Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

There is a girl at work who I think is lying about her fathers health.

She has an interview for another job tommorrow because all she does is moan about this current job.

She has told the managers she has an appointment at the hospital with her father tommorow because she has previously told them that he was ill previously.

I found out today, that she has an interview tommorow and she lied about her father.

What do think of that, do you think it is sick?

2007-09-19 10:32:07 · 15 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Family

My Ex-bf and I aren't together anymore, we broke up after we had our son, but we remained cool with each other. He just had a new baby girl by another female. He keeps telling me that when the new baby gets older, he wants her to come stay with me sometimes, so that I could take both our son and his new daughter out. I asked him what about the baby's mother, he told me it doesnt matter...and that I will have to take her sometimes. He told me this on many occasions, but I dont understand his motive. What do you think??

2007-09-19 10:27:22 · 1 answers · asked by blessup2k4 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-19 10:26:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I feel sad because my 15 year old daughter has to witness too much drama. She was living with her father from age 10 to 15.

She now lives with me and my parents and I am moving out this weekend.

She has had to adjust to a new school, state and living environment and now will have to adjust again.

She also has to deal with my problems with my mother who is emotionally immature and my father is very aggressive and dominating like my ex-husband.

I feel bad because she has not had a "normal" childhood with both parents working together for the good of the house and family.

My ex-husband wanted us to reunite as a family, but I could not go back to his controlling and manipulative ways and for that reason my child has to suffer?

2007-09-19 10:26:05 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Family

I work 12 hours on Sat's and do 30 hours behind the scene. Then people say "Oh! You have it easy. You just shoot pictures and eat at the reception". If it's so easy how come everyone isn't doing it?

2007-09-19 10:25:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am going to see a horor movie with my best guy friend on friday after school. I think we both kinda like each other but won't admit it to ourselves or each other.

any advice for when we go see the scary movie?

also, we have both told each other we liked other people but that is no longer the case for me but i dont know if he likes this other girl or not.

any advice?

thank you.

2007-09-19 10:24:31 · 38 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Singles & Dating

apart from the fact I'm gloating over how the first word caught your Freudian attention

I'm 18 and I haven't had sex.

How bad is the situation looking?

2007-09-19 10:23:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u have a good toddler flower girl hairstyle or hairdo? for wedding?
Her hair is a little curly, short. she's only 15 months. longer on the sides from me loving to see her in pigtails...;)

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2007-09-19 10:22:28 · 3 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Weddings

What 2008 and 2009 is holding for me Good luck or bad luck Tell me the truth I am born October the 9 1942

2007-09-19 10:18:16 · 1 answers · asked by lala 7 in Friends

I assume the bridal party song is right after the first dance? Correct me if I am wrong? Should the song be fast or slow or does it matter? Would it be wrong of me to torment my bridal party with my warp sense of humor and make them all dance to Vanilla Ice?
Ice Ice Baby?? Or How about the Spice girls- I’ll tell you what I want, what I really really want?

2007-09-19 10:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i want my reception to be at the ritz carlton in ny and that is the price they told me. i have approx. 350-400 people attending so im looking at atleast $80000. (thats just for the ballroom)(food+drink separate)

theres no way i can afford that unless i take a loan. (a big one--$40000).

is it worth it??

i really want my reception at the ritz-carlton in ny. i really have my heart set on it. i walked into it one day when my fiance and i were in ny and just fell in love.

just looking for more opinions...or suggestions as to how i can make this work.

ok, i know i asked this before..but today my father agreed to put $15000 toward the wedding and and fiance's parents agreed to put forward $15000 as well.

so i would probably just be taking out $20000 in loans...worth it or not?

2007-09-19 10:06:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok there is this girl... We not going together but at times it felt like so. Well, anyone yesterday i had a big project to do and i asked her if she could help me (i asked her last week) So anyway the night before the project was due i called her and asked what was she doing. She say "my hair." then i replied you not doing what i asked you to do a week ago which u agreed on?" then we get into a big fight about how she already told me that she siad no to helping me with the project. So while we are in the middle of the argument she hangs up on me.. which i could understand. I call her back after i had cooled down and wanted to talk.. Well she didn't answer non of my calls. Today i see her in school and we didn't even speak.. Should i keep trying to talk to her.. or just let her go?

2007-09-19 10:05:44 · 1 answers · asked by yshforever 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy 2 months ago and i already feel like we are married. All i do is cook and clean while he just wants to make sure his dog is happy. We do have fun together and he does make me laugh but i feel like we have been together for years. Im 25 and hes 30. Could it be the age?

2007-09-19 10:05:24 · 1 answers · asked by Page 2 in Singles & Dating

omg there is this kid in my class who keeps questioning my beliefs and saying that i'm suppost to be one of those asians who worship Jackie chan and bruce lee and im soo tired of it!!! I've talked about this in another question i posted but even though i took the advice, he still wont stop!!!! and just today I was in Language Arts and ended up in his group with 2 other people and he tells the teacher that we weren't working and he was the only one when we were all doin the work and he kept complaining that he couldn't do his work!!!!!! And the teacher gave us an F for not working as a group and he said we cant afford to get another F or we would fail the grade because we need to pass Language arts to pass the grade. I'm sooo pissed!!!!!!!!! Help me get through this! there is a huge chance he will do this again and if he does we will all get an F!!!! he is such a JERK!!!!!! please help me! none of the teachers will believe me or the other students!

2007-09-19 10:01:18 · 8 answers · asked by Here I come I am cinnamon 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

her name is haley dating gary

2007-09-19 09:58:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

something that is funny, intelleugel, serious, what?

2007-09-19 09:55:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my best friend thinks she is really skinny because she rides horses, but shes not. She isn't fat, just a little chubby. She tells me how skinny she is, and I usually just go along with it. I also know that she lies about her weight, she says 110 but I read her sports physical once and it said 121. Should I tell her that she isn't that skinny, or at least to stop telling people she is because it puts them in an awkward position? I'm her bbf remember so I tell her everything. I just don't know if this is something that I should do or not. Thanks!

2007-09-19 09:54:24 · 24 answers · asked by ... 4 in Friends

my friends and i are so odd heres how we are im punk, my frend is goth, preppy, smarty pants, and stupid, ooh and also theres a wanna be getto...
do u think were ODD??

2007-09-19 09:53:29 · 1 answers · asked by Mariiana. 1 in Friends

She's had a couple real intense dreams of a sexual nature about me! I have been married 6 years, very loyal to my husband. I have had a same-sex experience before but it was just experimentation. I've been told by many people that I'm just naturally very sexual and give off a sensual vibe that attracts people. My best friend is NOT a lesbian - she is recently divorced. Could it be that she just feels comforted by me and its coming through as sexual in her dreams?!?!? I dont want it get weird between us, but I'm a little uncomfortable with where it might lead because we are very close - though nothing sexual has EVER happened between us, she's very vulnerable, I am not really "attracted" to her but I just want to care for her - we are affectionate with each other. I don't know what to do. Am I taking this too seriously?.....serious answers/opinions only PLEASE!!

2007-09-19 09:52:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean some say, if your spouse talks dirty with another that, thats cheating.....
If I look at porn, thats cheating
If I think about another girl thats cheating...

Well if that's cheating, I might as well have sex with the girl......

To me cheating is penetration.... everything else is fooling around... not the same. What do you think?

2007-09-19 09:51:16 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A single man whom I find very attractive, intelligent, and the like, wants to pursue a relationship with me. Right now it's online dating (we live several hundred miles from one another) but a meeting is forthcoming and visiting each other shouldn't be a problem in the future. I'm divorced, successful (but not rich by any means), and intelligent. Am I setting myself up for disappoint, or given these circumstances, does it ever work out ~ if the distance between them wasn't an issue. I'm smart enough to know that online relationships can be full of bull, but let's just go with the assumption that this may be legimate. Thanks.....

2007-09-19 09:50:42 · 18 answers · asked by Kathy G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 09:50:28 · 10 answers · asked by chickenbeansoup 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One guy was married,one was a drug dealer,the other had a anger problem....all these guys I have dated have ended up being complete dickheads or just dodgy.Why do I attract these people.I am a respectable young woman (19 years old)Is this just how the world works I just can't find me a decent guy.Why,where are they??It's got nothing to do with the places I go,the way I act or the friends I have its just like I am a bad guys fantasy,anyone feel the same?

2007-09-19 09:47:55 · 56 answers · asked by sxy latina XXX 1 in Singles & Dating

You can't just tell some stranger your name right? Even if it seems a little mean?

2007-09-19 09:43:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband&I are married but separated Im 22 hes 28. Hes trying really hard to get use back together, I know no one is perfect,he messed up alot. He has come to his senses&wants us to be a family along with our 1month baby.My husband is an alcoholic he is really trying to change, I think everyone deserves a second chance. I feel confused and scared I dont want to get hurt...my husband was not providing our daughter w/anything he would waste all the$in our bank account on beer&drugs,now starting to give me for the baby and for myself hes no longer wasting it on trash...the problem is he wants to come over to my parents(which is where im staying)to spend the night with the baby and I. My mom told me he can come over but doesnt want him to spend the night, if he wants to eat he can take me out to eat and she will watch the baby, it seems like she doesnt want him to see the baby at all, and its not right what do i do? Its not my house but I feel like shes not helping things to get better

2007-09-19 09:43:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

also how do you react around them?

2007-09-19 09:43:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy alot.and like idk.what can i do to get his attention?
thanks
katie

2007-09-19 09:42:48 · 6 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were to meet me i would appear to you as a young, pretty, smart, independant,happy woman, loves her family & life. BUT in reality on the inside i'm dieing! i'm ashamed, terrified, confused, angry, sad, bitter and quite frankly an emotional wreck. together 7 yrs w/my husband & have endured so much pain. i was married previously and have 3 kids(live with me) and he has 3 kids (they live w/their moms) i'm a loving & forgiving person but i can't do it anymore!!! just tip of the iceberg... he has physically abused me (broke my hand, bruised kidneys, numerous bruises & beatings(never when kids are home) , emotionally abused, mentally tormented, he has been mean to my friends & family (they won't come around) cold to my kids (not talking to them), lies continuosly, lied about having another child he wants nothing to do with, only thinks of himself & having a good time, came onto my sister-n-law, killed my sons pet snake, had to have abortion becasue of who i'm married to,owes $30k c/s

2007-09-19 09:40:24 · 21 answers · asked by exhausted 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone! Before I get started, I just want to say that we all make mistakes in life and this mistake is the biggest one that I have made. My wife and son did not move with me to Italy because my wife decided she did not want to be with me anymore. We are still married but been separated for 8 months. We are going through a divorce right now. I met a beautiful german woman 3 months ago..she is crazy about me and I am crazy about her. I don't ever want to lose her. There is something wrong...I have not told her that I was married and have a son. There reason why I have not told her is because I waited so long to tell her and I didn't think that we would become so serious. I want to tell her but I know she will be upset and will not trust me again. A couple of days ago we told each other that we loved each other. I need all the assistance I can get.

2007-09-19 09:39:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a best friend who is a guy. his name is cordell. He flirts with me constantly but he has a GF. Well 2day i saw them together and he came into the cafeteria @ school. He walked right by me and never even said hey or anything! So he goes and sits down w/ his GF and they talk for a couple mins then he takes her hand and holds it the whole entire time and never left he side til time 4 class.

Well i'm head over heels in love with him and he doesn't even know! It hurt me so bad to see him with her and I felt like punching something but at the same time I felt like crying! Cordell has everything I want in a guy but he's taken and it shatters my heart to see him w/ his GF and I always wish that I could b the lucky girl standing by his side and holding his hand. Can someone give me some advice on wat I should do plez! Should I tell him how I feel or just wait it out and see if cordell and taylor break up anytime soon? please help!

I'm 13 and very emotional as u figured out by now

2007-09-19 09:39:16 · 45 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating