Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

2007-09-19 01:24:46 · 26 answers · asked by shrinkingwoman 1 in Weddings

2007-09-19 01:24:19 · 16 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I and my husband are married for four years.

The problem is that I don't want to have sex with him while he is desparate having sex.He always tried to blame on my hormon ,but I know what the problem is.

Everytime I see him screaming crazily for tiny tiny reason toward me or my son, my feeling for him goes away.(ex.his favorite clothes not dry or my son spil juice on floor)

Everytime he break his promise that he would not scream ever again, my trust for him disappear.

I actually forced myself to have sex with him once. Then my husband was in a bad mood the next day , started yelling like always. Then he yelled "I felt like **** after I slept with you. You come around only when you want it. I never wanna touch you."

now, he ask me for sex.

When I just imagine having sex with him, I feel sick.

I know this no sex issue is causing more problem, but I just don't know what to do any more.

I tried explaining, but he just think I'm sick and don't even listen.

2007-09-19 01:20:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-19 01:14:08 · 18 answers · asked by ~* Daydreamer *~ 2 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy a few weeks ago out in town. we swapped numbers and have been texting ever since!

he hasnt asked me out yet and its been around 2 weeks now.

he says he likes me.

is he just after 1 thing???

2007-09-19 01:08:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who doesnt have your heart... your full heart?? u gave it away along time ago to somone else...

2007-09-19 01:06:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he told u he loves u and that he would never cheat on you.

2007-09-19 01:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by caller-gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 16 and my boyfriend is 18. We have been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 months and are so in love. It was love at first sight when we met on christmas day. We talk about marriage and kids all the time, planning our future.
If we stay together, i am moving to Boston in 2 years to live with him for a year (taking a gap year before university). I would love to get married to him when i turn 18 but he doesnt want to get married until we're financially secure and hes finished uni. I know hes being sensible and its clearly the right thing to do but i really really want to get married to him as soon as possible!!!!
What are your thoughts????

2007-09-19 01:03:42 · 88 answers · asked by tess_d2 2 in Weddings

2007-09-19 01:02:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in second marriage and it is failing. I have been unlucky with love. He treats me badly. Would there be amny men in India that would accept me as their wife after I have divorced twice. I am from England, mid thirties with one child. Not bad looking and very loving.

2007-09-19 01:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love this girl so much, but our physical relationship is non-existant. No passionate kissing or anything. The only physical thing we do is cuddling at bedtime.

Our sex lives started off great. She got pregnant and we decided to marry. We then had a misscarriage but still got married (I was already going to ask her before I knew about the pregnancy).

Leading up to the marriage and right after our sex lives died. She feels I left her high and dry because I got over losing the baby before she did. She thinks I let her down emotionally.

It's been 9 months and even though I am trying and being really sweet and letting her know I love her she still does not seem to be physically attracted to me. It's making me feel like **** and I am starting to get suspicious that she cheating. Anyone have any advise?

2007-09-19 01:00:11 · 17 answers · asked by jon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can a husband get a divorce from his wife if she is living apart from him from last 6 years,and is not willing to give divorce,on what ground he can take the divorce and how much time it will take.is there a possibility that if wife is not giving divorce the indian court wont allow for such divorce,preferrebly if the marrige is under hindu marrige act in india

2007-09-19 00:58:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I been with my boyfriend for over a year, but lately I feel like we have so many problem. I don't know what to do I really love! It make me mad when he tell me that his 1st luv call him to wish him luck. I'm scared that they might get back together. Even though he tell me he loves me! Just the other night I ask him if he could see himself gettin back with one of his ex and he respond don't know cause we don't know about are furture . What should I do?

2007-09-19 00:54:30 · 14 answers · asked by confuse 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been a house wife for 20 years with three sons. My husband has been an alcholic for pretty much all of our married life. We have 3 sons together.Over a year ago I met this guy online and 1 thing lead to another and I ended up in a 6 month on and off affair with this guy. My hubby found out and now we just got a divorce 2 weeks ago. I am having a very hard time with the guilt and I love my ex very much and he says he loves me too. He is dating and at the bars every night. I work 3rd shift and am raising our 12 year old. The other 2 boys are in college. I do not have a boyfriend nor am I looking. I want my ex back. Any advise?

2007-09-19 00:53:20 · 18 answers · asked by debbie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and the one who produces the biggest smile or laugh gets 11 points......I'd award more if I could.

2007-09-19 00:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by jidwg 6 in Friends

My son is 11 today, but at 8 am today his teaching phoned to say he has beendisrupted in class.
He slapped a kids face for nothing and he managed to only write the date in a 1 hour class.
He is lovely, bright and polite but he likes to be the class clown and the problem is he is going to high school next year and his teacher is afraid he will placed in a lower group to his ability and then not bother cos the others won't be!
He is very immature and acts the fool, but the other kids are maturing now and leaving him standing.
We are great parents to our two adopted boys and had a fair share of problems, but we punish him with losing his priveliges eg tv, pc, sweets etc but hes stubborn and can sulk for a week if punished... what can we do to helphim grow up and work in class...please help!

2007-09-19 00:53:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's the deal. I'm not into labels etc. I am a sixteen year old girl and my mom is 38. I like some of the new looks, with the two tone hair, and hello kitty, etc, but I do not classify myself as ' scene. '
my mother however, is a different story. She even has a myspace page with her pictures all over it, with the pearls, the jewelry, the contests. - and wrinkles, yuck. I feel like she is making a fool of herself, but my friends seem to think she is cool. She has a reverse mullet with pink strands and the blonde with black underneath. Is she making a fool of herself, or just trying to deal with getting older? Will she ' outgrow' this? It's so weird, dude!! and embarassing. she goes to concerts too, with the emo boys. PS - my mom LOOKS her age, it's not like she's even getting away with pretending to be young. what's worse? she calls herself ' Mod"

2007-09-19 00:50:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Your husband is a physical therapist and is contracted out to work in a business where his job is to rehab patients. One day you show up at his job to take him out for lunch and you walk into his office and he's giving a younger girl a massage and has his hands inside of her pants rubbing her lower back and hips. This girl is an employee not a rehab patient. Then you overhear talk from other people that he works with that there may be a sexual harrasment suit filed against him because he has a problem keeping his hands to himself. What would you say to him, what would your reaction be? Please, serious replies only.

2007-09-19 00:45:11 · 18 answers · asked by genie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Women have a number of sign of being married but men dont have. i would like to konw how men can be identified whether he is married or unmarried

2007-09-19 00:43:08 · 12 answers · asked by Praveen S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I'm an 18 year old university student and recently I met a very beautiful woman in the golf club. We really got to know each other well and right now we're really good friends. The only thing is that she's 28 years old working as a marketing consultant in a banking company. Is it okay if I ask her out given the age gap? She's really a very charming and kind lady.

2007-09-19 00:36:35 · 12 answers · asked by unreachablestar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 00:25:54 · 18 answers · asked by himdevs 1 in Weddings

My almost 19 year old son is due to leave tomorrow to move into his apartment so he can start culinary school on October 1st. We've had major problems with him and for the last couple of days he's stayed with his friend because he had one of his outrages and called his dad and I losers, etc. I'm sure you can picture this. Yesterday my parents brought him over to finish his lease paperwork and my son decided to stay with us. I told him he could, with the exception that he is not to cuss us out, etc. Not five minutes after my parents left did he start on us again. Luckily, my parents called and invited us to dinner. My son didn't go, so my husband, daughter and I went. After we returned, he started again..we told him to leave. He went outside to call his friend. I had to take the dog out and as soon as I was opening the door, I saw him pulling out of the driveway, lights off so we couldn't see him. He knew darn well he wasn't suppose to take the car.

2007-09-19 00:25:20 · 18 answers · asked by 2Beagles 6 in Family

My husband is very selfish. The only thing that matters to him is his family, his job, football and alcohol. i love you very dearly and i know he loves me too. But if I was to hurt myself, get ill or grow disabled, he would not be there for me. He has no patience. WHen a person married someone they hope for a secure life and hope to aid each other at times of difficulties....i dont think mine would do that. WHat shall i do?

2007-09-19 00:24:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-19 00:22:06 · 5 answers · asked by hareem n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what is love and loyalty?..do they go together?..i need explaination..plz..

2007-09-19 00:17:58 · 1 answers · asked by el_chinitah 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my late teens and all my closest friends are in relationships. So they barely spend time with me as friends.

So how should I get out of this situation? I don't want to feel left out.

2007-09-19 00:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by whitelighter 4 in Friends

My husband knows that his family loves him only because he is earning well and giving them money always. He had done a lot before marriage. But after marriage due to my pressure he is spending less on them. But he has really a bad impression on me. He says that they expect from him and they are right in their situation. so i should do for them. My brother in law is not doing anything and always asking money form my mother. As my MIL and FIL are staying with them so they always takes my BIL side and force my hubby to send money. My hubby does for ourself as well. They always tries to keep my husband in their hand. And my husband treats them as they all are his life although he knows that they only want money from him. He always takes his family side if anything happens and blames me. He says that i will do everything for them what they are asking. If you don't agree with me then i will do keeping you hide. i was thinking that as time passes he will be distracted form them but i am wrong

2007-09-19 00:12:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was just dumped by my gf of a year. Is there any way to get her back? And how do I go about doing that?

2007-09-19 00:10:53 · 1 answers · asked by Steve-O 2 in Singles & Dating

i feel some guys blame there infidelity on urges, "it just happened i don't love her it was just sex......" how many have heard something or said something along these lines??? is it a need 2 spread seed? or a lack of control? i have once (in a moment of weakness) fooled around one night on a girl i was seeing with her friend because we were the last ones awake and it "just happened" but i had no feelings for her and loved my girl fiercly i told her because i was guilty and i wanted her to hear it from me not someone else years later. as i said i loved her, why does this happen? how much is animal instinct how much is "sleazy, unfaithful, etc. (i have managed to never repeat this but the urges have been there?? (black widow spiders kill there mates for this very reason?? ladies please don't get any ideas lol but any thoughts???

2007-09-19 00:09:53 · 2 answers · asked by lukeloo21 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 00:09:20 · 16 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce