!
2007-10-24 05:02:18 · update #1
serenade him with a sweet song at his window
2007-10-24 04:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe that he will come back to you soon because if you know already that they don't get along and he will get tired of the other girl. I take it that you still in contact with him hopefully by phone. Three years together you're probably know what he likes to do or not to do then take advantage of the situation. If they're fighting & don't get along then it's the best time to make your move. Call him up, talk with him but don't mention anything about him & the other girl just talk about things that he likes, things you & him done in the past that were fun & those good memories together then maybe ask him to go out get a drink or something to eat. The bottom line is if you want him back so bad, you have to seek any opportunity you see then make your move, turn those opportunities into positive relationship with him. I hope that gives you some ideas, wish you luck and wish you the best.
I hope you get him back & hope that he will not leave you again.
I know you don't care what others think but most people are right that you're probably need to get over him and move on because you can get him back now but he'll do it again.
2007-10-24 06:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by LT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess all you can do is keep up some kind of contact with him to let him know the door is open. The next thing to do is get on with your life and consider other prospects. It is just possible that you will meet someone else who is better and you can forget this chap.
Please consider if you really want this fellow after he dumped you. If he does come back is this likely to happen again.
Good luck.
2007-10-24 04:31:25 · answer #3 · answered by Kenneth H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't tell him how you feel, ignore him- don't call, don't do anything. If he calls talk briefly talk to him but just be matter of fact- no details about how you feel. Go out with friends have fun, maybe even date someone- tell him that you're dating. If he still has feelings he will become jealous and come around more and more. Before you ever go back to him you need to make it known that what he did was wrong and it really hurt you.
2007-10-24 04:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have a broken heart, but he's with someone else, fighting or not. How can you take someone back that hurt you so bad? Love is tough, but I think you need to move on. He's not good for you. Once a cheater always a cheater....
2007-10-24 04:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Little Miss Sunshine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want someone that doesn't want YOU???
Get over it - he's even a bigger loser if he's still talking to you and telling you they don't get along that great while he's living with someone else.
Don't be a fool. Move on.
2007-10-24 04:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him goooooo... he's with someone new. if he wasn't id tell you to go to his house and say you need to talk to him and get him to listen to you, but he obviously doesn't care about you if he's with someone new already and after three years of you loving him. he's an ex for a reason, just move on im sure you could do better.
2007-10-24 04:28:18 · answer #7 · answered by JTOdapizzLE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he choose her over you do you really want him back? I understand you love him but girl you gotta move on because if he left you once for somebody else what makes you think he want leave you again?
2007-10-24 07:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like invite him over for some "football and beer". Slip him a fat roofie, and then have at him. When he gains consciousness tell him he's a fat biatch and to "never come around these here parts again." That should do the trick.
2007-10-24 04:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you kidding me? Move on - you have your whole live ahead of you. He is moved on, whether fighting or not, leave it alone and do something for your own self. Be happy, you will attract so many more...
2007-10-24 04:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by Carmencita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stand tall and don't let him think you're dependent on him. At the same time, try to show how you're better than the current girl he is dating. If he doesn't see it, then he is not worth the fight, because you deserve way better treatment. =]
2007-10-24 04:30:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋