When were in school we talk, laugh make eye contact alot, touches arm e.t.c however were virtually never alone, I really like her and i want to ask her out... how should I ask her out in a way that is subtle and doesnt put pressure on either of us? ie i DONT want read comments saying just go up to her and ask her out!! Thanks for all help=)
2007-10-24 07:30:44 · 16 answers · asked by Ziggy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so unless she just flirts with everyone, it looks like she likes you and won't say no or anything!
if you are NEVER alone, then i would say you should call her, tell her that you would have done it in person but didnt want to do it in front of people...ask her if she'd like to go somewhere with you sometime!
or if there's ever a time you could walk her to a class just the two of you, you could ask her then, i do think its nice to do it face to face!
good luck x
2007-10-24 07:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by genie-in-da-house 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know she likes you. That allows a wide variety. If I were you, I would take her and talk to her alone, somewhere at least a little romantic. Right there, I would just be honest and tell her how you feel. She probably feels the same way like a lot! Don't let the romantic part slip though. Girls love that. But then just maybe say that you really like her and want a chance. I think you will totally get it. Just try to be yourself. I know that is hard when you do really like someone but try. It will work. Keep me posted. Good Luck!
2007-10-24 14:37:44 · answer #2 · answered by Erica L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One easy way is to get a few friends together that want to go out & do something fun. Then while you & the girl are talking, casually mention you & some friends are going out & ask if she'd like to join you all. Or say something like "We're all going out this weekend - you should really come along - it will be fun!" Something like that.
Still - you won't be alone, but perhaps you can use that as one way to spend some more time with her until you are comfortable asking her out on a real 1-on-1 date!
Maybe if you hang out in a group setting like that & she is having a good time, you can suggest to her that maybe she would like to join you again - just the two of you.
Like if several of you go to the movies, after the movie - if she enjoyed it - say "Gawd that was a great movie! We should try to go see
And since Halloween is near - try to get some friends together for a haunted house or hayride attraction. Invite her to go with you. Then while the girl you like is screaming & yelling, you can grab her & drag her away from the ghouls chasing after her ;p You can "protect" her from all things scary! LOL
If you two are in the same classes - you can suggest studying together for a big test. Or ask for help with some research or a difficult assignment - or maybe she needs help from you on some assignment. Suggest you get together to work on a project for class or something.
2007-10-24 14:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could call her on the phone,or give her a note. You already said you didn't want this answer,but just asking her would probably work. Just say something like, 'Do you want to meet for pizza at (fill-in-the-blank's) Saturday at 7?' Good luck.
2007-10-24 14:35:28 · answer #4 · answered by Karate Kid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask for her number and start talking to her on the phone adn if the only thing u want is to get n her pants than dont even talk to her any more but if thats not all ur looking for then start off as friends and see what happens from there!!!!!!!
:D
2007-10-24 14:36:28 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and get her away from a crowed and then just ask her out i had the same problem
p.s. do not call, text, or get a friend to ask for u allot of girls think your a wussy if u do
2007-10-24 14:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do NOT text or IM her thats is extremely stupid, just pull her away from the group of people you are with and say you want to talk to her about something, and then tell her how u feel and see what she says.
2007-10-24 14:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by hay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just invite her to the movies and believe me if she says yes shes all yours ask her out like nothing
2007-10-24 14:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by Antonio J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she is interested in and suggest you both go sometime to the event or whatever it is .
2007-10-24 14:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you casually say "wanna go see a movie friday night?" or "do you like pizza? why dont we go out on saturday?". that is simple and not too difficult right? good luck! =)
2007-10-24 14:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Carly S. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋