i just broke up with my bf but i think i still have feelings for him should i call him or forget him at all?

Question

here it goes we started being bf and gf last aug when i came back from abroad i stay for about 3 months everything went well for both of us and i left again for work in abroad last november when i was there im calling him everyday 3x a day but he never called me there even once it always has to be me i dont know why he always take me for granted but the hell i love him then i decided to go home here again after 1 yr working i went back here i was trying to call him but he didnt answer yet im still calling him until he answer me he told me that he was to busy so he never got to answer my call i was just wondering hes not working he just stay home anyway we talked we agreed to see each other and talked but no one came im waiting for nothing i hate him but on the other side of me i still love him i dont know maybe i was just hurt so much i just wanna know whats wrong with me why he kept on avoiding me i just want a closure i dont want to be left hanging with no answer. what should i do?

Answer 1

Should? You should "move on". Of course as these things go you certianly will not. Which is to say you don't really have any intention of forgetting this guy, learning your lesson and getting on with your life. Which is whats really going to hurt you here. I for a second related to him not always calling you, that never neccassary means anything sinster, but the rest, you "should" of got the hint along time of go this guys just not worth it. But I think your doing all you can to survive in your life and be happy, but sister this avenue isn't helping you..... again, you should just find the strength as they call it, and move on, of couse 100s times easier for me to type, then you to do.....