You know how like when your in a relationship and then you feel like you would die for that person and you can't live without them bla bla bla and when you break up its like the end of the world but once you look back at it and your over them you like laugh about it.
2007-09-25 17:53:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I did it before and I felt just like you described it. Thank you for reminded me of my first love and it happened to me 28 years ago.
2007-09-25 18:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that's just part of growing up! I thought I was going to die after my 1st fiancee and my 2nd fiancee broke up. Now I see that is for the better. It's just what the heart goes thru, kinda like a comfort zone, then you are put into stress when that comfort zone is changed up..
Take Care
2007-09-26 00:58:37 · answer #2 · answered by blondieoftexas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I haven't gotten to the laughing part yet, but no I do not feel stupid, I feel empowered to know I don't have to have that experience again. Being in a relationship with a sociopath can really hurt.
2007-09-26 00:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by rdcatman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way. Because at those moments, that is how I felt. Just because I don't feel that way any more doesn't mean that it wasn't true. I think you can laugh about how silly you were tho to think that you would jump off a cliff for someone!
2007-09-26 00:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't laugh about it, but I do feel stupid and completely embarrassed, and don't want to think about the person anymore for fear of remembering what a big idiot I made out of myself over them.
2007-09-26 00:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Liz M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, It's not something to laugh about. All I can do is chop it off as being young and niave. and then I feel really stupid.
Stupid for ever waisting my time and love on a butthead.
2007-09-26 01:10:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually feel disappointed coz i liked the feeling of attachment and longing i felt...but i guess it depends on the person. If you still respect him/her or like them as a friend, ya dont feel like a loser for wanting to die for them
2007-09-26 01:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by Shaun Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did I feel stupid. ? no, did I have regrets yes, but it wasn't meant to be and I learned what I didn't want in a relationship. I was way ahead of where I had been ,
2007-09-26 00:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzykitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a lesson in this for you, you don't make the same mistake with the next relationship.
2007-09-26 00:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kaye B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i was in my 1st yr college when my boyfriend split-up. i felt so devastated. i was in pain for so many months - maybe a year then now, when i look back, im laughing how crazy i was before.
people should move on to welcome a new life with someone else.
2007-09-26 00:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by gnyparong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋