Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

there is this girl i like, when we are at work together we never run out of things to say. but when i got her email and started talking to her at home it is like she doesn't want to walk to me at all, i ask all the questions and i get one word responses any ideas of what i should do?

2007-09-19 16:31:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend and I would like to find one. I have thought about those dating sites but I'm afraid to go on those because they might not be safe and whatnot so I was hoping someone can give me good advice on how to find a guy. Thx in advance.

2007-09-19 16:26:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My dad and brother got in a terribble accident and died. My gret grandma's bladder gave out. I am having a hard time gettin over this. help me please.

2007-09-19 16:26:08 · 6 answers · asked by Cammy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-19 16:24:36 · 32 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a man gets a woman pregnant from a one night stand, does not want to have a child with her, but after he sees his child he feels for his child...therefore starting to develop feelings for the mother. But still holds resentment because it was a one night stand, he was not in love with her at the time. Are the feelings he feel now due to the manipulation of seeing his child with the mother??

2007-09-19 16:23:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And, YES, it is wrong to have an affair with someone who is married?

2007-09-19 16:23:17 · 20 answers · asked by ncgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

bottom line - they HAVE screwed us out of money in the past.. they HAVE screwed my bro-in-law - who they live w/ now - out of money.. they have SEVERE money problems (they can't manage it at all) but they are being kicked out of their apartment w/ my bro-in-law on october 1st, and i feel bad!!

should i make this my problem and talk DH into letting them stay with us for a while?? or do i forget it and let them figure this ish out on their own??

2007-09-19 16:22:15 · 18 answers · asked by idgaf 5 in Family

I am going to get married soon so I am wondering how to satisfy ma gurl on bed? I want to giver her kinda extrem pleasure but how and what actions should I take? do touching womens back (bt) makes them feel good? do they liked to be rubed or what? please advise and let me know any particular places where i can touch? i know every women is different but some how i want to know a general idea of spcecific places where all womens liked to b tchd.Thanks

2007-09-19 16:20:55 · 9 answers · asked by Gabrail 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there a "spousal exemption" of sorts?

My husband has a business partner. His partner told him about a month ago that his wife has a serious and potentially life
threatening illness. He asked my husband to not tell anyone. Tonight at dinner, my jeweler and his wife (who are friends with both my husband and his partner) asked my husband how his partner's wife was doing.... I was stunned. I asked him what was wrong with her, and I had to pry it out of him. He almost didn't tell me!

My question: is there an expectation that a person will share that kind of information with their spouse? Do people assume that "pillow talk" will occur? Or are you suppose to not share that kind of information with your spouse? If it were me, it'd be the first thing I told my husband when I got home..... What can you share, if not these type of things?

2007-09-19 16:20:14 · 12 answers · asked by JennieM 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and we live together, and i have very strong feelings for him. Matter o fact i love him. I'm afraid to tell him, because i dont know how he feels, and he's so weird about those three little words.

He def. shows he loves me, he just has never said it.

2007-09-19 16:18:19 · 1 answers · asked by Taylor Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

i am not sure if this is in the right category, but whatever.

i'm a male, 15 years old, and in 9th grade. Well, two years back i was a popular kid with a lot of friends by my side.

now, all those people dont hang with me anymore and just leave me alone. i have no friends now and i am feeling lonely. then, i also have this big crush on a girl, but she rarely talks to me. and dont think she ignores me, cuz shes really nice. i see her every day with all her friends, and it makes me feel so bad.

also, i have said that nobody talks to me. they actually do, but behind my back. They spread rumours about me. i only hear about them from my only 2-3 friends.

i feel like this lonely kid with no life, a crush on a girl who barely knows me, and everyone else thinks i am this mean and nasty guy(from the rumours)

what do i do?
i am feeling terrible. it is only been about 3 weeks in school and i think that it sucks

thanks

2007-09-19 16:17:28 · 13 answers · asked by Edgehead (Colts 2-1) 4 in Singles & Dating

This boy and I have been good friends for three months. He got really close to asking me out today. I think he is going to ask me out soon. He is really nice and all, but I don't know how to judge whether an Asian boy is cute. He is about 5'9.
Please let me know if he is cute if you can judge east Asian boys. Here is a picture of him:
http://www.geocities.com/gfubs/05AE2.jpg

And please let me know if I should date him. I'm 17. This is the first time that I feel that I'm moving towards a serious relationship. Thx.

2007-09-19 16:15:46 · 23 answers · asked by MinneFlwrGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

She was venting to me about her best guy friend. Ironically my girlfriends roomi is interested in the guy. But she's upset and crying to me on the phone and all mad about her guy friend not talking to her, texting her or asking her to hang out enough. I dont want to hear about it, what do I do?

2007-09-19 16:15:38 · 4 answers · asked by PAboy05 1 in Family

2007-09-19 16:15:29 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

After I married my wife I kept in contact with 4 of my old girlfriends that I had intimate relations with, My wife told me on several occassions that it bothered her that I still IM'ed and e-mailed them on a regular basis and even tried to get her involved by being their "friends". Although I never talked sexual with them I still remained in contact with them. Should this have bothered my new wife or should she just have accepted it as inocent freindship?

2007-09-19 16:14:06 · 20 answers · asked by free_mark53 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My parents are fighting and I think it's about me and my brother, they won't talk and I think that is something they need to do, I think I will stay with my Grandmother for a while because I'm afraid things will start to get violent. Can someone shed some light, because I feel really low right now.

2007-09-19 16:14:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was suspicious and confronted her, after seeing many many phone calls, back and forth, during times they had no reason to be talking on the phone... long story short, she denied denied denied... Then I found she was looking for a card for him using the search words "I want you but can't have you" and "wanting what you can't have"... So they decided it couldn't go further, etc..etc.. he transfered to another location, same company, but obviously still have ample opportunity to communicate and even see each other. Oh, and she continued to lie about talking ot him and deleted phone calls, etc.. So, she says they can remain "FRIENDS" since they didn't have sex and it went no further than "emotional" ... I say she no way, if he's more important than our marriage and family, then that's the choice she has to make, but I'm not going to be worrying about this jackass all the time, when she's proven she's willing to lie and deceive me in regards to him. Am I wrong?

2007-09-19 16:13:59 · 13 answers · asked by Timothy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i wish her to leave my life without my telling her anything about it. she is clueless about my affair.i want to marry my girlfriend as she remained unmarried because she loved me truly . i have been married for 10 years and have two kids.i wish to keep the kids and want my wife to leave me.i do not wish to tell her directly.how can i accomplish the task

2007-09-19 16:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me. I called the police, they arrived, and he claimed SELF DEFENSE. He didn't have a single mark on him. Me two black eyes, broken nose, cracked ribs (2), and bruises galore. What a screwed up state I live in.

2007-09-19 16:09:25 · 23 answers · asked by s b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is it called when mother in law ask if she can take my son with her down two house and I say no. Takes my son with her down two house anyways. In regardless of what I say. Brings him back in 15 minutes. Can I call the police..Maybe that will streght her out

2007-09-19 16:06:33 · 2 answers · asked by la_nena_consentida 1 in Family

2007-09-19 16:04:07 · 2 answers · asked by jae 2 in Singles & Dating

Over the past few weeks my going through trails have been hell on earth.As a pastor my faith is hit and raged on by church folks.Note these are the people in whom I tend to and reach out for when they need someone to share their deepest fears.As a human I hurt so bad and smile on the outside but cry ever so hard on the inside for them yet I press on.I have done so much for people not looking for anything in return yet the results seems lame.I am well noted for helping churches grow and having programs for the needy.Yet does anyone care that I hurt?Perhaps being real isnt what people want,but i dont know any other way to be.Does anyone care that although
I maybe a preacher,yet I am human and I have feelings too?
I really need a friend to talk with right now.

2007-09-19 15:58:39 · 30 answers · asked by preacherluv66 2 in Friends

I just like you as a friend"...(when they ask you out)...still keep trying...because when i say NO, and most people i know when they say No, we mean it......do they GET IT when you STOP RETURNING THEIR CALLS????..your parents had told you to do it nicely and he will "get it"...(but some just don't)

2007-09-19 15:58:31 · 8 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok there's these 2 girls that me and one of my friends don't like because they're always starting something. Well one of them is kinda in it because I don't like her and she found out (she's a b*tch also.) Well since they found out about it, they always stick together at lunch, they're always walking together in the lunch line and stuff, and they used to not do that. What's the point? I heard they say stuff about us behind ours backs, but they can't say it to our face.

2007-09-19 15:57:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-19 15:54:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,
I'm a 16 year old female who's parents recently split up. Grade 9 i was a perfect student, then i began to party and get into drugs when my parents split up. I continue to do drugs and party. However, I feel like I can have the best day in my life and come home and be extremely angry all of the sudden. I have So much hate towards my family it is unreal. I dont really stay at my moms, she has a boyfriend in the states which she left my dad for so she isn't home often, and when we do speak she takes complete advantage of me. I dont know what is wrong with me? Why can't i get over my parents not being together? Many people go through it and get over it, and I just can't seem to, it is always on my mind and makes me cry at least 3-5 times a week. Whats the problem?

2007-09-19 15:53:16 · 5 answers · asked by imissyou44 1 in Family

im 15 years old.and my dad HIT me (literally) for the first time.
i haven't talken to him in 7 months.nothing.nada.not a word.i don't even look at him.he hit me cuz i accidentally stepped on his feet with my heels on.(the heels were very long)
hes bribed me and everything so that i'll talk to him
but i won't talk to him cuz im a stubborn person

do u think i should start tlaking to him again?
if so why?

2007-09-19 15:53:09 · 4 answers · asked by Leila 1 in Family

2007-09-19 15:52:52 · 4 answers · asked by sjhencye 1 in Weddings

My bf and I are both in our late 20s and very independant. Before we met, I had a job in Eastern Europe. I really miss working overseas. We plan to marry in a year or two. I never knew love could be like this - he's amazing. I still travel a lot by myself as well as with him, but the trips are shorter. (His job doesn't give him much travel time; mine does.)

I now have a dream opportunity to work in Africa for three months next year. He would meet me there at the end to travel for 5 weeks together. He trusts me 100% and says if this is what I want, he supports me fully. My parents say I should go and really, what's 3 months of our lives?

However, we've had comments from a few friends. He tells them our relationship is none of their business, which is great. But it made me think - is it wrong of me to want to take this job even when he can't join me? Does a relationship mean I should give up my dreams? These comments are upsetting me! Any opinions are appreciated. Thank you!

2007-09-19 15:52:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 15:50:40 · 12 answers · asked by rarodge21 1 in Marriage & Divorce