Family & Relationships - 19 September 2007

. . . forgive me if you saw a tear in my eye?

2007-09-19 02:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

right ive liked this girl since school but i didnt say anything then , we started chatting on the internet n i told her how i felt about her n she told me after a while that she liked me when i found this out i was soo happy but like the moron i am i didnt do anything about it because im a very shy person ,
we stopped talking for a while because som1 told me she had a boyfriend which i later found out wasnt true ,
we started talking a couple of months ago n i told her that i still liked her she sed she liked me but now she saying lets just be friends i still love her and always have what shud i do

2007-09-19 02:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by scott 1 in Singles & Dating

plz give serious answers..................

2007-09-19 02:09:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's nice to finally see some positive answers/questions/replies in the Marriage/Divorce category. Lately it seems there aren't any solid relationships anymore. Congratulations to the ones who've survived - and to the ones who didn't make it - I'm sorry - but you scare the crud outta me about ever getting married! I finally found a great guy - by far the greatest guy I've ever met. We talk about the future like marriage is inevitable, but lately it seems like all I see and hear is negativity about marriage. Is there anyone happy out there? If you're willing - can I have your brief, personal love story? I'm a sucker for a happy ending.... and want to believe they still exist.

2007-09-19 02:08:20 · 28 answers · asked by bedee9731 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My question is about your significant other and speaking to ex's.

I am a rather jealous girl and I believe that ex's shouldn't speak unless if they have a child together, which in my case, I have a son but I rarely speak to his father versus my current boyfriend who still speaks to most of his ex girlfriend including his two recent. One which he lived with and 2nd his most recent which he broke up with 2 weeks ago.
Now it has been an on off thing with him and I because he broke up with me to be with this other girl but broke up with her to be with me and this is why I can't help but feel uneasy that they talk on the phone still.
Is it just me or does anyone else think that's it's pointless to talk to ex's because the past is the past?
He's a has a very flirtatious personality and has a street rep of being a playa but all I can do is believe him...but I don't know because I don't trust people either way, in fact accusations is what led me and my baby's dad to break up...wat do u think?

2007-09-19 02:06:57 · 14 answers · asked by brat 1 in Singles & Dating

in a drop dead gorgeous-victoria's secret model-penthouse pet-playboy covergirl-trophy wife-arm candy-make guys do double takes- kind of way?

2007-09-19 02:06:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 02:06:41 · 11 answers · asked by bethybug 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a guy that is an acquaintance of mine. We run into each other from time to time and he always stares at me or finds an excuse to touch my arm. I know there is a possibility he is just being friendly but I never see him being that way with anyone else. Problem is he has a girlfriend and she is not very nice. I have seen her pitch fits over nothing. Sorry but I just don't need any drama in my life. Do I avoid this guy, be friends, what? I don't want to be rude, but there are some girls that just look for something to complain about.

2007-09-19 02:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

My son's father is a Vietnam Veteran with a number of psyciatric disorders effecting his ability to develop relationships with people. My son is 17 1/2 years old and even though his father lives in Florida and we in Ohio, his father has never once came to visit him. I have taken him to see him 4 times. Both me and the father's mother have pushed him for 17 years to be a significant person in our son's life. It only amounted to a few phone conversations initiated by my son, the 4 visits I was able to afford to take my son on, and about 10 birthday & x-mas cards & a small gift. My ex's mother died last summer and since then my son's father has completely pushed my son out of his life. He is 57 yrs. old and has done everything but actually verbally tell my son that he hates him and doesn't want him in his life. My son is DD and doesn't understand the problems his father has. He is now asking me "if I died would my dad come to my funeral?" I was honest (maybe I shouldn't have been)

2007-09-19 02:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by Windy 1 in Family

i had a friends with benefit relationship with a guy, but it did not work out, well now i want the same thing with his older brother, do you think that is wrong?

2007-09-19 02:02:07 · 16 answers · asked by indianmix 2 in Singles & Dating

Hello,
today my boyfriend told me that he lied to me. Two nights ago I asked him for like the 100th time if he would get turned on by porn. I know he doesnt watch it but I still wanted to know and he told me no. Today he confessed that he didnt really know and that he is attracted to other women especially some parts of their body. I just cant deal with him lieing to me all over again and I dont know if I can trust him. I want him to get hot only for me and especially I dont want him lieing. I dont know if I should drop him or not. I guess Im scared of being without him... any help or opinions would be appreciated... thanks

2007-09-19 02:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by chinoananas 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if i am sensitive. I get very upset when someone close to me is upset and if they are acting differently i take it personally. Whenever somebody is being mean to someone, i always feel their pain and i get so angry i just want to help them, but i cant, as i am to shy. I am always worried what people think of me and i am nervous when I am with someone alone. Whenever people tell me their problems i listen and i feel their pain, but i dont think they will care about mine. I love Animals and i hate seeing cruelty to any living being. I always seemed to get walked all over by "friends" and this can make me EXTREMELY upset. If somebody says something mean to me, i will get upset and i will only want to to talk a few people i trust. I can be jealous when i see my friends with other people, and i am very protective. I hate getting yelled at and if i do i will just be alone. Am i sensitive? and do guys like girls like this? Thanks.

2007-09-19 02:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Girl with a brain 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need some good questions, ones like "Can I measure it...... with my mouth?" uno funny ones.. or any will do!

cheers!

2007-09-19 01:59:40 · 6 answers · asked by That's Trippy S2 1 in Singles & Dating

other than down there you know.

2007-09-19 01:59:29 · 7 answers · asked by Esa Chica 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 01:57:47 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 6 in Singles & Dating

Have you or do you know of anyone who has terminated a pregnancy while married and she didn't tell her husband?
What were the ramifications, if any?


Please do not tell me what a horrible thing abortion is, that is not the question or the moral debate being presented.
Thank you

2007-09-19 01:57:43 · 29 answers · asked by Crazymom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Wife acting too much, she knows no matter what the court will assign two kids 5 & 2 yr. old to her, not for $$ but due to her low life mentality I wants my kids custody what can I do to impress judge and to hurt her credibility she lies, lies and lies and all the time.

2007-09-19 01:57:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

dad's are great too and i by no means will leve them out, they do a great job too.
but a mom has so meany titles that it not fare to not
think about them and what they do for the family.
tell me the titles you think she has.

2007-09-19 01:53:41 · 8 answers · asked by denise c 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know...i think it takes a lot to impress me. I dont know if many things can. I've been told that i'm a tough nut to crack. Am i really?

I'd like a few suggestions of something that would woaw me. Nothing Cheesy or sarcastic folks(unless all u want is the two points).....cos i gurantee that that would be a huge turn off.

Take ur best shot !

2007-09-19 01:53:06 · 15 answers · asked by cookie_recipe 4 in Singles & Dating

how would you know...

1. when a person is insincere?
2. when a person likes (more than a friend) you?
3. when to stand up for your own decisions?

2007-09-19 01:52:33 · 7 answers · asked by CB 3 in Singles & Dating

All I know is that the film is called 'Down on the farm' and they asked me if had any allergies

2007-09-19 01:52:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know if a am a lesbian, but I have feelings for one of my friends.?

I have known this girl for 3 jars and we have grown close. I don't have brothers or sisters so can this be just a friend or is she more????

I was raped by my father,my mom did not divorce him........... I live with them both everyday,but I think I ha

I have a boyfriend,I get turned on when we make out, but I don't have dreams of having sex with him.Sometimes

2007-09-19 01:50:42 · 2 answers · asked by Jakwalien 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why are some loveres unfaithful?
On September, 17, here in Brazil the Supreme Court condemned an ex-wife to pay her ex-husband R$ 200,000.00 (two hundred thousand reais - Brazilian currency, a little less than one hundred thousand American dollars). She had already lost in Rio de Janeiro but her lawyers appealed to the Suprime Court. The fact is that during their marital life they had to kids, later on her he found out that the kids were not his.

2007-09-19 01:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Sergio Oliveira 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If a person you are seeing moves abroad for a year and before going states:

"It was brief, but nice. I wish I had told you this sooner, but I think I am in love with you."

Um, wtf are they really saying?

2007-09-19 01:45:53 · 1 answers · asked by Yuri 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-19 01:45:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really possible?

2007-09-19 01:44:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

....and I'm at the end of my rope.

I have our son 4-5 days a week and he has him 2-3 days a week ("joint" custody), and he decided to stop giving him his medication without discussing it with me. He told our son he was out of pills, but I think he was just too damn lazy to call the pharmacy to reorder them.

Then he said that he doesn't need them because he hasn't seen any problems out of him - well duh - HE'S BEEN ON MEDICATION UP UNTIL NOW!!!

So now my son comes to my house, has not been on his meds, refuses to take them b/c his dad said he doesn't have to anymore, and begins the bipolar cycle again. He started the nasty attitude this morning so I'm on pins and needles and scared that we're in for another roller coaster ride.

What do I do? I need help calming down & collecting thoughts before I confront his father this afternoon.

2007-09-19 01:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by redslippers 4 in Family

i had friedns throughout my school years but we all moved on and didnt keep contact. it is pretty lonely without any friends no where to go or noone to talk to i have my husband and kids but sometimes it would be nice to have a friend when im at home all day it does get very lonely when you see everyone else chatting and doing things together. i dont bother much with my family anymore and i do meet other parents at school and that and they are all very friendly and often ill chat while waiting but its still not the same what could i do?

2007-09-19 01:38:02 · 19 answers · asked by carla 4 in Friends

I think even the best premarital counseling glosses over a portion of the inherent risks and bruises that lay waiting in marriage. There’s a degree of sugarcoating that’s applied when it comes to marriage, a veneer of hope and Hallmark, sweetness and stickiness.

Recently, after years of being fake, my wife and I started being honest, digging past the mask of marital perfection. Suddenly we were arguing. We were challenging each other. The hidden hurts were not so hidden, the secret desires, not so secret.

I think the heart has a door. When you open it and allow the swell of emotions to pour out, you can’t control which ones rush forward. I cannot tell my heart, “I want to experience true love but not true pain” or “make me drunk on happiness but may sadness never touch my lips.”

My question is what have you learned about marriage? I learned being real with feelings means being brave enough to experience the bad ones alongside the good ones. What have you learned?

2007-09-19 01:34:14 · 22 answers · asked by longtuesday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think happens to a married family man once he reaches his 40s? Is it just a case of re-evaluating his life and wanting to live it to the full and not caring about the devastation he leaves behind? My husband refers to our marriage and family as having done his duty and now wants something for himself. I need to hear that not all men think like this otherwise I will have lost faith in humanity. Am I a statistic of a changing world? I have had to exercise so much patience that I am at bursting point. Last night we were watching a soap in which a man said to his wife "you know I love you and would do anything for you". I turned to my husband and asked whether he thought there were men who still said that to their wives. He replied "look at him, how ugly he is, he is just compensating for his lack of looks by saying these things to a woman in order to keep her". Does he think that he is good looking then, because he never says he loves me.

2007-09-19 01:29:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce