Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

2007-09-25 19:07:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like when the date was getting close and you changed your mind?

2007-09-25 19:05:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I shouldn't be upset, and it's his birthday and he should do whatever he wants. But, I can't help but feel a bit of a heartbreak over the fact that he'd rather go out with his friends. I wish he would have wanted to go out with me instead, but I guess he would rather not. Any words to me make me feel better about the situation?

2007-09-25 19:01:41 · 13 answers · asked by Blessed 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and this guy have been bf/gf for 2 weeks now but we have been like dating/haning out since july I don't mean to sound dumb or childish I just don't really know were both 16 but he is turning 17 in 3 mounths and I turned 16 in june. and I was wondering how soon is to soon to move things up a notch. I really like him and I'm not a prude so I wouldn't mind doing stuff for him but I don't want to seem sluty.what do you guys think personal excperinces may help me out more. lol
really I know I don't want to be preached to about how I'll know when or I should wait stuff because Like I said I'm no prude but I Just was wondering what you all thought was a good resonable time frame. thanks

2007-09-25 18:57:45 · 14 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 18:54:19 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl I've liked for a year and I've been thinking to tell her how I feel. She used to be interested in me a long time ago but I ignored her because I never knew who she was, she then went out with another guy but they broke up and but now I realized how beautiful she was but I'm so very terrified that she would reject me because I've never experienced rejection before and I know it hurts a lot. I'm her best friend but what are the odds that she would reject me? I don't see any signs of her interested in me, but she seems a bit shy though.

2007-09-25 18:53:42 · 3 answers · asked by William N 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been having a few problems in our relationship and we are always fighting. I still like him because he was my first and only love but how do I know that I really love him if I have never been in love before? is it ok to see another guy for a little bit to see if you really love love current boyfriend?

2007-09-25 18:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by savvy 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 17 years old....i have an 18 year old boyfriend... we have been together for 7 months and a couple days....i feel like i am sooo in love with him...i believe he loves me too....my family loves him his family loves me......we are perfect together...he is the sweetest guy in the world....he just brightens up my life....we go to two seperate colleges ...lately i find my self feeling lonely.....is this normal...we plan on getting married when we graduate college....how do i show him how much i care for him...how do wwe show the world...how do we get past the next four years with out losing eachother....wer are so perfect together...but society doesnt seem to be in favor of long distance relationships...help

2007-09-25 18:49:37 · 7 answers · asked by curious george 1 in Singles & Dating

so i finally got the nerve to tell this guy i liked him today (3 yr crush).

we seem to be "good friends" but i get the feeling that he is into me as well, he calls me for the silliest reasons (which I predicted he would call) we were on the phone for 2 hours yesterday and 4 hours today, i dont many guys who talk to chicks this long with out "liking" her.

when i told him he "giggled" like nervously, then he said he didnt know WHY i liked him, then followed it up with telling me he wasnt laughing at me, just thought it was funny cause i got all nervous (n he used twitterpatted).

we continued the convo, sorta, nerves where way in play with me by this point then he asks me if my new job is hiring. he wants to work at the same place as me and gives this weird reason why....

so my intuition says he does but if so 1) why is he hiding it if he knows i feel the same and 2) am i reading WAY too much into this???

guys help me on this, please!!!

2007-09-25 18:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will I need to change my information with them also? Like my name and all of that?

2007-09-25 18:35:45 · 6 answers · asked by Cris 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 18:35:17 · 7 answers · asked by brucetrueasblue 1 in Friends

My husband made a mistake ONCE, and although I have given him another chance, whenever we have some arguments, I always bring the past. I know that it irritates him when i do, but I sometimes cannot control myself. What can I do?

2007-09-25 18:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by milovesawei 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've tried offering EVERYTHING possible to get him interested in having sex with me, but nothing interests him anymore, he just says he's not in the mood?!?! He did just get back from Iraq 5 months ago and I thought that might be the problem, but all the guys he went with are not having this problem. I even asked him if we could go to some counseling but he refuses. I know I'm not the prettiest girl out there but I know I'm not unattractive.....I'm just becoming very depressed and frustrated with this all. Does anyone have any suggestions???? Please help!

2007-09-25 18:22:32 · 12 answers · asked by sunprincess3184 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After seven years of debating ....I've come to the conclusion that I don't want to see age 21. I've tried everything to change and be happy, everything...you name it. I gave up a few days ago. Sort of like an epiphany. I want to be an organ donor, because I've read that one persons organs can save up to eight lives. What do you think about peole who kill themselves? I know the answer is not going to be anything I want to hear...but still.

2007-09-25 18:19:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-25 18:16:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

*i have been sick the past couple days and when im sick i dont like to eat because it makes me feel like im going to throw up, that why i havent had anything to eat!!!!!*

There is a guy i like in gym class. During gym we were doing sit-ups and like always we were talking to eachother. When i did my first sit-up and growls came from my stomach (i was sooooo hungry!!!). He didnt really pay attention to it but just to cover i told him how hungry i was and we both laughed. He continued he sit-ups while i sorta watched (not trying that one again!). Finally i got the guts to do another sit-up and the weird sound came back! A sharp pain came from my stomach and i lied down on my back. He just sorta watched and was confused. I closed my eyes trying to make everything go away. When i opened them my friend was hanging over me asking if i was alright. I looked over and my crush was talking to the guy next to him. Now he thinks im a freak!

2007-09-25 18:14:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i like this guy... i think he likes me...and a bunch of u agreed
we get along well, talk a lot, tease eachother, he came to see me at my 2nd job, etc.
But I just asked on Y!answers if guys will go beyond looks and most said no. Trust me, i'm not that good looking. My face is OK, but I'm about 30-40 pounds overweight. Yet, it SEEMS so much like he likes me. I don't think he's had a gf before, and he's not the kind of guy that would want to go all the way physically. He's really sweet and nice and mature...so is he one of the few ppl that looks past looks?

2007-09-25 18:13:21 · 8 answers · asked by ashley_p89 4 in Singles & Dating

My ceremony will be on the beach....I want a string quartet, and maybe a soprano.....but I don't know if with the sea waves and the wind, the music will be loud enough.....or if it will sound good, can you give me some advice please? which is the best music or instruments to play?

2007-09-25 18:11:52 · 10 answers · asked by green_sauce_girl 2 in Weddings

We have been dating 9 months, shes 20 and im 21. Shes in her 2nd year of college and she still lives at home. Her and her real mom hate each other so shes close to her stepmom. They talk every night and just have this really close relationship. Her mom just had a histerectomy (I prolly spelled that wrong) but shes been sooo worried to death about her and just isnt the same. Shes only 20 and still lives at home, but and im wondering if she will probably change after shes out of school and living on her own or with me. Help me with advice

2007-09-25 18:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

now suddenly I have men, including old friends and guys I've known for years asking me for coffee? Absolutely nothing about me has changed! but I have no idea what to do! i have never had any options before and now I'm scared of making bad desitions? very confused!

2007-09-25 18:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to find out where a wedding is taking place, is there a way to do that? I know the state, is that enough info? any help would be great. ANNOCEMENTS would be ideal

2007-09-25 18:06:29 · 10 answers · asked by love 4 in Weddings

My friend who lives in Iowa has been raped by her brother recently and she wants to run away from home. I told her she shouldn't, but she doesn't want to listen so I just want to go get her so she will be safe. any advice?

2007-09-25 18:04:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anders P 1 in Friends

I feel that this love for him increases everyday so that I do not want to miss an hour without calling him or him calling me.I even feel jelous when I see him talking to another woman.Is this normal?We have been together for 6 years now.Please help me, what should I do?

2007-09-25 17:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by asha b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Now I have already told my ex that I want a relationship and she said she didnt. But she said she wants to hangout still just as friends. I guess up until now we have had only a sexual friendship for the past 2 months. But for the first cple of weeks we were seeing alot of each other like every other day but now for the lat month and a half only like 3 times. But by saying just hanging out and being friends does that mean still have sex? And we we would hangout she would do key signs that she likes me more than a friend like holding my hand alot like throughout an entire movie, or kiss me on the forehead or just lay on me agaisnt me when we are watching a movie basically alot of cuddling, and when I do leave her apt no matter what time in the morning sometimes real early like 6a.m. she has to walk me out and give me a goodbye kiss but then when it comes to talking on the phone i can only count like 3 times in the entire 2 months were we had a long convo on the phone like for an hour

2007-09-25 17:56:52 · 5 answers · asked by can only give advice 3 in Singles & Dating

You know how like when your in a relationship and then you feel like you would die for that person and you can't live without them bla bla bla and when you break up its like the end of the world but once you look back at it and your over them you like laugh about it.

2007-09-25 17:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This was the result of an extra-marital affair. I'm the one married. I got the mother to sign some papers, she thought they were for visitation, but they were actually to terminate her parental rights. She was tricked into signing this form. She has recently filed a petition for custody and she now knows she was tricked into signing these papers. How likely is it that she will win custody? I tried to make her look bad in court and was awarded custody. I am afraid that the truth will now come out and myself and my wife will lose this child.

This woman is ready to come to court full barrel and let the judge know what happened a few months back. I already told her that I will not be showing up regardless of if I am served or not. I sent her a nasty email once I found out she was filing this case and now I'm afraid I've shot myself in the a** for doing this. How likely is she to win custody once the courts find out she was tricked into signing that paper and now that she has this email

2007-09-25 17:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Darryl H 1 in Family

i was in a bad relationship for years i loved my husband but was tired of the abuse. i was planning on leaving, when he abruptly died. even though we had our problems i still miss him and love him. i cry every day i dont know from guilt of wanting to leave him or the fact he is gone. i know now im lonely and am wondering how soon is too soon to date

2007-09-25 17:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by welder1156 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do, ive got a million different emotions pulling me in different directions,anger, hurt, shock, what do i do?

2007-09-25 17:42:41 · 9 answers · asked by tmhangel 1 in Family

i'm 19 and my boyfriend is 20. we've been together almost 6 years. the first time we had sex was when i was 15. i liked it then but after a few months i had missed a period and we were scared i was pregnant. since thenwe decided to wait to have sex untill i got on the pill. so now i'm on the pill but i'm scared to have sex with him? not because of getting pregnant but just feeling vulnerable. ever since we stopped i kept dreaming about the next time we had sex and how iwant it to be as perfect as it can get. romantic, passionate, intimate, not just physical. i'm scared i've built sex up to be this perfect thing and it won't go the way i wish it will? and if i get dissapointed hes going to think he was bad at it or something. and that would make me feel awful. what should i tell him. part of me wants to make sure the next time i have sex is with the guy i know who i'll be with the rest of my life. but unless he proposed or something that wouldn't be possible. what should i do?

2007-09-25 17:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am currently listening to my fiancee as she rests soooo peacefully. i've got the phone to my ear, and i am just listening to her take each breath. and for some reason, it's making me feel extremely happy. to the point where i'm in tears. i am singing to her softly, in hopes that she will have a great dream about me. i love her soooo much. is this weird for me to be doing this? i mean, she just woke up, and we told each other we love one another. i started singing, and she fell right back to sleep. is this weird? or isit just LOVE?

2007-09-25 17:40:22 · 14 answers · asked by TWIN 1 in Marriage & Divorce