We have been dating 9 months, shes 20 and im 21. Shes in her 2nd year of college and she still lives at home. Her and her real mom hate each other so shes close to her stepmom. They talk every night and just have this really close relationship. Her mom just had a histerectomy (I prolly spelled that wrong) but shes been sooo worried to death about her and just isnt the same. Shes only 20 and still lives at home, but and im wondering if she will probably change after shes out of school and living on her own or with me. Help me with advice
2007-09-25 18:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is very young and is not grown up yet, so it's pretty reasonable to expect that she will grow up and change. She may always be close to her stepmom, but most young women who are close to a mother still grow up and become more independent. Why do you need help? This is not a problem. Living at home when you are still going to school and only age 20 is perfectly reasonable and normal.
2007-09-25 18:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by treebird 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
its definately not a big deal that she still lives at home...many college students cant afford to live on their own yet! why pay for something when parents are willing to help. Her being close to her mom isnt a bad thing either. Its easy to stay close with a mom because they have been through everything we're going through now. They are easy to talk to and love you no matter what! When she moves out they wont see each other as much but their relationship probably wont suffer. They will probably still talk on the phone.
2007-09-26 01:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by hunny_bun19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i mean most females are close to there moms because we understand each other! when she moves out on her own shes still going to be close that doesn't stop there relationship! its a good thing shes a friend to her mom like that because most people cant get along with there parents! she probably so worried about her mom because if something happens to her she that's the only thing she has and she would go nuts! sometimes a mom could be just like a best friend too! your just going to have to get use to it because shes going to tell her everything its just a relationship you grow into as you get older and by your mother being there for you so much!
2007-09-26 01:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by charie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very close to my mom. I am 23 and she is 43. We share clothes, make-up, stories and have so much fun together! The bond we have is very important and if a guy I was dating didn't love my mom or our relationship, he would have to hit the road! You should be proud that your girlfriend has a mature relationship with her mom especially at her age when most girls just want to fight, argue and throw tantrums! I applaude your girl and you should too!:)
2007-09-26 01:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by PrincessAsh23 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is wrong with her being close with her Mom?
I was very close with my Mom and when she got sick I was worried as well.
She passed away and I miss her big time!
Why are you so concerned about a mother and daughter being close?
Sounds pretty normal to me:)
2007-09-26 01:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think she will change a little when she moves out...but most girls are close to their moms..nothing wrong with that...I know I am really close to my mom but I live with my bf...
2007-09-26 01:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Rosey 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most girls are very close to thier moms. This never changes. She will be like this till the day she dies.
2007-09-26 01:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by 1funnyguy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
well it's always good to be close to ur mom or step mom but maybe it's just a stage she is going threw..i mean u never know she will come out of it soon.
2007-09-26 01:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by punk rocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
comfort her, she's upset. Soon she'll be back to her usual self. And what's wrong with her being close to her mom? I love my mom... HATE my stepmom... but ya.
2007-09-26 01:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Veronica ♥ Cobras 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that bond. I don't see what the promblem is here. She just doesnt want to loose her mom or anything to happen to her.
2007-09-26 01:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋