My boyfriend and I have been having a few problems in our relationship and we are always fighting. I still like him because he was my first and only love but how do I know that I really love him if I have never been in love before? is it ok to see another guy for a little bit to see if you really love love current boyfriend?
2007-09-25 18:50:18 · 10 answers · asked by savvy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that makes sense. thanks!
2007-09-25 19:06:46 · update #1
First of all if you were in love you would know it. Second you say you still "like" him because he was your first. If your curious about someone else..then you are not in love and its probably better to let him know asap before you break his heart.
2007-09-25 19:03:57 · answer #1 · answered by KittieKatten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has different opinions. Some people believe in monogamous relationships. Others are open to having multiple people. The main thing is know how he feels about this, even if you have to tell him. If he's the type who can't accept sharing you with someone else, then either you don't or you break it off with him. But don't sneak around on him, because if he finds out it will probably irrevocably contaminate your relationship with him.
Who knows, he may be thinking about seeing other women.
2007-09-25 18:55:54 · answer #2 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an uncommon situation. You need to ask yourself lots of questions , possibly make a pro's and con's sheet. If he really is the only one, then in my opinion, you need to see what is out there. Breaks happen. BUT, he will be doing to same thing and you need to be accepting of that. Good luck
2007-09-25 19:08:27 · answer #3 · answered by sprite24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....you kinda are being a jerk if you expect him to wait around and be there in case you find the grass isn't greener.
Don't be a wuss. Break if off and go find someone else. DO NOT jerk this guy around or I will find you and shave your head so no guy will want you until this time next year!!!
2007-09-25 18:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by davemustang262001 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you need to play the field before you settle on just one boyfriend. How else would you know that he has got the right qualities you are looking for in a mate?
2007-09-25 19:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it is as long as you don't expect him to wait on you. i can understand wanting to c what else is out there but you also run the risk of losing your current b/f forever cause if you breakk up with him 4 that more then likly he wont take you back
2007-09-25 18:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to do it now then wait until you get married. But there is no nice way of telling him so just tell him you are taking a break from you and him.
2007-09-25 18:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no polite way! You live in a fantasy world. Would you be pissed off if he said that to you?
2007-09-25 18:53:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either break up with him or stay with him there is really no middle ground --- its called cheating however you describe it and if he went off and did it or suggested it he would be the worlds worst
2007-09-25 19:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that's called "breaking up"
2007-09-25 18:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋