now suddenly I have men, including old friends and guys I've known for years asking me for coffee? Absolutely nothing about me has changed! but I have no idea what to do! i have never had any options before and now I'm scared of making bad desitions? very confused!
2007-09-25 18:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are NOT alone in this strange phenomenen!
I too go for years etc invisable when I want someone in my life at all, Then BAM !! when I even start to talk to one since I'm very faithfull, all of the sudden I'm so Hot when I could be fatter or something, I dont get it either, I know I'm usually wanted back by those who messed up so bad that I cant feel for em, But when I was right there giving it my all.. I was just crap or something, makes you wonder if guys love rejection and hate love sometimes.
2007-09-25 18:17:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do.Now don't laugh, trust me. Get a blank piece of paper. Write all there names down. Then take each man one by one and answer these questions.
How old are they
are they single
divorced
kids under 18
looking for just sex
looking for a relationship for a future
have they ever been in jail
There is nothing wrong with coffee. In fact coffee, lunch or brunch dates are the best. Take it very slow. It is up to you to respect yourself than you will.
2007-09-25 18:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just accepted the fact, that there is no man out there for you at this moment and your attitude must have changed. You are not looking for somebody and know they are looking for you. It happens all the time. If you are desperate and want a man you won't get one, but when least expected and you really don't care, they are after you. You are projecting an images of a woman with self confidence and not somebody clingy. Good going.
2007-09-25 18:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seven years is like the amount of time a typical marriage or relationship lasts. so seven years ago when you were ready to date all the dudes were taken by other chicks and there were no guys available to ask you out. now the seven years is up and all these dudes are splitting with their wives or girlfriends. theyre starting to date again and remember you from years back. your times finally come. enjoy it.
2007-09-25 18:18:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What to do? Pay attention to your feelings and stay true to yourself. Do what you want to do and what you think is right. Going for coffee is probably a safe thing to do with anyone you feel like spending time with. Have fun and stay safe.
2007-09-25 18:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things change as people change. Some of them may have been involved with other people, or something happened that caused things to be different.
2007-09-25 18:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Paul R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you finally got used to being single, and have become more confident in yourself. men might be noticing this. good luck!
2007-09-25 18:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Veronika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, u have to give it all a try...u never know if anyone is good or all of them are good. best of luck!
2007-09-25 18:09:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be more open, see if a guy likes you or not based on the way he reacts...
2007-09-25 18:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by PoWeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋