This was the result of an extra-marital affair. I'm the one married. I got the mother to sign some papers, she thought they were for visitation, but they were actually to terminate her parental rights. She was tricked into signing this form. She has recently filed a petition for custody and she now knows she was tricked into signing these papers. How likely is it that she will win custody? I tried to make her look bad in court and was awarded custody. I am afraid that the truth will now come out and myself and my wife will lose this child.
This woman is ready to come to court full barrel and let the judge know what happened a few months back. I already told her that I will not be showing up regardless of if I am served or not. I sent her a nasty email once I found out she was filing this case and now I'm afraid I've shot myself in the a** for doing this. How likely is she to win custody once the courts find out she was tricked into signing that paper and now that she has this email
2007-09-25 17:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Darryl H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Why would you trick this poor woman out of her own child? Gee i hope it was a damn good reason and not selfishness.
Court could go either way, on one hand she was tricked and you are very much in the wrong there - but on the other hand - she signed a legal document regardless of being tricked or not. She should have read it through, and had a lawyer read it thru too. Its all gonna come down to what the judge thinks unfortunatley
2007-09-25 18:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have a serious problem with being faithful, truthful, and even being a decent human being. Number one, you don't cheat on your wife. Number two, you don't make a baby with anyone else. Number three, you don't steal a child away from his mother just because you feel like it. And number four, I hope you not only lose custody of the child, but also that your wife dumps you for a better man. Finding one shouldn't be too hard, since you have sunk to such a low level.
So if you are to make things right you must stop spending all your time thinking about yourself, and try thinking about the effect you are having on those around you. i.e. Your "loved ones". Love means to care about a person, and if this is how you do it, I'd hate to see what you'd do to an enemy. Until you do grasp the meaning of all you have done, and the pain you have caused, you don't deserve the time of day from any of those you have mentioned, including and especially the child.
I hope you can see full force the harm you have caused all of them. A good stiff hard kick in the pants may make you a better person. One can only hope.
2007-09-25 18:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jann 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you should lose the child. You were thinking of yourselfs and not of the child. You lied and tricked this lady. You are in big trouble and I feel real bad becuase this will show the court what type of person you are and you WILL loose the child. You not showing up proves you are hiding and the jugde will give her all the rights. A girlfriend of mine took her ex to court to get child support and her ex thought he would screw her and not show up. He was the one who got screwed. She got an extra $300 a month in child support and he now has suppervised visitation 2 times a week.
2007-09-25 18:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what were you and your wife thinking you are both not very nice.
and yes this will come out in court and you will probably lose custody of the child ( rightly so) you and your wife didn't have to play dirty, you and the mother of your child could have shared custody of the child, a lot of people do that. if i was her i would use the email in court. the only person you have really hurt is your child, your should think about that. and i am sure that she will win. you are the loser here.
2007-09-25 23:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by tayhay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a good chance that the court will award full custody of your child to her because you acted in bad faith and lied to the court during the initial hearing.
2007-09-25 18:15:14 · answer #5 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont show up to court if you are served papers to go then youll prob have a warrant... besides it looks like you have something to hide... wich you do. you conned her into something not to mention you had an extra marital affair and the nasty email.. yea.... looks like youre screwed. unless she is unfit in the court's eyes.. chances are she will get the child.. doesnt sound like you are very responsible anyhow
2007-09-25 20:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by amandica82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 09:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sure hope that you didn't tell her or anyone that you tricked her into signing the papers. Even this IM could be used against you if the wrong people got their hands on it. What you have said is very damning evidence.
2007-09-29 12:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by jcf6865 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very likely because you lied to her and basically the whole court system by trying to make her look bad..Unless she really is a bad mother,you might have a problem when you return to court again.Because they are going to challenge your ligitimacy because you lied to her and the court.And she is probably going to bring this out in court.
2007-09-25 19:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer. Your male in family court ~ your scr&w&d.
2007-09-27 18:44:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ruben Rybnik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋