My Ex-bf and I aren't together anymore, we broke up after we had our son, but we remained cool with each other. He just had a new baby girl by another female. He keeps telling me that when the new baby gets older, he wants her to come stay with me sometimes, so that I could take both our son and his new daughter out. I asked him what about the baby's mother, he told me it doesnt matter...and that I will have to take her sometimes. He told me this on many occasions, but I dont understand his motive. What do you think??
2007-09-19 10:27:22 · 1 answers · asked by blessup2k4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well I find it odd. But am getting use to the idea, because my son has a 3 year old with his ex and she has a 5 year old with another guy.
My son has custody of his son..
Anyway the two children need to spend as much time together as possible. That is your ex's motive.
He is the one that needs to have both kids so they can spend the time together.
Although, my son sometimes has the 5 year old so she can spend time with her little brother, only my son helped raise the little girl since she was 4 months.
Only do what feels right.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-19 17:14:55 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋