Now I have already told my ex that I want a relationship and she said she didnt. But she said she wants to hangout still just as friends. I guess up until now we have had only a sexual friendship for the past 2 months. But for the first cple of weeks we were seeing alot of each other like every other day but now for the lat month and a half only like 3 times. But by saying just hanging out and being friends does that mean still have sex? And we we would hangout she would do key signs that she likes me more than a friend like holding my hand alot like throughout an entire movie, or kiss me on the forehead or just lay on me agaisnt me when we are watching a movie basically alot of cuddling, and when I do leave her apt no matter what time in the morning sometimes real early like 6a.m. she has to walk me out and give me a goodbye kiss but then when it comes to talking on the phone i can only count like 3 times in the entire 2 months were we had a long convo on the phone like for an hour
2007-09-25 17:56:52 · 5 answers · asked by can only give advice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My questions does it seem like she likes me more than a friend and I am just making myself to available to her. And by hanging out and being friends does that mean being friends with benafits, and would I be wasting my time playing her games back at her
2007-09-25 17:58:43 · update #1
ok, gonna try to help. She is very confussed at this point. She doesn't feel any kind of mental attachment to you, but feels an emotional one. As far as talking, she feels she cannot hold a conversation with you, but misses the security of being with you. The question you need to ask yourself is...even if it is "friends with benefits" can you prolong her confussion?
2007-09-25 18:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by LariaMaria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously? If you want a real relationship this isn't the person to try to have one with. This is all just silly stuff. The entire concept of "friends with benefits" is just silly too. If you want a relationship be real and find someone who will be real with you. And stop playing games.
2007-09-25 18:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to her about what her definition of you guys being "friends" is and make sure that you guys draw a specific line between friends and friends with benefits, unless you want to be friends with benefits. You should definitely talk to her about it and if you feel uncomfortable with the way she acts, let her know and draw the line. Hope everything works out!
2007-09-25 18:01:25 · answer #3 · answered by Paisley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its called the friends with benefits. I dont even think she would reject to have sex. I also have a friend like that. She already ahve a bf, but she goes out with me, hugs me and sometimes kisses too. and sometimes we spend lot of time on the phone talking about somthing romantic - but she always say that she loves her bf and never said to me that she loves me! I dont love her too. but i like her as a friend.
2007-09-25 18:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wasting your time. better move on
2007-09-25 18:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by spoodleroo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋