He calls me names now and Im so confused. When we first started sleepin together we talked about what would happen if i got pregnant and he said he would be here for me and now he is denying it. What do I do?
2007-10-24 07:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you know, alot of guys do this, he doesn't want to be bothered with a baby, so he is trying to run you away, hoping you want contact him anymore, even after the baby comes, dont let him treat you like dirt, just tell him that he needs to get prepared to pay child support, and leave it at that, and like everyone said, the DNA test will tell the story. I know your hurt, but dont even worry about a relationship at this point, just tell him that he is gonna have to pay up, when the baby is born, whether he wants to or not, or he will be sent to jail !
2007-10-24 07:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he can do the deed but not take care of his responsibility. After conducting a DNA test which proves that he is the father he would no longer have no arguments in denying that it is his child, might want to hit him up with child support as well.
2007-10-24 07:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by Flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit stressing about it. You need to take care of yourself, and not worry about him. If this is how he will treat you, knowing(and he does know) you are carrying his child, then walk away. When the child is born, have a paternity test run, prove he is the father, and continue walking and taking his money to raise his kid. You have learned a valuable lesson, don't allow sex until you have that ring on your finger, and if the guys don't like it tell them to take a step, right out of your life. You now have the most important job in the world, and that is to love and care for YOUR child. Good Luck I know you can do it.
2007-10-24 07:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paternity test is the only way at this point that you are going to get him to maybe admit to being the father and have him support your child.
It can take time to get the test results back, but you will be happier for it! Good luck!
2007-10-24 07:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by onetreasuredpet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get the test done that shows he's the father, or leave. Heavy drama, depression or alot of stress can be very harmful to the baby.
If it were my ex, we talked alot about that. I wanted her to have my baby.
He's either gotta be commited or not. Either you're in or out. But he's gotta take the responsibility for his actions. Always a chance when you sleep with someone, especially with a loved one.
2007-10-24 07:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by adam n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously the only way is to get a DNA test. Nothing you say or do will convince him.
2007-10-24 07:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test and take his *** to court. Make him pay for the cost of the paternity test and for the cost of court, and hope that he gets one whopper of a child support payment to make each month!
2007-10-24 07:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Infatuation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA Test. and tell him to be a man. Don't ever give up your baby. If he deserts you look for someone who is gonna take care of you.
2007-10-24 07:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a DNA test performed.
2007-10-24 07:17:29 · answer #9 · answered by Squat1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DNA test. In fact.. i think its required so you can start getting child support from him.
2007-10-24 07:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋