I feel that this love for him increases everyday so that I do not want to miss an hour without calling him or him calling me.I even feel jelous when I see him talking to another woman.Is this normal?We have been together for 6 years now.Please help me, what should I do?
2007-09-25 17:59:09 · 11 answers · asked by asha b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it's not good when you love your man to the point where you live your life for him and he is your life. When a man knows he has you body and soul he can get away with just about anything and he knows you will forgive him. That's when he will take advantage of you. For everyone who told you there is know such thing as loving him to much is wrong. You can love a man to much, when it starts to be to much for him and he backs away from you because he feels smothered so be careful of that. Nothing wrong with loving your husband just don't become to clingy to obsess with him to the point where you become jealous of every female he talks to. You must think something is wrong with how much you love him why else would you ask the question.
2007-09-26 11:39:36 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel you need to call him every hour? After six years together? That is what I'd call obsessive. Do you have a job? Do you have any interests in life besides your husband? If you do, then pay some attention to them. If not, you really need to get some. This kind of obsession has been known to drive the beloved away. You do need to stop it. You did not mention one thing about how he feels or how he behaves, or whether he has complained. Do you actually pay any attention to him, or only to your own feelings? If you love him, be sure that you are showing your love by trying to please him. Is talking to him every hour pleasing him?
2007-09-25 18:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as loving someone too much!!!!!!!!
however i think your slightly insecure and jelous, and obsess too much!!!!!!!!! call him every hour thats redicoulous!!!!!!!!!!!!
what you need to do is find things to do that occupy your mind and time while your husband is at work or wherever he goes!!!!!!
and then just enjoy the time that you do get to spend with him, and if he loves you an i'm sure he must to put up with you calling him every hour!!!!!!!! then trust him to do what he needs to and trust that your marrage is solid if he has never given you reason to think otherwise and take a chill pill and get more secure in your marrage. the more secure you feel the more you will not feel like calling him every hour and the less jelous you will be.
good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-25 18:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is normal you really are in love with him. it can go on through your whole marriage. Give him space, when you get jelous don't look at him get busy with something or go talk to some other guy and enjoy yourself like he is. You don't want to become co-dependent. Read up on that. if you follow the rules on co-dependent you may feel better.
2007-09-25 18:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it both ways? Enjoy while it lasts, and if it lasts forever; wonderful. If it doesn't; you never went wrong and don't regret. All true love is like that. The rest is all heady. Go do all that you love together. Don't look back. Life is lived in future.
2007-09-25 18:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by System07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a wonderful wife..real wife..worhth dying for u the man who married u...lps do continue ur luv for him..amy be he wants to express the same but fixed with work stuff..never mind wat so ever if u to hold him tight till the end the same way...good luck and happy married life..god bless.
2007-09-25 18:03:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You forgot that you can't sleep if they are not next to you even if they are loud annoying snorers.You miss their snoring. LOL
Soulmates in all its glory. :)
2007-09-25 18:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Woman in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..it's good to love your husband..but when it start to bug him doing his job or his social life..maybe you should consider it..because spouse is like sand..the tighter u hold it..the more it will escape..but when you hold it not to tight,it'll stay there..:-)
2007-09-25 18:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by doodida.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill. Don't get obesed, he is yours. Make him romantic meals but don't smother him
2007-09-25 18:03:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet Web 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats wonderful!
2007-09-25 18:02:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋