OMG!! MY MOM IS SUCH A PAIN IN THE @SS!!! I have MY FRIEND WHO LIVES AROUND THE CORNER WHO IS PRATICALLY MY BRO!! AND MY BFF LIVES DOWN THE STREET AND SHE NEVER LETS ME DO ANYTHING!! I HAVE TO PLAN OUT EVERYTHING BEFORE I ASK HER SOMETHING IF I EVEN HAVE A SHOT AT HER SAYING YES!!! IMEAN THEY LIVE DOWN THE STREET AND SHE SAYS ' I WONT HAVE U RUNNING THE STREETS UR ONLY 14!!' AND IT PISSES ME OFF!! ITS LIKE SHE THINKS IM GOIN 2 *** HOME PREG OR DO DRUGS OR DRIN K AND IDK Y!! SHE HAS EVEN YELLED AT ME AND CALLED ME AND MY BFF HORES!!! AND SHE WONT LET ME HANG OUT AT MY BROS HOUSE CUZ HE HANGS WIT 'MEXICANS'!! I MEAN C'MON THERE IS NUTTIN RONG WIT THAT!! AND I GOT HER TO LET ME GO TO THE HOMECOMING PARADE WIT EVERY1 AND I HAD THE MOST AWSOME TIME!!! I TOLD HER WE WOULD GO THERE AND FIND HER!! SHE KEPT CALLING AND I TOLD HER WHERE WE WERE AND I GO BAK 2 MY BROS AND WE ALL RUN AROUND PLAY GAMES AND ALL SORTS OF FUN! AND THEN WE ALL SIT DOWN TO EAT DINNER AND SHES OUTSIDE!! I COULDNT STAY
2007-09-19 15:07:08 · 9 answers · asked by Mandie K. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
AND SHE MADE ME GO HOME AT LIKE 8 45!! THEN SHE GETS IN MY FACE ABOUT HOW I DIDNT TELL HER THER WUZ A CARNIVAL WIT THE PARADE (KIND OF A DUH AND I DID SAY THAT THER WAS!!) AMD HOE I SAID I WOULD RIDE HOME WIT HER AFTER THE PARADE WHICH I DIDNT SAY THAT!! AND HOW IM GOIN 2 LIVE BY HER RULES UNTIL IM 18 AND I SAID ITS NOT FAIR I HAD FUN WIT SOMEONE WHO WASNT FAM!! THERE IS NOTHIN RONG WIT THAT RITE!! AND 2 MAKE MY NITE WORST I LIKED THIS GUY ME N MY BFF WERE HANGIN WIT AND HE PULLED ME ASIDE AND I GOT MY HOPES UP AND HE TOLD ME HE LIKE LIKED HER!! AND THEN THE OTHER GUY I LIKED BOUGHT HER A SNOW CONE AND EVEN LET HER EAT OFF HIS SPOON!! OMG!! I DONT KNOW WHY I AM TALL BLONDE AND SKINNY AND I LOOK WAAAYYY BETTER THAN HER! ANYWAYS AND DONT TELL ME SHES TRYIN 2 PROTECT ME OR ANYTHING CUZ SHE JUST DOES IT CUZ SHE CAN!! SHE HAS NOTHIN BETTR 2 DO!! FUN 2 HER IS 'COMIN HOME CLEANIN THEN GOIN 2 BED' JUST CUZ SHE DOESNT HAVE A LIFE DOESNT MEAN SHE CAN TAKE MIN!! I SHOULD RUN AWAY!
2007-09-19 15:14:47 · update #1
he is 2 me bro and yall dont know what ur talkin about she doesnt want 2 talk she wants 2 control my life and s he doenst want 2b my friend she wants 2 b my 'mom' and control my life cuz she doesnt have 1
2007-09-20 09:56:51 · update #2
Well, thats how moms are.
Your lucky to even hang with guys, my mom would kill me.
I cant cuz she thinks ill get pregnant. Grr. xDD haha.
2007-09-20 15:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mom is prettystrict. I remember that. She might be going a lil' over board with the protectiveness. But I have to say I am only 23 and I know when I used to baysit my cousin I was always afraid something would happent to her and that waas when I was like 17. Now my cousin is almost 15 and her mother could give a crap less about her and she is always outside doing whatever she wants. I dont know maybe you just have to stick it out until you're old enuf. My parents were strict too and I bolted as soon as I was 18.
2007-09-19 16:02:22 · answer #2 · answered by Vicky Lovers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! GOD being the key word in the phrase... take a deep breath, take a bath, take a step back from the situation, RELAX!!!
u seemed stressed bcuz u want more freedom... with more freedom comes more responsibility... u have to be careful about what u ask for... consider this....
what have u done for ur mom lately?
what do u do that gives u the rite to complain about how u r being raised?
when was the last time u took the initiative to act deserving?
GO TO UR ROOM! take a look around, what in that room did YOU earn and pay for? the clothes on ur back, ur bed, the ability to type the "I HATE MY MOM" note on this computer...
STOP IT!!! JUST STOP HATING UR MOTHER FOR LOVING YOU TOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!! appreciate the fact u have her with u today... i don't.
sometimes parents r fair n sometimes parents r sooooo not!!! u have to und that all the decisions ur mom makes is to protect u and keep u safe bcuz she luvs u... she wants u to grow up to be a wonderful and responsible adult, she wants to know that when it is time for u to go out into the world on ur own that u will be ok... mothers worry about their kids ALL the time, "r u making the rite choices, r u eating rite, r u respecting ur self, is everyone else respecting u"... parents always want their kids to do better than them, that is what u shld be thinking about next time u want something n mom says no...
i know ur thinking... yeah, yeah, blah, blah... let me ask u this...if u think running away will make things better... it won't, where will u go, what will u do for money, who will be there for u when u mess up, oh believe me u will mess up, i still do occasionally and i wish i had mom here to bail me out...
talk to mom, enjoy her, become her frnd not her enemy, she has the best advice and the best stories to learn from, don't be angry bcuz she is trying to keep u young and innocent.
AND y r u jellin over ur bff getting the interest of guys, just bcuz u r slim n pretty doesn't make u beautiful, jealousy is an ugly color, bitchin about ur mom n ur life n all the rest isn't pretty either... trying to be the center of attention is as ugly as being jealous... take ur time and ur Mr rite will come...
AGAIN... take a deep breath, relax... enjoy ur life bcuz soon enuf u r going to be an adult, on ur own and then u will have the rite to complain about the hard balls that life throws at you... and then i can advise u to let go and let God!
hope this helps, God bless...
2007-09-19 17:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ivy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really sounds like you and your mom need to open those lines of communication. You need to talk together, calmly and like the responsible adult you want her to think you are, about her fear of letting you be outside your house without her around. What can you do to ease this fear that she has so that she might be more willing to let you go out on your own. You guys need to compromise!! And its better to learn this amazing skill now because you will need it everywhere in life.
It sounds like there is a lot of miscommunication... your mom thinking one thing and you doing another. You need to be clear, and unfortuantly you will have to be respectful when you talk to her if you want to win her over. And you need to tell the truth.
Some parents have rules and depending on your age, some of those rules seem a bit extream, like if your 17 and writing this... In which case stick it out and wait till your 18, but trust me, your problems with your mom wont go away just cuz you turned 18.
The key here is to compromise, if that means you call her every hour on the hour when your out, so be it, it might mean you can stay out until 9:30 instead of the odd 8:45... reassure her you have the best intentions... i trust you do, tho you seem a bit over reactive to your friend getting fed stuff by some guy who probably has herpes... which is contagious through sharing spoons... so lucky you for passing that up.
Dont be stupid and break your mom's trust, tho that seems to me whats lacking here, find out what you can do to build that up and show her your responsible. Once she trusts you tho, you will have to maintain that trust, that means home by 9 if thats what she wants or calling if your going to be late.
You mentioned running away... can you imagin what your mom will do to you when/if you come back... or the fact that her being overprotective like she is that she wont have every cop out there looking for you, and if your underage, she might be able to get an amber alert out... do you really want the newpapers all over your front door wanting to take your picture as the girl who ran away? It will wind up being global news and ultimatly the most humilating experience you will go through in your life. You will be on YouTube and people globally will laugh at you.
But if you are old enough to consider moving out, get saving for that now if your sure that you want to leave as soon as your 18.
2007-09-19 15:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is real, I suggest that you have your father or your grandmother seek help now. Not ask questions on some website. She is obviously a danger to herself as well as to you and your sister. You must not be left alone in her care at this point. If your father or grandmother will not help I suggest calling the police. If she is capable of acting out in such a way in front of 2 very young children then she is capable of much more.
2016-05-18 23:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just a stupid little 14 year old thinkin you know everything. well, hate to tell ya, but your mother is looking out for your best interest because you don't sound like you are able to look out for your own best interest. my advice: live by your mom's rules until you are 18, have respect for why she keeps a tight reign on you, and don't run away. you should be thankful your mom looks out for you like that. you may hate it now, but when you are older you will appreciate it. don't do anything stupid like get pregnant either.
2007-09-19 15:22:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
You have a very mean mom......someday, you'll thank her for that. At least she isn't one of these people who don't care. They don't care what you are doing, who you are with or where you are at. Be happy because one day, hopefully & God willing, you will be a mom & will understand what it's like to raise a teenage girl in today's world. Oh, you'll only 14 so you should be in by 8:45 or whatever time. Grow up! Tell your mom thanks & you love her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-19 15:45:14 · answer #7 · answered by shameless412 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah its a pain to have a mother who gives a rats a**, isn't it. And he isn't your "brother", he's a male friend, and you have no business "hanging" out with him, its not appropriate for a young lady your age.
Anyway, you really need to be spending more time studying, you aren't going anywhere with grammar and spelling like you just posted.
2007-09-19 15:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
My niece and her mom have had similar problems,,talk to your mom maybe get a mediator,councelling,try to understand
your moms point of view,she loves you and maybe has a fear of something awlful happening to you.they have feelings too
2007-09-19 15:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Inou 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋