Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

Everytime I am watching a football game, a video game or a movie my fiancee decides she would like to hold a conversation but never when I am just watching basic tv. So I wanna know why women decide at that time it's time to talk. We have a rommate that is female that does the same thing, so I would like to know why. Is it women's nature?

2007-09-19 15:48:33 · 14 answers · asked by darkprince0930 1 in Friends

my husband's parents live next door so we no doubt see them often, yet they still call EVERY day to check on their only boy. if he's become ill, even if its a cold, they'll call. if we go out of town they call to see how the drive is going. if we've been my husband's doctor appointment, not more than 10 steps out the door they are calling to see how it went. they just don't give us a chance to calling them first. we've been married over 3 years now and its really getting to me and on my mind constantly. i want to spend time with my husband and not worry about when his parents are going to call to check on us, especially if we are visiting with MY parents. i've told my husband how i feel, but he's so used to his parent's attention its hard for him to understand how deeply its bothering me. is there some way i can handle this better? am i overreacting?
~ thanks for any advice ~

2007-09-19 15:48:24 · 12 answers · asked by sweetdaisee82 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What is your honest opinion about men who use women or men who act like they are truly in love, only because they want to see the woman fail and look stupid?

I'm just trying to figure out why my ex took advantage of me, knowing I'm a sophisticated, educated, and loving person. Then left me for a promiscuous women with lots of children, no future,no education, and and a disgusting lifestyle??????

2007-09-19 15:47:15 · 15 answers · asked by Psalms 2 in Marriage & Divorce

when I was married to my now ex wife. I bought a 4 wheeler for her daughter to use.it was kinda a present for her.she was 10 at the time.my wife filoed for divorce when I was hospitalized and I came home to an empty house. I was diagnosed woith bi polar but am now on meds, anyway, my ex took the 4 wheeler with her when she moved out.she is having problems making the payments on it and I offered to take over the payments on it since it is still financed in my name and the title will be in my name.she wants me to give her cash over and beyond the value of it because she is in a financial bind.. who should get the 4 wheeler.it is still like new and hardly ridden and it is in my name ,she has been making the payments for the past year.is it morally wrong to want it back?the kids havent spoken to me since the move out and they dont want anything to do with me.she has turned them agains me in all aspects and Ive never done anything to the kids nor have I ever been abusive to their mother.

2007-09-19 15:46:48 · 9 answers · asked by road runner 4 in Marriage & Divorce

pop a pimple that is right on the crack of his butt...Needless to say I REALLY don't want to do it. He says its my duty as his wife to help him with things like this but I think its asking a little too much so we are asking on yahoo answers to see if I should have to do it for him or if he should have to do it himself.

2007-09-19 15:37:47 · 43 answers · asked by CalamityJane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

thanks for answering.

2007-09-19 15:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my boyfriend( of 5 years) his son is getting married. well my b-friends ex is throwing them a wedding shower. we got the invitation with a note stating that we are all to purchase items from pampered chef for our gift to them,that means with the credits from the items we are all to order she will use the credits to get gifts for the bride & groom, yes that means the items that she orders will be from credit and they be free, not costing her a cent. ( i will be taking a outside gift). i feel this is very tacky.how do you all feel about this? ps... the future bride & groom have lived together for a year allready so they really dont need expensive pampered chef junk i mean who really needs a &25.00 ice cream scoop???

2007-09-19 15:35:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He met this woman while away on business. Never told me about her. returned home and continued to call her from his business cell phone, thinking I'd never see the bill, cuz his company gets it. But its sprint, so I logged in and created an acct for his line, and saw the calls. when i asked him if he ever called her, he denied it, i assume he never thought in a million years he knew i had seen the bill, so i bethca he thought he was safe lying to me. little did he know. so do you guys think he was sleeping with her while away on business? BTW we live in IL and she lives in TX, so no, it aint an ongoing thing, but i'd bet my next paycheck he kept himself warm while away on business.

2007-09-19 15:34:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I wondering if you can love someone that you have never met before. I'm feeling little werid about this. I have feelings for someone I have never met. He has sent me beautiful letters. Now I'm wondering if I'm wrong for feeling this way. I know how I feel right now. I just wondering if anyone wants to tell me their opinion. I believe that you can have feelings you can not explain.

2007-09-19 15:34:05 · 1 answers · asked by Bird Lady 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend( of 5 years) his son is getting married. well my b-friends ex is throwing them a wedding shower. we got the invitation with a note stating that we are all to purchase items from pampered chef for our gift to them,that means with the credits from the items we are all to order she will use the credits to get gifts for the bride & groom, yes that means the items that she orders will be from credit and they be free, not costing her a cent. ( i will be taking a outside gift). i feel this is very tacky.how do you all feel about this? ps... the future bride & groom have lived together for a year allready so they really dont need expensive pampered chef junk i mean who really needs a &25.00 ice cream scoop???

2007-09-19 15:34:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and this girl have a mutual liking towards eachother, but she told me that she had her first kiss with her ex-boyfrend. And they kissed several times, frequently. I really like this girl, but i feel akward kissing the lips of a girl who's lips have met another guy...am i being over-critical/picky or do you think i should just wait for a girl who hasnt had a first kiss yet too! Please help

Confused Teen,

2007-09-19 15:33:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How much should I expect to pay to have my engagement ring sent out by the jeweler to get cleaned in that machine to buff the scratches out? It's white gold and I never take it off so it's not looking its brightest and I'd like it to get that sparkle back for the wedding pictures. There's just too much contrast between it and my wedding band. Thanks!

2007-09-19 15:31:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I like a guy, the guy likes me. It's not love. We aren't in a "relationship". Neither of us have any time to commit to anything more than midnight fun with each other. So is it wrong for two single consenting adults to get together just for some of the most amazing sex either of us has ever had? People are calling me naive and saying that this guy is just using me. BUT I KNOW IT. I'm not seeing anyone else and it's fun. Why can't it just be accepted that sometimes all you need for a particular moment in life is just awesome sex without any strings?

2007-09-19 15:30:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a live-in nanny for a family in London. I am from Nebraska originally but i moved over here and have been with a wonderful family for 2 years. I love the kids and their parents have a great marriage. Most days i love my job. Their is one major problem. I recently discovered i am pregnant. I am 100 percent sure the father is the father of the family i work for, my boss. If i fessed up, it would destroy his marriage and his family. I have not told anyone other than a few close friends, my doctor, and my mother, who still lives in Omaha. What can i do?

2007-09-19 15:28:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ever since last night when I cooked her favorite meal, then I took her shopping to buy any clothes she want(My credit card is still smoking mind you lol), gave her a massage with scented oils by candle lights then presented her with new ring for being pregnant and to celebrate being pregnant.

And some other "nightly activities" that where focused on her.

Now today she just stares at me. I asked her what is wrong but she says nothing.

But she stares quietly at me, watching everything I do.

Is she okay? Is it her hormones from being pregnant? Or is it something else?

I know she likes to keep the scare "even". Ever since kindergarden during Valentines day she had to give me more love cards that I gave her or equal to it......

2007-09-19 15:27:28 · 60 answers · asked by Blackman married to Redhead 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just asked a question about my boyfriends anger issue and how it scares my but i let out a few major details.The only reason ive been with him for as long as i have is because we have a child together and i really want to make thing work with him for my sons sake.I dont want him to grow up without a close father.So besides dumping him,any advise?

2007-09-19 15:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 15:23:16 · 24 answers · asked by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I know what I want out of life. I know exactly what career Im going into. Is 18 too young to settle into a career and a family? All Ive ever really wanted is the job Im going into and a family. Any Input??

2007-09-19 15:22:40 · 40 answers · asked by redneckcowgirl1472 2 in Singles & Dating

He's a senior, I'm a sophmore. I have known him since the middle of last year. He flirts a little, but that's just how he is... I don't want to just stop being friends with him, but seriously, it's like a punch in the stomach every time I see him ( unless I talk to him, then it's fine)... We just have a lot in common, except he's 2 years older than me, which wouldn't be a problem really, it's just that I dont think he likes me like that;(
How do you get over someone like that?
thanx

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I have guys my age I'm interested in, but I can't help but compare to him (which they can't do), and it's not a wanting what I can't have thing, b/c I'm not usually that way.

2007-09-19 15:21:24 · 2 answers · asked by savywoods 3 in Singles & Dating

While traveling for business, my husband had dinner with a woman who was also attending the same business event. It was just the two of them out to dinner. Should I be concerned about this? My husband didn't tell me outright that he had dinner with this woman, but when I asked who he went to dinner with, he did tell me. Again, should I be worried? I felt really odd about it after he told me. I don't want to be the "jealous wife", but feel strange about it. What do you think?

2007-09-19 15:19:32 · 27 answers · asked by Ann04 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says he doesn't feel like having sex....ever. Blames it on a low testosterone level although the doctors say its fine. No I don't think he's cheating, but I wonder is this really normal in a 34 year old man? He has a very stressful job, but I don't think that's it either. He's nice to me otherwise but I am going crazy with the I just don't have the desire excuse. What can I do? I feel so hurt that I'm not wanting to put forth any effort to "make" him want "it" anymore. He should be chasing ME around the house!!!

2007-09-19 15:18:05 · 20 answers · asked by momo72653 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 15:15:29 · 21 answers · asked by thirsty mind 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother is 8yrs older than me. and he is a medical docter. I'm 20 yrs old. we always shared a great bond. he was always kind to me and took me as his little doll. But after he got married he doesn't speak to me, he doesn't care about me, frankly I feel as though I lost my brother. I'm so heartbroken over this matter. please help me get through this. He got married only 4 months ago and he and his wife doesn't have any problems. But they live in different towns coz of there work locations. they only meet on weekends. I thought it might be his matter, but he is so arrogant towards me. And its too much for me to bear.

2007-09-19 15:12:49 · 8 answers · asked by ash 2 in Family

My bf's 2 year divorce process is over in a month and i know he is stressed about things the ex is trying to pull at the last min. (but thats not what this is about) I thought it would be nice to get away and take a trip to the beach. he is always hesitant to go away bc it's a hassle to find places for our dogs, so i found a hotel where we can take them. I even made sure they had a spa so we could get massages. i asked him to go the weekend after his court date bc i thought he'd be ready for a relaxing getaway at about that time. his response..."no, i'm probably going to be hating women at that time" he said it jokingly and it didn't really bother me...i just said "it's not fair if other people have to pay for someone else's mistakes" we laughed about it but how would you feel if you were me?

2007-09-19 15:11:42 · 8 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and i have been together on and off for years, he has been a horrible person to me always doing hurtful things and saying he's sorry. I want to move on for good! im tired of trying but i constantly keep running back because we have kids and i haven't been able to find anyone else yet.How do i stop the pattern of constantly going back to him no matter what he does to me its taking a huge toll on my mind and self esteem any suggestions ?

2007-09-19 15:10:21 · 8 answers · asked by justagirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I hear alot of people say swinging isn't cheating...But to me cheating is sleeping with someone else either way...weather you know it or you don't...swinging to me is open cheating..How do you feel on the subject?

2007-09-19 15:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok a few months ago I had a fling with a married man (yes i know BAD Idea, so don't worry you don't need to point this out - however i didn't cross the line so to speak) Anyway we both decided to stop and have no contacting (well his idea not to contact but i didn't argue) anyway when i knew him, I got to know some of his mates, as spent time at the pub with them all. Now he is telling me not to talk to his mates at the pub, and that they do not want to talk to me and wonder why I am there, and that the way I act 'does not look good'. However most of his mates have always been really friendly, and brought me drinks etc. Why do you think he said this? do you think he might be a bit jealous or not really?

2007-09-19 15:09:11 · 17 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Were in a small school and we hung out w/ a new school and now she follows at our heels and we want to get away and we don't know how to get away from her without hurting her feelings. Shes driving us MAD!!!

2007-09-19 15:07:55 · 2 answers · asked by Christal R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

OMG!! MY MOM IS SUCH A PAIN IN THE @SS!!! I have MY FRIEND WHO LIVES AROUND THE CORNER WHO IS PRATICALLY MY BRO!! AND MY BFF LIVES DOWN THE STREET AND SHE NEVER LETS ME DO ANYTHING!! I HAVE TO PLAN OUT EVERYTHING BEFORE I ASK HER SOMETHING IF I EVEN HAVE A SHOT AT HER SAYING YES!!! IMEAN THEY LIVE DOWN THE STREET AND SHE SAYS ' I WONT HAVE U RUNNING THE STREETS UR ONLY 14!!' AND IT PISSES ME OFF!! ITS LIKE SHE THINKS IM GOIN 2 *** HOME PREG OR DO DRUGS OR DRIN K AND IDK Y!! SHE HAS EVEN YELLED AT ME AND CALLED ME AND MY BFF HORES!!! AND SHE WONT LET ME HANG OUT AT MY BROS HOUSE CUZ HE HANGS WIT 'MEXICANS'!! I MEAN C'MON THERE IS NUTTIN RONG WIT THAT!! AND I GOT HER TO LET ME GO TO THE HOMECOMING PARADE WIT EVERY1 AND I HAD THE MOST AWSOME TIME!!! I TOLD HER WE WOULD GO THERE AND FIND HER!! SHE KEPT CALLING AND I TOLD HER WHERE WE WERE AND I GO BAK 2 MY BROS AND WE ALL RUN AROUND PLAY GAMES AND ALL SORTS OF FUN! AND THEN WE ALL SIT DOWN TO EAT DINNER AND SHES OUTSIDE!! I COULDNT STAY

2007-09-19 15:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Mandie K. 3 in Family

first off my mom is on drugs all my life no one wanted to take me in; in our family so they forced my mean aunt to adopt me. as I was growng up she moved me out far excluded from the family she physically & mentally abused me as a child even when I was a teen things go farther than this even her daughter & grandchildren did some pretty F'd up things.When I turned 18 she basiclly threw me out bcus I wouldnt walk her dog down to a feild in the deep snow in the winter.I was living with my mean aunts friend her daughter was my bestfriend but they started using me,so I left know skip all the other stuff.Today is my cousins bday & I been noticing this bcus she was adopted by my mean aunts sister they wanted her quick! but not me. They treat her like royalty buy her clothes every day almost anything she wants but push me to the side. My bday just passed & all I got was a ipod bcus mine broke but they bought her 3 one got stolen,she broke one on pupose, She got a big flat screen Tv & a new Car

2007-09-19 15:06:28 · 7 answers · asked by Trell773 5 in Family