There is a guy that is an acquaintance of mine. We run into each other from time to time and he always stares at me or finds an excuse to touch my arm. I know there is a possibility he is just being friendly but I never see him being that way with anyone else. Problem is he has a girlfriend and she is not very nice. I have seen her pitch fits over nothing. Sorry but I just don't need any drama in my life. Do I avoid this guy, be friends, what? I don't want to be rude, but there are some girls that just look for something to complain about.
2007-09-19 02:06:38 · 14 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's totally flirting with you.
Try this...
The next time he touches your arm say, "Please don't do that, it makes me uncomfortable." Then continue your pleasant conversation like nothing ever happened.
If he starts avoiding you whenever you see him again, then you'll know that he wanted to be more than just friends. If he continues to talk to you, then he is just being friendly.
2007-09-19 02:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make good friends with his girlfriend and start touching his arm and staring back. He'll appreciate how you can get along with his girlfriend (or at least make the effort to try) and he'll recognize the stares and the touches being returned. You'll be in his mind so much that it will distract him from his girlfriend and he'll constantly be comparing her bitchiness to your friendliness. Eventually he'll start confiding in you his unhappiness with his girlfriend. Thats when you tell him that if you were his girlfriend you would never treat him like that. Have lunch with both of them together, then have lunch with him alone the next week. He'll notice how much happier he is with you and it won't be long before he breaks up with his girlfriend. Note that this will only work if she really is a bad person. You'll be doing him a favor since he probably doesn't realize how unhappy he is and how much happier he could be.
2007-09-19 02:54:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that this bloke fancies you (& flirting with you), and he already has a girlfriend then this should give you a few clues as to what sort of bloke this guy really is.
If I was going out with him, and he was "touchy feely" with other women, I probably wouldnt be very nice either.
I think you could probably do alot better for yourself if you stick to liking men who are available, and dont have ex/present girlfriend baggage.
2007-09-19 02:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too sexy for him. What i meant here of the word "sexy" is that you're beautiful in anyways. the way you move, the way you talk, the way you smile, the way you stare at him...etc. sorry... if i mention all aspects here this space is not enough of your beauty. Thus...this makes him crazy about you, the only problem he can't make a move cause he got strick devilish girlfriend.LOL!
anyways, i advice you to be simply friendly with him and don't give him a chance to court you. that is...if you want peace in your office or place. i don't want you get involved with a fight with his girl with just one man. Avoid, too, having a reputation of man grabber.
2007-09-19 02:55:38 · answer #4 · answered by poorguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do something to somebody you don't won't done to you. If he has a g/f back off, and let it fade without you interfering, if you see him out be a friend and leave it at that. If you don't want any drama, don't make any, see this for what it is nothing at this point.
2007-09-19 03:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by carmel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking him over to a corner somewhere private(where his girlfriend is not around) and tell him what you feel and that you want to know how he feels about you? He might be stuck with this other girl and be looking for a way out....you!
2007-09-19 02:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by robin r 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree on the last part, fully. I think that he's tired of his girlfriend and finds you interesting and attractive. I think you should wait and see what happens and if he likes you, then he'll break up with her for you, but that's what I think. From the story, I don't think he likes who he's with so I think it'll be pretty soon before he does something about it. Good luck with it!
2007-09-19 02:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by UniversalGalaxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you stressing over?
He has a girlfriend, he has not done anything other than be your friend, and he has not asked you to date him.
He's taken and obviously he likes her or he wouldn't be with her, no matter how jealous you are or what your opinion is. Get over it, find another guy.
2007-09-19 02:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously this guy is obsess with you try your best to avoid this guy because he has a girlfriend and you said that u dont want no drama and you dont no ***** all up in your face. as your friend please leave this guy alone but if he leave his girl make sure that you are the first to get him O.K.
2007-09-19 02:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't avoid him, that's a bit harsh. If she is that bad, and if he is unhappy, he will break up with her eventually. However, if he doesn't, and tries 2 move things along with you beforehand, then he's not worth knowing.
2007-09-19 02:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by That chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋