i am going to see a horor movie with my best guy friend on friday after school. I think we both kinda like each other but won't admit it to ourselves or each other.
any advice for when we go see the scary movie?
also, we have both told each other we liked other people but that is no longer the case for me but i dont know if he likes this other girl or not.
any advice?
thank you.
2007-09-19 10:24:31 · 38 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this is the perfect place to get all close with each other.. You should for sure grab his arm or put your face into his chest when a scary part comes or you should grab his hand when you think somethings goin to happen... if he pulls you away or doesn't do anything, then he doesn't like you. I think that this is goin to be good.. Just be yourself... Guys like that..
Good Luck!!!!
2007-09-19 10:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by Sublime Chick™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all try swapping the horror movie with sth else. Even if movies like that are your "thing" together, it will at least give him a hint that you are looking for sth more. After that just go with the flow, kep your eyes open for any movement by his side and if he's to much of an idiot( no offense)to pick that up make a move of your own, nothing too offensive though( you probably know better than me what kind of move seeing that i don't know him)because he might really be interested in sb else and have to turn you down a bit abruptly. Even if he isn't though you might scare him off or just not leave him enough space if you just "pull off the band-aid". Good luck and bb
2007-09-19 10:38:08 · answer #2 · answered by Funny looking somebodies avatar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all congrats on your new crush! Second, I feel that honesty is the best when its given to the recipient not as an expectatin but as an FYI.... so for explample you could say, Hey, I really enjoy spedning time with you. We should do it more often. That way, you let him know how you are feeling and what you would like to do but not being pushy about it. That way, if he is interested in this other girl he can chose with out an OR else! lol hope that helped you. Have fun this weekend and make him buy the pop corn!
2007-09-19 10:29:41 · answer #3 · answered by Katie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll sure know after this movie date. At the scary parts you can kinda "lean twds. him", hide your face & turn twds. him for a kinda "protective move" on your part. See how he reacts on your body language. Make him feel like the "big protector" when you're scared. I think by the end of the movie, you'll find out just how much he really does like you! Good choice of a movie....haha Main thing, HAVE A GOOD TIME!!! I'm SURE you will. Hope all turns out well for you.
2007-09-19 10:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. First ask him point blank if he is interested in the other person. If not, maybe a little flirting can help you determine what he wants through the reaction of his body language. If you are getting positive signals, ask him point blank. If negative, hint but don't come right out and say it. Below is a link for a website on body language.
"The E'Ville Librarian"
2007-09-19 10:31:34 · answer #5 · answered by adiaphorus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well from a guys stand point if i say like another girl but also kind of have a thing for you too, and you were into me and wanted to be with me id want to know i would honestly go for something that seems more real and current such as if this other girl i liked wasnt with me yet and we were just talking and what not but yea id say tell him how you feel honestly it wont ruin the friendship even if he isnt interested and if he is you get to be with the guy you want to be with but thats just my opinion i think being straight forawrd about how you feel is the best way
2007-09-19 10:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by _Respect My Evil_ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that's exactly what going on with me too. It hard to know what to do because you still want to be firends but if you ask him out then he might not like you anymore. Everyday I just feel like I want to tell him but I can't. He probably doesn't like this other girl if he's going to the movies with you. agree? It would make this other girl think he's taken. For Friday night just act like your friends don't ruin the time by telling him you like him, i case it doesn't go very good.
hope I helped :)
2007-09-19 10:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is, been there done that! Just be natural, if you feel like flirting do, if there is something scary, grab him. Even if he's not interested in being more than friends, guys like the attention and feeling protective. Just play it by ear, who knows maybe he will make a move :)
2007-09-19 10:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by Haylee C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that in the movie if there is a scary bit you should grab on to his hand. When its a really scary part put his hand over your shoulders and see where it leads you.
It's a bit cheeky but hey lol
Good luck
2007-09-19 10:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by secret star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would normally say just throw up all over him but i think this is a cute situation so just take yer time and have fun. being friendies is nice at first so later you can possibly have the best relationship of yer life! dont put a time limit on it like something needs to happen tmrw night. there will be plenty of other nights down the road
2007-09-19 10:30:48 · answer #10 · answered by newslang586 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋