If your boyfriend was drunk and had sex with another woman, would you forgive him?
If he called you and told you the complete truth?
2007-10-24 07:05:00 · 26 answers · asked by Narina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The woman wasn't drunk at all.
2007-10-24 07:12:16 · update #1
Being drunk is no excuse. If he told you the complete truth and you just forgive him, he will definately do it again. Cut him loose and move on. Have enough self respect to get out of this relationship. You deserve better.
2007-10-24 07:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by misbotta 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're boyfriend got her pregnant or caught a std or the next time he got drunk what or the girl was a tyranny. I am a Guy 50ish and married eighteen years to my x and I made excuses one after another being Military not home enough always on the move and thousands more. Don't lie to you're self NO NO NO weather he,she or other cheating is cheating and if he does it drunk or solber he will do it again and that means he doesn't respect you or what you THINK you have. Again you new the answer be for you ask.
2007-10-24 14:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ed M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was that drunk not to know what he was doing he wouldn't even be able to have sex. If you know what I mean? But um for real though you don't want no drunk for a boyfriend no way so forget that.
2007-10-24 15:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by I am mizz chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not forgive him! Cheating is a relationship breaker...so is lying! I don't care if he said he didn't mean it or he was so drunk he didn't know what he was doing. That would be the end for me....if it can happen once it will probably happen again.
2007-10-24 14:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Guys with any sense of decency wouldn't sleep with a drunk girl in the first place. As far as forgiving him for his mistake, that's up to you.
2007-10-24 14:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, but that's me. I know in my heart that it would always be there in the back of my mind, and every time he was late, or out with the boys again, I would wonder if it would happen again.But again, that's me.
You need to do what you feel is right for you. Nobody can tell you how to feel about something like that, as it is so personal.
Good luck in whatever you decide to do.
2007-10-24 14:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by Angiej1213 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me...my bf did get drunk and had sex with this girl and she ended up prego.we broke up at first and we still like eachother but i think its better as friends for us. i did end up forgiving him but not rite tht second.
2007-10-24 14:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way i wouldn't wanna be with any one who get drunk until he loose his control to cheat on his gf. Just dump him, he is no good anymore. He is done it once and there will be many more so why even bother:)
2007-10-24 14:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by Lala 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well What is he doing getting drunk with another women and not with you. I would be mad. Because then that would mean that he had time that he spent with some one else and not with you.
2007-10-24 14:08:53 · answer #9 · answered by cholia 4 life 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it were me...from now until the end of my life, I wouldn't have anything to say to him.
I would not curse him out.
I wouldn't fuss him out.
I wouldn't yell.
I would go silent on him...immediately and for all time.
HE would be forever guessing about what I'm thinking 'cause I surely wouldn't open my mouth.
2007-10-24 14:17:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋