After seven years of debating ....I've come to the conclusion that I don't want to see age 21. I've tried everything to change and be happy, everything...you name it. I gave up a few days ago. Sort of like an epiphany. I want to be an organ donor, because I've read that one persons organs can save up to eight lives. What do you think about peole who kill themselves? I know the answer is not going to be anything I want to hear...but still.
2007-09-25 18:19:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
please dont kill yourself. i promise you'll be missed. i dont even know you and i will miss you. theres so much in life you will miss out on!
2007-09-25 18:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK fine, sleep through your 21st birthday...miss the party...BUT don't miss 25, 30, 35, 36, 37 etc. on until 80 plus. you can still be an organ donor then. you could also do much more good by joining and supporting an organization for donors that could possibly obtain thousands of organs for sick, needy people than just the one you would supply by calling it quits. Please talk about your issues with a counselor or a Priest. please don't check out...you are important.
2007-09-26 01:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT COMMIT SUICIDE! You will be missed (I agree with the person above me) save your organs for when you are actually going to die naturally, they will be just as useful! There is so much more to life than just ending it yourself! Find a hobby, a job, that will keep you occupied. I don't think I could sleep at night knowing some people thinnk that way. C'mon, you have your whole life ahead of you!
2007-09-26 01:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by MJL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure why you are thinking this way but heck its time to really sit and think of you and who you will hurt by leaving this world. there are parents brothers sisters friends and everyone that is associated with you they will think its their fault and why couldn't hey have done something. imean you have not thought this out. life is so short and you can just believe ther eis problems with your way of thinking that is why we have doctorsa ndst uf. you could see a doctor and get meds to help you through this and talk to them. i see no reason to leave us and even me i d nt' know you but it would be sad to have a souljust up and leave this world for no good reason. its best to rethink your situation take care.
2007-09-30 01:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know if you believe in God or not. You never said. But God tells us that our bodies are not our own to do with what we wish. He brought you into this world and it is only up to him to take you out of it.
If you believe at all in everlasting life then you certainly do not want to kill yourself. It is a mortal sin and you will go to hell.
Now think about this.. You may feel your life right now is terrible and there is never going to be a chance for happiness but if you go to hell, no matter how terrible this life is, it will be a lot worse there. To make things even worse you will be in continue torment in hell for ages.
The bible says in hell they are kicking and nashing at their teeths.
There is no end to the suffering you will have in hell if you take your own life.
I also don't know if you have any family or loved ones. If you do then doing this great sin to yourself would distroy them! Even if you have no love for yourself, you should care about them.
The first thing you need to start doing is to like yourself!
If you do not like yourself then how is anyone else going to like you?
It sounds like you have been hurt and maybe pretty bad. I am sorry for your pain. I too have had bad things happen to me in my life and I have gotten to the point of feeling like nothing was left for me here. I pulled myself out of that place and I started liking me! I told myself that I should not depend on anyone in this world for my happiness. It is up to me! I realized that no one can make you happy and they should not have to. Happiness lies in your soul as it does in mine. It is up to you!
I thought my man could make me happy and I think he tried in his own way but I kept depending on him to make me happy. Get it the word MAKE? No one can make us happy but our self!
Start liking who you are! Like yourself!
If you are not close to God then ask him for comfort and reach out to him for his love.
When Jesus gave up his life, he was not thinking of himself at all. He was thinking about you and everyone. He didn't think about the pain and suffering that he may go through. I know I would have thought about myself, but he didn't. He gave his life for you so that the lord could forgive us of our sins that we do all the time. He did this unselfishly with no thought of himself.
Can you stop thinking of your own suffering and put your life in the lords hands? After all Jesus did it for you and what do you want to do in return? You want to not love yourself and take your life and so this means that Jesus suffered so terribly for nothing.
Please do not make Jesus death mean nothing! Don't take your own life! Live! When the time comes for your life to end Jesus will come and take you home with him.
2007-09-26 02:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by craft painter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋