There is a girl in school ( not in my school ) that i really like and I know her for like 5 years but we've been only close friends . I want to tell her that i love her. And I don't know if she even has a boyfriend !! What should i do ??
2007-10-24 07:28:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you are her friend you will know the best time to speak to her - that very special moment she will be alone - and tell her the truth about your feelings. Be sincere, tell her the way you feel about her. Of course there are risks involved but how will you know the outcome of it all if you don't try??
I really hope you are successful! Love is such a difficult feeling to be found nowadays!
Good luck!
2007-10-24 07:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Desir D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carpe diem.... Seize the day, or moment.
I had exactly the same problem in high school through being too shy to tell a girl how I felt about her, so I didn't tell her and regretted it for years... I wish I could offer advice on what to say, but in hindsight, I knew what I wanted to say, but didn't have the nerve to say it... So, just think about how you feel and tell her upfront and straight out honestly - and make sure you talk to her ALONE, no friends around, not yours or hers, it should make it a little easier. The worst that can happen is she's not interested, but you'll have the experience and telling the next girl won't be so hard.
Good luck! :)
2007-10-24 07:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys been close friends for 5 years you should know if she has a boyfriend or not. But anyways You should just tell her how you feel about her I would tell you not to tell her that you love her right away she probably would get freaked out. well at least I think I would. But just tell her how you feel about her good luck
2007-10-24 07:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Deana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. She will laugh at you and tell all her friends you tried to pick up on her. Everyone will treat you like a freak for even thinking you are good enough to date a girl.
There, now does that feel better. Get it all out of your system. You need to have the confidence to tell anyone anything, knowing there are consiquences and a chance that they will reject you. Just having that confidence is probably more than the other guys in your school have.
Get gett 'er dude!
2007-10-24 07:33:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, tell her how you honestly feel. Be prepared for a possible "I like you like a brother or a good friend" speech. If my interest in someone was for more than platonic friendship, I would take the romantic leap, no matter the outcome. I could not be "the friend" forever anymore.
2007-10-24 07:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start talking to her more and more...but do it slowly. and act casual..you don't want to freak her out. And by talking to her...of course ask if she has a boyfriend...if she doesn't...BE HONEST and tell her how you feel.
I cannot tell you enough that girls want to hear things like that from guys. as long as it comes out casual..and not weirdly.
DO NOT tell her you love her. ONLY do that...when you two are finally a couple..and have been together for a while. you don't wanna chase her away by her thinking you're obsessed. and comming on too strong.
BE HONEST HONEST HONEST!!!
and good luck!!=)
2007-10-24 07:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by butterflybabe1822000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should ask her(get her numder) and the firts thing u do if she doesnt have a bf, Take her to a movie and and place your hand on her's and if she feels the same way tell it out and tell her how u feel. if she doesnt feel the same way if it a day or 1 and try it again, she'll have to love u some way or another
2007-10-24 07:33:43 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very simple, find whether she has a boy friend first (maybe u can find this from her friend). then while talking to her u make sure wat opinion she has about u and ur behavior.. note: girls don like very gud guys. so ur next step will be tell her how important she is in ur life and ask how important u r to her.. so if she is comfortable with u and jus be frank in sayin i like u... dats it.. warning : 5 yrs time is a way too much time, try it now or u ll lose ur girl to some dumb...
2007-10-24 07:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by mexi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First go get some info to save u the embarassment! Trust me if u ask her out and she has a bf u'll feel like an idiot!
2007-10-24 07:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know her better then, ask her if she has a boyfriend, bring it into conversation, and then say u like her. dont pine over the same girl for years, theres plenty more fish in the sea if she turns u down.
good luck
2007-10-24 07:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋