Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

wished you could go back in time like before the hubby and kids came into your life. Daydream about the younger days

2007-09-19 12:58:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Not sure what I make of it....

2007-09-19 12:57:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend and I are singing at a wedding and were supposed to come up with a traditional wedding song to sing. It needs to be able to have harmony put to it. Any ideas? Please help!

Thanks!

2007-09-19 12:49:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Alright my mom is having surgery this friday and I would like to make her a get well card. I'm open for any suggestions on a good poem to put inside it. I'm clueless at the moment. Thank you so much for the help! It's greatly appreciated!

2007-09-19 12:47:09 · 3 answers · asked by Kelsey 3 in Family

2007-09-19 12:46:47 · 2 answers · asked by boo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a nightmare, but I have a feeling you all have one too.

2007-09-19 12:40:13 · 11 answers · asked by Guinness 5 in Singles & Dating

my parents split up last year. I live with my mom and my dad lives in a apartment 5 minutes from me. Here is the problem. I don't visit my dad that much as he wants me to. I visit him once every week. And he's been complaining about everything mostly. Like last week I went to a football game with my friend and his parents and we were going to meet some friends there. I guess he was there to and he started saying why didn't you ask me to take you and he just complains that I don't say anything to him anymore and its driveing me crazy Its makes me feel like a bad son. I don't know what to do I'm a 14 years old my mom know about it but i need to hear something from some one else.

2007-09-19 12:37:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

should i hate life? should i kill that *****?

2007-09-19 12:35:19 · 1 answers · asked by Mr. Arkansas 3 in Singles & Dating

give it up, I want to know, because I am sure they all are funny!

2007-09-19 12:27:12 · 7 answers · asked by Guinness 5 in Family

Ok so I had a deep relationship 7 years ago with this Tamil guy. He asked me to marry him, but his parents threw a ****-fit and demanded he break up with me (Iyengars, folks!!) guess the love of his life wasn't good enough for them, nor was their son's happiness. Nice people, eh?

So anyways I come up pregnant and they try to force him to kill me. He beats me so badly the baby comes out permanently and severely disabled. I get away from him, because they want the baby dead even AFTER she is born. What great Iyengar Religious people!

THEN I find out he's been married all along to a Lesbian in the US for greencard purposes. THEN I find out he had a 4 year relationship with some russian chick before me even. Starting to get the picture here?

Well I lost him fast and married a great Punjabi dude who's family totally accpeted my child, and I even had another baby with my new husband, they still treat my first child as their first grandchild.

2007-09-19 12:25:11 · 14 answers · asked by Minerva 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel that my husband has no respect for me in the bedroom. He wont take the time to you know and there isnt any four play. This is what he does he just climbs on top of me and forces his penis inside of me and it hurts and pinches. I feel like a prostitiute. He doesnt kiss me all over or anything he is a minute man he rips threw my vagina. i tried talking to him going to a councelor and everything he tries to take his time on me when he knows i am going to leave then when he thinks i am going to stay he will practially rape me again. so i wont have let him make love to me very much and his friends are coming to me telling me that he is going to strip clubs he tells me its not true and that both different people telling me this stuff he said they are just tying to break us up but they knew personal stuff about me sexually. I feel so empty and sad. He gets mad at me cause i wont kiss him but he kisses rough and forceful. I feel like a vitum.

2007-09-19 12:21:54 · 22 answers · asked by christina b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 12:19:25 · 1 answers · asked by Devanith C 1 in Singles & Dating

Caught ya !

Why is it that the word 'cheated' gets more readers and answers than others ??

Your answer would be admitting your guilt of flocking to this word.

Just click away before someone sees you...like you do the serious thought provoking questions.

Have a great evening !!!

2007-09-19 12:19:14 · 14 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok this guy at my school told me to put my hand agains his hand and his hand was bigger but then he was laughing and wouldnt tell me why

why was he laughing????

2007-09-19 12:18:27 · 4 answers · asked by Kaci 2 in Friends

I still love her and i miss her so much. i text her everyday and ask her how has she been and she saids she is great. but she is the type that wont open up to anyone but herself. she saids she feels great when her entire world is crashing down. she smiles when she feels like crying. and says she is ok when she is in pain. my heart aches for her because she is so jaded. she doesnt count on ANYONE to be there for her because half the time she feels like no one is there. she trusted me but then i had to go away and now i cant touch her or even smile because she aint apart of my life anymore. i call her everynight and i can just hear it in her voice that she misses me but her heart has been broken so many times that she will never say it. when i was living with her and her family back when her dad and brother lived here in town i used to sneak to her room and wrap her up in my arms to let her know that i was there. the nights that i couldnt do that i would just send her a text saying that

2007-09-19 12:18:15 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

True or false: Men would rather cheat or do something else to trash their marriage, forcing their wife to divorce them, rather than be up front and break up honestly with her.

2007-09-19 12:13:00 · 13 answers · asked by ohyeah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that everyone is different, and some guys are more mature than others, but let's all agree that in general, guys in their 20's are a little immature, in the least. I am not saying that they are bad guys, it just seems that they do not want to start being responsible for themselves. Why do they rely so much on other people (meaning their woman) to do things for them instead of taking the plunge and taking care of themselves? And what does it take for them to turn into responsible men? Talking, yelling, and leaving things for him to do does not work, not in my situation at least. My husband is an amazing man, but I am not only burdened by his resistance to growing up, but also concerned for his sake. He is 25 and we've been together for almost 6 years. I love him a lot but I would also love for him to grow up!

2007-09-19 12:11:43 · 16 answers · asked by princesspink 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 12:09:14 · 21 answers · asked by Fogazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi tonight i had a full on argument with one of supposedly friends. Basically im 19 and i have been part of a close group of friends for about 10 years.There are 5 of us, 1 of these friends i have never got along with and nor has anyone else yet he has always been part of our group as no one has the balls to stick up to him!! The reason why he is highly anoying is that he back stabs us all behind our backs, he makes stuff up and takes us all for granted and treats us like ****!!! Anyway i had enough as say whenever we go out into town the only reason we invite him is because of the hassel he will give us in the morning overwise!!!! WTF! So today i took a stand and told him exactly what i thought of him which, i should of about 2 years ago but gave him the benifit of the doubt! He now says he is furrious, i dont care but he is trying to turn it all back on saying how i am pathetic and is trying to get people on his side! how sad is this!!!!
I THAT ANGRY RIGHT NOW! But im glad its out

2007-09-19 12:06:22 · 8 answers · asked by Dude23 1 in Friends

if you loved your mother.
but she always thought bad of everyhting
very pesemistic!
and you just dont know wat to do..cuz she just like wont let you grow up. and yall get in fights and "i hate you" comes out. but then you realize... "aww darn.. whos gonna take me shoppping!??"
i just want trust from her.
and letting my choose who i wanna be with
and what i wanna wear (but her buy it)
gosh im 14!
arent i old enough to be by now??

but yea.. i love the chic.. but she needs to bacc off! but be there for me at the same time..

wowzers; wat would you do with mommy MctripTRIP.

2007-09-19 12:03:43 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating a man who said he really cared about me and called me every night (long distance relationship). He would try to help me with my daily stress by lending an ear. We would be together on the weekends but usually only on his terms (i.e., me at his place cuz he did't want to be a mine cuz i have kids). He was always nice to me when I was there, but had a hard time getting him to do fun things that I enjoyed. I finally told him I couldn't handle being apart like that and he said it was ok for him. He did not want a "committed" relationship. Then under intoxication he told me he loved me, but the next day took it back and asked if we could just be friends. I told him to quit messing with my heart, and he told me he thought i thought he was an asshole and i hung up. Haven't heard from him....texted him and told him i was sorry for anything i ever said that was hurtful. end of story. i am in pain. help?

2007-09-19 12:03:29 · 1 answers · asked by Snively 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so mydaughter bday is coming up soon , right..so it just going to be a kids party at the park. Im basically just inviting some family and friends with children. I invited my friend and I remember that last year she brought more people then what I thought and this year I decide to text her asking how many people was she going to take and she text me back saying my whole family mom's, pop's s, two big sisters and her boyfriend plus 3 little girls. Actually 2 of the kids are her big sis kids and the other is her niece. So I dont really mind for one of the sisters but the rest of the people damn..She text me back saying is that a problem and ofcource I said no didnt want to be rude but I just dont like the idea that she's taking everybody and mommas to the kids party. And I did tell her that I wanted to make this a small party. Is not like a grown up party. Im pretty mad about it. You think Im tripping or is not okay what shes doing??

2007-09-19 12:02:35 · 25 answers · asked by Nonya 2 in Friends

ive known him for 2 and a half years... i fell in love the moment i met him because i honestly just knew... who he was how important he would be...
he thinks im amazing for my talent and my passion... so it seems my beauty to.
We met through my friend who he really liked,
after i knew him for 2 months we were together intimately, we had spent a lot of time conversing and drinking wine before and nothing ever happened until that night..
well after 6 months i moved away for 1 year i came back 1 year ago and at first we talked briefly about dating and then... nothing he still doesnt want to date me..
he had told me about his ex and how he still cares for her and he SEES her occasionally i would marry him if he asked.. really anything he asked of me, i would do, unless it was irrational ..

2007-09-19 11:58:58 · 1 answers · asked by old_soul_945 3 in Singles & Dating

Thanks in advance..

He was attracted, then when I got serious, he pulled away and said he isn't ready for a relationship. We are still talking, and he cares for sure, but love seems one-way. Is it ever going to be possible to win his love/romantic interest and have him come to me again, like the way he was before? What gives? How do you advise I should be with him, in order to mazimize my chances? I love this person.

2007-09-19 11:58:51 · 1 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i REALLY REALLY REALLY! LIKE! on my XC team but she has a BF, she always looks at me and has told me she likes me to, she has tried feeding me skittles lol and has stepped on me while laying on the floor lol, but ya she promised me that she would date me after her last BF but she didnt because this guy saked her to Homecoming and Now her and taht guy are going out so wat do i do just wait?

2007-09-19 11:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by Chris E 1 in Singles & Dating

What form of birth control if any do you use now that you are married?

2007-09-19 11:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not tall myself, quite short in fact, but I have a strong weakness for tall slim women especially when they are young and slender.

I'm not doing so well since my boss made me redundent after I was late for work a few times. Well to be honest I missed a few days because when I'm the worst for drink there's little point and I'm not so young as was.

The point is that my boss had this really lovely tall gorgeous wife. I wonder how I could get her to leave him and run away with me?

2007-09-19 11:51:19 · 11 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend of 5 years put a "temporary protective order" on me..?

because we got into a heated argument, I pushed her and bruised her and pulled her hair. I have to stay ten feet away from her in class... should I be upset that she called the cops? Do you think she put this whole situation on herself? How do I react to her in class? after this order expires next tuesday?
I've hit her before but she never called the cops.
how do i win her back or should i?

2007-09-19 11:50:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does he think maybe she's desperate? Please be honest but not hurtful.

2007-09-19 11:50:04 · 16 answers · asked by Golf Chick 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 11:48:41 · 19 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Singles & Dating